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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 49–64
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 11:04am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Intelligent, fit, compassionate, aware, rationale, quiet, like pets, especially pooches (tho don't have any).

Seek down to earth female, big heart, curves a plus, don't expect you to be perfect (as many ads on this site seem to want me to believe!), I don't claim such.

Often play devil's advocate when presented with an argument or question, which you can probably see reflected on my comments to OkCupid questions.

Probably more witty with pen than tongue.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Have kept body fit since leaving high school. Enjoy watching sports, football all season, Basketball and Baseball during finals.

Volunteer work for LA Computer Society.... a mecca of useful information throughout the years in my ongoing computer education.

Looking at possible move to N CA, or overseas
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. situps... well, true, a typical week, about 3- 5k of various ab exercises. Body not too flexible (contorsion-wise), tho good at Power Yoga. Knowledgeable about different stock market / investment strategies, cars, computers. Working on a new website about fitness craze of early 1980's, which I was fully involved in at the time,
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my smile. I'm a quiet guy, easily noticed I think. Aware. Slender. Friendly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: "The Con Game and Yellow Kid Weil" (great book on unchanging human nature), "Your Money & Your Brain," "What Are the Odds?," "Hanna Somatics."

Movies: I like films that focus on triumph over adversity or that warms the soul. Suspense movies that are not too difficult to follow, with unexpected turns, such as "Premonition," "Next," "Training Day," "Matchstick Men." I liked "Fast & Furious 6" while constantly reminding myself I'm watching a fairy tale. Sentimental movies such as "Ghost," "King Kong," "The Man from Elysian Fields" (Mick Jagger great acting). Life's comedies that don't go overboard, such as "Youth in Revolt," "The Man who Loved Women" (original French version). Following are movies that many liked and I did not care for: "Titanic," "Gravity."

TV: Jimmy Kimmel opening monologue, News, SNL, Twilight Zone reruns, History Channel, CNN Crossfire.

Food: Thai, Seafood, Italian, Mexican (more atmosphere than food). Sushi - ugh! Sweets like cookies - my weakness.

Music: Beatles, Rolling Stones, Beach Boys, 70's & 80's music. Ella Fitzgerald Jazz. George Ezra.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My health / fitness, Google, smartphone, Trader Joe's, talk radio, heavy petting, and a mid-day siesta.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Staying healthy and fit. stock market.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully heading to my neighborhood pub for TGIF.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've typed on a Dvorak keyboard for 25 years.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Well…. if you're interested in my profile and like my photos would be a great start. You have kids is a plus, preferably good ones. And my answers to OKC's questions appeal to you.

And please let's not waste each others' time if you are:

a smoker or alcoholic
a full time couch potato
hate dogs or kids
a different age than listed on your profile
Up to your ears in debt from poor money management.

Now, would be good if you are better than me at bringing up / talking about feelings between us. Otherwise, normal, reasonably balanced life, no major weirdness, relatively happy, clear thinking...I am all of that and more.

interested?... send a message..