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37 Boulder, CO Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last Online
Yesterday – 2:36pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Not at all
Other, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Working on masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Norwegian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm GGG. One of those "creative types" you were warned of. I'm a feminist, a polyamorist, a radical centrist.

I'm a fan of Italian slasher movies & Marcel Proust, grim German philosophy & Harry Potter.

I was raised in Norway, born in New Jersey, spent my adolescence and young adulthood in Albuquerque and now live in Boulder. When people ask me where I'm "from," I must admit I have a hard time answering...
What I’m doing with my life
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I've just started grad school, in pursuit of an MA. Aiming for a Doctorate in Literature/Philosophy, with an eye toward professorship sometime in the distant future.

I write surrealistic horror stories and literary/film reviews. If you are curious, I can direct you to places where you can read my work.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Conversation, making people laugh, coming up with terrible notions, devil's advocacy, listening, reading. Some other things you may get to know if you so desire. I'm also rather good at being awkward in large gatherings.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm tall, and depending on the surrounding humans that can kindof stick out. Hmmm... Well, before I took to shaving my head, people would always tell me some variant of: "You look like you read alot," or "You look really smart." Which was, all in all, kinda irritating. Now they probably notice the all-black Hamlet/gothy thing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Novels: Incarnate - Ramsey Campbell, Ada - Vladimir Nabokov, The Haunting of Hill House - Shirley Jackson, London Fields - Martin Amis, Midnight's Children - Salman Rushdie, Perdido Street Station - China Mieville, The 3 Stigmata of Palmer Eldritch - Philip Dick, Gormenghast - Mervyn Peake, Little, Big - John Crowley

Everything by Ruth Rendell.

Short Stories: Robert Aickman, Joyce Carol Oates, Jorge Borges, Alice Munro, Shirley Jackson, Clive Barker, Thomas Ligotti, Franz Kafka, HP Lovecraft, Robert Chambers, Clark Ashton Smith

Poets: William Blake, Emily Dickinson, Wallace Stevens, Victor Hugo, John Ashbery


Shakespeare Play Aside from Lear, Tempest, Macbeth, Hamlet: Measure For Measure, Troilus & Cressida, The Winter's Tale, Henry IV (but for Falstaff, not that runt Hal)

Literary Theorist: Harold Bloom, AD Nuttall, Wayne Booth, Camille Paglia, S. T. Joshi, Italo Calvino

Philosophers/Psychologists: Carl Jung, Victor Frankel, Friedrich Nietzsche, Martin Heidegger (on his non-Nazi days), the Divine Marquis, Sigmund Freud, RD Laing, Simone de Beauvoir, Slavoj Zizek

Music: The Boards of Canada, Aphex Twin, Autechre, David Bowie, Nine Inch Nails, My Life With the Thrill Kill Kult, Laibach, Poe, Marilyn Manson, Claude Debussy, Erik Satie, Erasure, Delerium (particularly their earlier, darker stuff), Depeche Mode, Goblin, Zombi, Bach, Cypress Hill, Johnny Cash, KMFDM, Rasputina, Brian Eno, Smashing Pumpkins, Bruce Springsteen

I'm a bit eclectic in the music area, but I lean heavily toward music which one can write to, talk over, or which can be background for other activities.

Directors: Dario Argento, David Lynch, David Cronenberg, Ingmar Bergman, Woody Allen, Takashi Miike, Federico Fellini, Michele Soavi, John Carpenter, Satoshi Kon, Luis Bunuel, John Waters

Movies: Opera, Session 9, Tomie, In the Mouth of Madness, The Hour of the Wolf, Naked Lunch, Lost Highway, Dellamorte Dellamore, Serial Mom, The Discrete Charm of the Bourgeoise, The Thing (the remake), The Haunting (the original), Ichi the Killer, Last Year at Marienbad, Annie Hall, Se7en, Fight Club, Dawn of the Dead (the original, though the remake was fun too), Perfect Blue, Requiem for a Dream, Quills, They Come From Within

TV: Hannibal, The Killing, True Detective, The Wire
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, companionship & love & sex, a means to express myself imaginatively, conversation, cats, hope.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Literature (mine as well as that of others). Philosophy, film, mysticism. The Buddha-nature. Nightmares. Sexuality, relationships and gender issues.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading, watching my Netflix, sometimes a party or a show downtown. Writing. I try to sit zazen every night, or at least every other night. I tend to be at the gym on Friday nights because it's so dead. I also try to raise the dead some Fridays, but that's just every third week...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I lived in a four story (including labryntine basement and arched, almost melodramatically moody attic) growing up. I don't know if it was only a matter of childhood imprinting or whatnot, but that house has always (and will always) stay with me. Jung once wrote that a house in one's dreams is usually a symbol of the self and the exploration of one's manifold possibilities, and I grok that. When I was in my teens and we had moved back to the good old US that house blossomed in my dreams, growing unfathomably large and sprouting strange new fruit. I see my job as a writer as plucking that fruit.

It is also possible there is a rather more prosaic, embarrassing (probably Freudian) interpretation of this dream.
You should message me if
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Write me if you enjoy good conversations, late night walks, reading together, sharing creative projects, going out to eat, staying in to enjoy the company of a lover, exploring and expanding your horizons, or plotting to overthrow the current paradigm.

Write me if you are either familiar and comfortable with polyamory or if you feel you could potentially enjoy a relationship of this sort. My relationships tend to be autonomous, but filled with communication. They also tend to be filled with v's and t's and w's. How's that for cryptic?

I'm into honesty. Being honest blows lying out of the water any day. Unless you've got Anne Frank hiding in your attic. Then lying is A-Ok.

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