Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It's hard to summarize myself in such a limited space...but here
I'm a stable, confident, warm, kind, generous, even-tempered single
guy...kinda vanilla and boring...right? However, once you get to
know me, you'll soon see that I have a kinky quirky side and am a
lot of fun. I have a dry, sarcastic sense of humor and love to
laugh. Since I've been single, I've enjoyed exploring and expanding
my sensual and sexual life, and I'm not done yet. I'm pretty much
up for anything at anytime.....(well....at least once).
So what am I looking for?
I'm looking for friendship, intimacy, companionship, love, and
whatever comes around....in whatever order they fall. I'm an
adventurous lover, and really enjoy sex.....I tend to take control
in the bedroom (if we actually end up in the bedroom), and really
enjoy pleasing my partner(s). I can't tell you how much I enjoy
that first kiss and the zing of that chemical connection with a new
I've been in both monogamous and non-monogamous relationships, and
am really comfortable in both.
Right now I'm looking for casual relationships/friendships that may
or may not turn into short or long-term relationships. I'm open to
the possibilty of a longer-term relationship, but absolutely not
obsessed or limited to looking for one.
While I'm comfortable with multiple relationships, I don't know if
I would go so far as saying that I have a poly outlook on life. I'm
certainly open to it, and will simply have to see if it's for
I have two great kids (12 and 15) who are the greatest joy in my
life. They are a priority in my life, and take a good portion of my
time. I share custody with their mother, but have them roughly half
of the time.
I appreciate intelligent women, and enjoy fast-paced
random-knowledge converstations. I fully appreciate that
personality and chemistry are important for relationships, and a
strong mind and personality are a HUGE turn-on for me.
I'm attracted to all body sizes and shapes. But for a woman to hold
my interest, she needs to be extremely comfortable with herself and
A Few Additional Random Things About Me:
I love the spirit, and energy of SF....I've worked in the City, but
could never live there. I'm a confirmed "suburbanite.
I would rather go to a neighborhood dive bar than wait in line for
the hottest nightclub in town.
I love exploring new restaurants and new foods, but if I had to
choose a last meal......it would be breakfast at my favorite diner
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I usually work in the fields of Facility Management and Logistics.
Although, recently during a spell of introspection, I realized that
I was very unhappy with what I was doing. Fortunately, I am in a
position to take the opportunity to reevaluate my priorities and
find something that I really want to do.
I volunteer a lot of time at my kid's school, which allows me to be
more involved in their lives. I'm also a youth coach, having
coached my kids teams (soccer and baseball) for the past 6 years. I
really enjoy seeing my players inprove not only their skills but
their overall understanding and appreciation of the sport.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
thinking things through logically, I like to know how things work
or how systems operate...but I don't obsess about it.
I've been told that I'm good a connecting with people, and putting
them at ease. I'm a really good coach and mentor to kids.
The first things people usually notice about me
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well let's see....my heght (6'2") and my mostly white hair (hard to
believe that at 46 I have gone almost completely white).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I enjoy trying new restaurants and new types of food. I'm a fairly
adventurous foodie....enjoy the new experiences and trying new
things with friends.
I am a voracious reader....mostly action/sci fi/mystery thillers. I
read whenever I can, usually have a couple of books going at one
time. I'm not really into the "examine my existential bellybutton"
type of books, but rather either historical or action-packed
I enjoy all types of music...in my Ipod are tons of hits from the
70's and 80's (mostly).....anything from Al Green to Metallica to
Hank Williams, Jr. Depending on my mood at the moment, I'll listen
to just about anything. I enjoy live music....anything from
intimate cafes to stadium shows.
Favorite TV shows....Daily Show (I think I have a man-crush on Jon
Stewart), Colbert Report, Chelsey Lately, Top Gear (BBC version),
Tosh.0, Person of Interest, Californication, House of Lies, Dexter,
Spartacus, Burn Notice, etc. I do watch sports, but not
I love any B movie from the 70's and 80's, and enjoy going to the
movies now.....anything from quick rom-coms to intense docudramas.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what's coming next in my life and what can I do for my kids
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
really depends on the week....sometimes at home with my kids
enjoying a dinner and movie, sometimes out with friends or on a
date doing anything and everything
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sometimes I cry watching movies:
Something for Joey
Brian's Song (the Gale Sayers Story)
Revenge of the Nerds I - IV
Shakes the Clown (if you've actually seen this movie...we may be
You should message me if
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you find my profile interesting, want to explore a new friendship,
are not a stick-thin girl, have a personality, love yourself and
are comfortable with yourself and your body.
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