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46 Los Angeles, CA Woman


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  • Ages 35–52
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My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:37pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
Post grad
Wants kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Danish (Somewhat), French (Somewhat), Ancient Greek (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Hey fellas, if you want me to write back, please indicate that you have read my profile.

New thought: do you have a Siberian Husky? Or two? Please message me! I love them.

First things first: I'm looking for my sweetheart, my beshert, my beloved. I'm up here hoping that he'll find me. I'm not at all interested in a disconnected semi-anonymous roll in the hay.

My tastes are fine and funky. My Parisian friends called me a Bo-Bo (Bourgeoise-Bohemienne). That sounds really pretentious. Apologies. It's a way of talking about appreciating quality without being obsessively acquisitive.

I come from Swedish and Finnish farmers who grew wheat and flax, and in the next generation became teachers and librarians. I also descend from English nobles who helped turn the tide in the Battle of Hastings. I'm sure there's a bit of karma there, since those folks got or retained power by beheading each other. Nevertheless, I still have a few of my great-grandmothers' pieces. She didn't behead anyone at all. She was an Episcopalian.

I am a writer, researcher, editor and filmmaker.

An ex recently said about me: "She is so full of love. Everything she touches becomes beautiful."

That also sounds like bragging. Apologies. He said it! But I do love to promote beauty and harmony in my friends and surroundings.

I am impressed and awed by Mother Nature's elegance, and wonder why we can't just get with her program instead of spending so much time, energy, and money trying to thwart her. There's a sun up there, let's figure out solar! There is no scenario in which we say that well, solar is great and could be essentially free, but it produces poison that has a half-life longer than the human race has been conscious of itself.

Cows are not healthy crowded together, their hooves pounding down the soil, eating corn and getting fat, unhappily mooing as they stand in their own and their sisters' excreta—which, in the aggregate, produces pollution. This scenario destroys soil and water supplies, and the meat from these unhappy beings causes heart disease and obesity in people, and, obviously, we should consider the suffering of the cows themselves. The way we make them live just is not cool. Cows like to roam free and eat grass. If they roam free and eat grass, their hooves aerate the soil, their excreta feeds the grass and the eco-system is strengthened.

I propose we follow the beauty way, and try with all our might to lessen suffering and heighten bliss and pleasure for all beings.

I'm trying to balance my nice-nice Libra/Virgo qualities that are in a grand opposition to a helluva lotta Aries fire.

I am very loyal and have a strong sense of fairness. I can be fierce.

An an experiment, I'd especially like to hear from you if you were born in 1961, 1973, 1965, 1977, 1960 or 1972. I'm a Rooster.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to remember that I am spirit having a human experience.

A writer, a reader, an editor, a dancer, a listener, a healer. But what I really want to do is direct.

I love to dance, but haven't gotten enough of that lately. Join me? I'd like to learn tango. But I also just like to get down.

I come from a family of musicians and I play a little cello.

I study yoga, tantra, meditation, Jungian psychology, energy healing and shamanism.

I need to hike or swim (especially in the ocean) or bike or do a hatha session often. I would like someone to join me for these activities.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
keeping cats alive (my old guy passed away at 18 1/2) and starting trees from seed, even with northern exposure.
The first things people usually notice about me
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is that I make them feel tingly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I am an adventurous cook, and like to use every dish in the kitchen. Or just make a nice cheese sandwich (but the cheese? I've got some Toma from Point Reyes Farmstead Cheese Company I'm ready to break open). (I actually did open it. It was OK.)

I have five giant bars of raw Peruvian cacao in my fridge and smoked Spanish paprika on my spice shelf. (I'm on my last bar of Peruvian chocolate now, and going fast!)

My secret go-to ingredients are saffron, Cointreau, cardamom or Angostura Bitters. I guess that's kinda me: sweet, spicy and a little unexpected.

I love sacred music where you can sing along—

I also like all kinds of music from Tortoise to Junip to Great Northern to Joni Mitchell to Led Zep to Schubert to A.R. Rahman to Julieta Venegas to Celia Cruz to Perez Prado to Sibelius to the Knife to Bjork to Philip Glass to Fever Ray to the Doors to Duke Ellington.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
One of my spiritual practices is to once in a while "do without." It puts an interesting perspective on what you think you really need vs. what is just a momentary whim.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
quantum reality.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
lighting candles
You should message me if
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you have a good heart and good hands, and are willing to go the distance.