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46 Los Angeles, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 35-52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:01pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Danish (Somewhat), French (Somewhat), Ancient Greek (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I don't answer one word messages, unless it's a very interesting word.

I'm looking for my sweetheart, my beshert, my beloved.

My tastes are fine and funky— I appreciate quality without being super acquisitive. I'm a bit of a foodie, but not obsessively so. I'm on a salty kick right now. Bubbe's pickles!

I am a writer, researcher, editor and filmmaker. I have possibly way too many books. Sort them with me? Convince me that I can sell half of them and you will be my hero.

I'm really looking for someone with whom I can share daily hikes, walks, yoga, dancing and sweating with heavily beating hearts.

I have a dual membership at the LACMA and like to go often, both for the art and the artisanal cocktails at Stark Bar. I also love the movies, especially but not exclusively art-house and foreign. I like a good popcorn movie (and popcorn, but real butter only, please!). It's Oscar season, so let's go see Spotlight and the one about the guy on the blacklist.

Do you have a Siberian Husky? Or two? Please let's get together and go grass mushing! I love them. I love all animals. I have two lovely cats.

I am very loyal and have a strong sense of fairness. I can be fierce. I use big words. I also sometimes use salty language. I'm a wordsmith! It's what I do.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to remember that I am spirit having a human experience.

A writer, a reader, an editor, a dancer, a listener, a healer. But what I really want to do is direct. Working on making that happen.

I come from a family of musicians and artists. I have a cello I haven't played in a while, I can keep a beat and like singing jazz standards, bluegrass harmonies and medieval tunes. The shul I mentioned before has a great davening team and I sing my heart out during services, in fairly passable but often faked Hebrew. I love kirtan chanting as well.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
freestyling in the kitchen (but not with baked goods) and starting trees from seed, even with northern exposure. My kapok tree is 11 feet tall, growing out my apartment window. Ideally, you have, or we can find together, a yard that needs a tree that wants to grow 200 feet tall. I'm like that tree—vast potential, but a bit root bound. I'm ready for a transplantation!
The first things people usually notice about me
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is that I make them feel tingly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I am an adventurous cook, and like to use every dish in the kitchen.

I have five bars of raw cacao I brought from Peru in my fridge and smoked Spanish paprika on my spice shelf.

My secret go-to ingredients are saffron, Cointreau, cardamom or Angostura Bitters. I guess that's kinda me: sweet, spicy and a little unexpected.

I love sacred music where I can sing along—

I also like all kinds of music from Tortoise to Junip to Great Northern to Joni Mitchell to Led Zep to Schubert to A.R. Rahman to Julieta Venegas to Celia Cruz to Perez Prado to Sibelius to the Knife to Bjork to Philip Glass to Fever Ray to the Doors to Duke Ellington.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
quantum reality.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
lighting candles
You should message me if
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you have a good heart and good hands, and are willing to go the distance.