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21 M Bismarck, ND

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:30pm
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Hey! I'm Alex, a guy living in the midwest with nothing but a small apartment and a pocket full o' dreams. I'd describe myself as a down to earth individual with his head in the clouds, and I'd also add that I can be pretty energetic. I'm a mix between an introvert and an extrovert, so I'm the type that loves being in a crowd at a music festival but also enjoys laying on the couch watching netflix for hours on end. I love making other people happy and trust comes easily with me.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I'm working quite a bit as a server at a local restaurant. I'm pretty good at my job and I make enough money to live comfortably. I'm trying to build up a decent amount of money in my savings before attending college to major in Computer Sciences. At the moment I'm a hobbyist game programmer, but I would love to turn that hobby into a career. My ultimate goal in life is to be free to use my abilities to express my thoughts and emotions on a wide scale and to somehow create something that eases the pain of life for someone else.
I’m really good at
I'm generally good at reading people once I get to know them, though there are rare individuals who constantly have me guessing. I'm also pretty good at being someone to talk to and giving advice, and I've been told both by friends and strangers that I would make a good psychiatrist or social worker. I've also been studying the Tarot for about 3 years now and I find myself giving friends, co-workers and strangers free readings at least once a week. I've been told so far that all the readings I've done have come true.
The first things people usually notice about me
Other than appearance, people say that they notice that I'm a genuine person right away. I like getting to know someone's story and I try to skip the small talk whenever possible.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I haven't read very many books lately since I've been using my time to create rather than absorb. As a child, however, I enjoyed Disco Bloodbath, The Harry Potter Series, Freak Show, The Golden Compass, Most of the books given to us in school and The Soloist.

My all time favorite movies are Party Monster, Nightmare Before Christmas, Last Holiday, Devil Wears Prada, Pirates of the Caribbean, Bridesmaids, and Moulin Rouge. I'm a little deprived when it comes to film.

I've been re-watching a lot of Portlandia and Will & Grace lately, but other than that I'll watch anything on netflix. My roommate got me hooked on teen wolf somehow...

Of all forms of media, Music is definitely my personal favorite. I listen to a lot of different genres, from Popular music to Jazz and everything in between, though I'm always drawn to electronic music with more complex beats. My current favorite artists include Pretty Lights, Purity Ring, Griz, Gramatik, Basement Jaxx, CocoRosie, Diplo, Amanda Palmer, Gorillaz, The Sounds, Crystal Castles, Justice, Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros and iamamiwhoami.
The six things I could never do without
The Positivity in my life
My Family
My Creativity
The Stars above my head
The Internet, or more specifically the ability to instantly connect with someone thousands of miles away
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to grow as a person, how to make the ones I love happy, the little things that get me through the day, how thankful I am simply to be alive, how I can get to where I want to be 5 years from now.
On a typical Friday night I am
working at the restaurant and dreaming of what I want to create next.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have an anxiety disorder that sometimes causes me to withdraw from my friends for a few days. I look at it as my body telling me that I need time to take care of myself and to recharge my batteries.

Other than that, I'm a pretty open book!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 18–25
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you feel inclined to.