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29 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Feb 28
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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Easy-going supervillian seeks accomplice to assist in manning a space-laser and holding the world hostage till our demands are met. I'm fun, compassionate, and earnest.

I appreciate people who are passionate about their interests and their goals but who also have that dreamer side. I love trying new things but I'm also a sucker for old favorites. I'm excited to see where it all takes me.

I'm looking for anything from hang out buddies or casual dating to something more long term. Questions? Just ask.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a writer working on a couple of different things for publication. Going to massage school starting in Jan.

I love to have a good time getting out and going on a hike in the mountains, exploring a new restaurant or a new neighborhood, playing board games or trivia with some buds, curling up to a good movie (or theatre show!), or just shooting the shit on the couch with a few beers and some good friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, writing, reading people, trivia, going from zero to sixty with intellectual conversations/debates, finding my way around foreign cities...seriously, I found my hostel after being dropped off at a deserted train station at like three in the morning in Bangalore.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Weird should ask them, not me.

Everyone says their eyes but I suppose that holds true for me as well. They're gray-green. I also get that I'm a "sweetheart" a lot. Not sure what to make of that one...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors that I can't get enough of: Lowry, Woolf, McCarthy, Shakespeare (seriously, go on a date with me and I will probably at some point make a Shakespeare joke/reference...), Gogol, Bulgakov, Vonnegut, Borges, Melville, Wallace, Morrison, Didion, Miller...etc. etc.

Music: Beatles, Stones, Dylan, The Eagles, Porter Robinson, Zoe Muth, Nina Simone, Townes Van Zandt, The Avett Brothers, Old Crow Medicine Show, The Pixies, Billy Joel, Nirvana, Sublime, Queen, Iron & Wine, Wolf Parade, Lana Del Rey, Diamond Rings, MIKA, The Airborne Toxic Event, The Mynabirds, Lia Ices, Laura Marling, Julia Stone, Amy Millan, Amanda Palmer, Of Monsters and Men, Englishman, Dark Dark Dark, Emily Arin, Caleb Coy, Ludovico Einaudi, The Fugees, John Lennon, Paul Simon...which doesn't mean you won't find me shaking my thang to the latest Nicki Minaj or Rihanna...

Movies: Network, Gone With the Wind, Princess Mononoke, Gomorrah, Adaptation, The Big Lebowski, Blade Runner, The Dark Crystal, A Fish Called Wanda, Jackie Brown, Le Samourai, My Own Private Idaho, Moulin Rouge!, The Godfather Part II, The Empire Strikes Back, Under the Volcano, All About Eve, What Ever Happened to Baby Jane?, The Killers (both 46 and 64), Funny Games, Happiness, Drive, The Life Aquatic, Weekend...

Shows: Girls, Game of Thrones, Veep, SVU, Drag Race, and Project Runway...that's about all the time I can justify to the tube...

Food: Me Want Food! I love most any foods except olives (taste like feet) and mayo-based sauces (creamy goop with no point). I'm a fiend for snacks like hummus and pita chips, popcorn, or, god forbid, chips n' salsa. (I think I might have a serious issue with chips n' salsa...)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Outdoors
Always Having New Places to See
Physical Intimacy
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Chips n' salsa, stories that I want to write/am writing, unnoticed hegemonies that might be affecting how I interact with the world, masculinity and queerness, books, how I seriously can't quiet my crazy neurotic head, plants, planets, whatever I'm reading at the moment, positive mantras, how much I'm seriously like Hannah from Girls, sundry other queries.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Maybe watching a movie or show with the roomie. Maybe going out with friends to a happy hour somewhere. Maybe going out dancing. Maybe being an antisocial dork and hiding out at home with my roomie, my pup, and my projects.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I've got lots of funny stories but those are best saved for in-person but, as a teaser...I often belt showtunes when I'm alone in my apartment in my underwear.
You should message me if
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You fit any of these criteria:

You're curious to know more.

You're taller than me.

You think we might be a good match on some level of interests.

You're a dork but also can hold a conversation and ask questions.

You are Ewan McGregor.

You have chips n' salsa or a way to get a laser into space.

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