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31 F South Windsor, CT

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Not at all
Atheism, and laughing about it
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has cats

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My self-summary
men have referred to me as smug and a real piece of work. this shit talk is not unfounded. amongst friends i'm more self-deprecating. i'm unapologetic, gritty, and ride or die. unpredictable even to myself. i live hard, one day at a time.

just got out of a long term relationship and intend to spend my thirties enjoying my flat stomach. maybe when i become lumpy and my face resembles a rotting pumpkin i'll want someone to love me again. right now i just want someone to worship my body and make me laugh.

i'm turned on by decisiveness, wit, and emotionally honest people. seeking someone confident and direct with an air of mystery. moral compass intact. i'm disinclined to become involved with anyone whose political or religious ideologies differ much from my own. humor, the ability and willingness to cook, and grand romantic gestures will get you everywhere. preferably you are well read, a cat lady or gentleman, jewish, and strong enough to carry me from the couch to the bed.
What I’m doing with my life
experimenting with sobriety.
I’m really good at
perception and persuasion. i probably would've been burned at the stake in the 1600s.
The first things people usually notice about me
that i look pleased with myself - like a cat with a canary in her mouth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

king kong theory - virginie despentes
on beauty - zadie smith
fear of flying - erica jong
the secret history- donna tartt
perfume: the story of a murderer - patrick suskind
blood and guts in high school - kathy acker
american gods - neil gaiman
blood sugar - nicole blackman
violence - helena kvarnström

while i have a deep love of fiction, i like to mix it up with sociological studies, books related to gender politics, memoirs, and poetry (sylvia plath's ariel still devastates me). i also enjoy a nice trashy read by the pool in the summer.


who's afraid of virginia woolf?
a woman under the influence
minnie and moskowitz
a streetcar named desire
sunset boulevard
last tango in paris
all about eve
what ever happened to baby jane?
looking for mr. goodbar
perfume: the story of a murderer
baby doll

also enjoy kenneth anger short films and anything regarding beautiful losers of the 1970's or psychobiddies.


six feet under, peep show, twin peaks, carnivale, downton abbey, breaking bad, american horror story


le butcherettes, joy division, deerhoof, ethyl meatplow, pussy galore, roky erickson, murder city devils, marianne faithfull, gogol bordello, man man, charles bradley, butcher holler, cibo matto, ronnie spector, lil kim, lee hazlewood, amanda palmer, the slits, be your own pet, the gun club, ultra orange and emmanuelle, teenage jesus and the jerks, MIA
The six things I could never do without
gallows humor, hitachi magic wand, the love of a tyrant, sharing confidences with strangers, forgiveness, nothingness.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
civility, therapy, sex work, suspension, astral projection, remote viewing, the pineal gland, pair bonding, krampus, gangster funerals, gynarchy, ted williams' frozen head, painting the scene of steve irwin's death, having a fatal drug overdose in an ikea showroom bed.
On a typical Friday night I am
drunk on the blood of the saints.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
sometimes i turn off the lights and get tipsy in the bathtub while listening to diamanda galas or nina simone.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex
You should message me if
you're a funny and intense woman who wants to collaborate on pornography for and by women. or if you've ever had blood drawn to write a love letter. you want to send me stargazer lilies. you'd feed me with your fork. your head would make for a fine bronzed bust.