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Sammael777

37 Boulder, CO Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:41pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Norwegian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a horror writer, a feminist, a polyamorist, a radical centrist, and an inter-denominational heretic. I'm also as GGG as I can be.

I was raised in Norway, born in New Jersey, spent my adolescence and young adulthood in Albuquerque and now live in Boulder. When people ask me where I'm "from," I usually settle on "Earth."
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm about to earn my MA and then I plan on earning that most lucrative of degrees, a MFA in Creative Writing. I know. I too can already hear money avalanche rolling toward me.

I write surrealistic horror stories and literary/film reviews. If you are curious, I can direct you to places where you can read my work. My fiction has been published once, in the magazine Weird Tales.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Conversation, making people laugh, voicing the unspeakable, devil's advocacy, listening, writing (I'd like to think), reading, list-making.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think people notice my size (vertically speaking), my bald head, my friendly smile, and the horde of gremlins which accompany me everywhere I wander.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Please feel free to speed-read this list of favorites. It's hear to give a general impression of me and not to serve as some litmus test of who I am looking for.

Novels:
Incarnate - Ramsey Campbell
Ada - Vladimir Nabokov
The Haunting of Hill House - Shirley Jackson
London Fields - Martin Amis
Midnight's Children - Salman Rushdie
Perdido Street Station - China Mieville
The 3 Stigmata of Palmer Eldritch - Philip Dick
Gormenghast - Mervyn Peake
Little, Big - John Crowley

Everything by Ruth Rendell.

Short Stories: Robert Aickman, Joyce Carol Oates, Jorge Borges, Alice Munro, Shirley Jackson, Clive Barker, Thomas Ligotti, Franz Kafka, HP Lovecraft, Robert Chambers, Clark Ashton Smith

Poets: William Blake, Emily Dickinson, Wallace Stevens, Victor Hugo, John Ashbery

Beckett.

Also: Harold Bloom, Camille Paglia, Italo Calvino, Carl Jung, Friedrich Nietzsche, Martin Heidegger, the Divine Marquis, Susan Sontag, Simone de Beauvoir, Slavoj Zizek

Music: The Boards of Canada, Aphex Twin, Autechre, David Bowie, Nine Inch Nails, My Life With the Thrill Kill Kult, Laibach, Poe, Marilyn Manson, Claude Debussy, Erik Satie, Erasure, Delerium (particularly their earlier, darker stuff), Depeche Mode, Goblin, Zombi, Bach, Cypress Hill, Johnny Cash, KMFDM, Rasputina, Brian Eno, Smashing Pumpkins, Bruce Springsteen, Muse.

Directors: Dario Argento, David Lynch, David Cronenberg, Ingmar Bergman, Woody Allen, Takashi Miike, Federico Fellini, Michele Soavi, John Carpenter, Satoshi Kon, Luis Bunuel, John Waters

Movies: Opera, Session 9, Tomie, In the Mouth of Madness, The Hour of the Wolf, Naked Lunch, Lost Highway, Dellamorte Dellamore, Serial Mom, The Discrete Charm of the Bourgeoise, The Thing, The Haunting (the original), Ichi the Killer, Last Year at Marienbad, Annie Hall, Se7en, Fight Club, Dawn of the Dead (the original, though the remake was fun too), Perfect Blue, Requiem for a Dream, Quills, They Come From Within

TV: Hannibal, House of Cards, Game of Thrones, The Killing, True Detective, The Wire, New Girl
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, companionship & love & sex, conversation, cats, my imagination, hope.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Literature (mine as well as that of others). Philosophy, film, mysticism. The Buddha-nature. Nightmares and dreamscapes. Sexuality, relationships and gender issues. The future of our species (I'm kind of an optimist). Worst-case scenarios (I've got a pessimistic side as well).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading, watching my Netflix, sometimes a party or a show. Writing. I try to sit zazen every night, or at least every other night. I also love taking long walks down Colorado's magnificent seaside beaches.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I lived in a four story (including labryntine basement and arched, almost melodramatically moody attic) growing up. I don't know if it was only a matter of childhood imprinting or whatnot, but that house has always (and will always) stay with me. When I was in my teens and we had moved back to the good old US that house blossomed in my dreams, growing unfathomably large, hideously and beautifully strange. Some of my stories are set there.
You should message me if
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I'm not looking for a unicorn. Just some companionship, someone to have a fun time with, whether it moves up the relationship escalator or not.

Write me if you enjoy talking, late-night walking, reading, creating, going out to eat, staying in with someone warm (I've been called a Human Space Heater), exploring and expanding your horizons, or plotting to overthrow the current paradigm.

Write me if you are either familiar and comfortable with polyamory or if you feel you could potentially enjoy a relationship of this sort. My relationships tend to be autonomous, but though filled with communication.

I'm into honesty. Being honest blows lying out of the water any day. Unless you've got Anne Frank hiding in your attic. Then lying is A-Ok.

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