I always treat women with respect and would not force anyone into something they didn't want to do. The main reason I haven't succeeded in the dating world is that most of the women I do meet seem to be too heavy of partiers for me. As a general rule, the more nerdy and boring you are- the better. But that doesn't mean you have to look like a nerd...lol.
I just realized they don't really have a blank on here where you describe what you are looking for. I know most of the guys are probably just looking for sex but I am looking for a relationship. I know that you usually have to be friends first to get there, but that's my ultimate goal. I would really like to find a caring and intelligent person with whom I can have good conversations. While someone local would obviously be more convenient, I truly want to find the best match for me so I'm open to chatting with you if you are in Siberia as well.