But that's OK because I'm not looking for dozens of ladies.
I'm looking for ONE lady who is interested in 'happily ever after' with
A little bit about me:
Somewhere between 5'10 and 5'11 - depends on what time of day - I think I shrink as the day goes on;)
Around 190 pounds (working on getting this lower - like nearly everybody else)
Blue eyes/Grey hair/short goatee
Don't smoke, rarely drink
Not sure why this part is even necessary but, don't do drugs (other than ibuprofen and caffeine!)
Bit of a Sci-Fi/RPG/Computer Geek
Computer Programmer with Habitat for Humanity
Creative - chain maille jewelry/gem trees/rock pictures
A bit of a smart-ass (better than being a dumb-ass!)
Love the outdoors - hiking/kayaking/disc golf/tennis/gardening/beachcombing
Indoors, I like watching a good (or bad) movie cuddled up to someone special and candlelit bubble-baths - again, with someone special :)
Spiritual without being religious
Now, the tough part, a little bit about the type of lady I am looking for:
Let's face it, while we would all love to pretend that physical attraction should be a minor consideration for a successful relationship, this is generally not the case.
I'll admit up front - I'm not Ken. But, then again, I'm not looking for
That being said, I enjoy a pretty active lifestyle and I would hope my
partner would do so, too.
If you don't think that you would be happy/comfortable spending a day hiking or paddling a kayak, we probably won't be all that compatible.
Hopefully not TOO crazy - although "eccentric" would be fine ;)
Sarcastic is good, and, if you can laugh at my terrible jokes, we may just work out! LOL
Past your ex(s)
Ready to commit to a future with someone (else).
You have probably noticed that I have divided the sections, above, into three criteria.
These represent to me the three equal aspects of a successful relationship.
I believe that Physical intimacy, Mental intimacy and Emotional intimacy must all be present, and in nearly equal proportions for a relationship to thrive.
And, just for definitional purposes, "Physical intimacy" doesn't mean sex.
Physical sharing encompasses so much more than just what takes place in the bedroom.
Perhaps these song lyrics can explain what/who I'm looking for better than I can:
You say there is no perfect place
I say I know this is true
We are just learning how to smile
And that's not easy to do
I can handle all the hell
That happens everyday
When you smile and touch my face
You make it all go away
Yes I know there ain't no finish line
I know this never ends
We are learning how to fall
And climb back up again
I know there is nothing perfect
I know there is nothing new
We are just learning
How to live together
Me and you
If you feel the same, or if anything that I have written resonates with you, please don't hesitate to contact me!
Bonus points if you know the name of the song! :)