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61 M Westchester, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 20
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Intelligent, fit, compassionate, aware, rationale, quiet, like pets, especially pooches (tho don't have any).

Seek down to earth female, big heart, curves a plus, don't expect you to be perfect (as many ads on this site seem to want me to believe!), I don't claim such.

Often play devil's advocate when presented with an argument or question, which you can probably see reflected on my comments to OkCupid questions.

Probably more witty with pen than tongue.
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoy work as aerospace engineer, and also work more hours than I'd care to admit. Like watching sports, football all season, Basketball and Baseball during finals. Kept body fit since leaving high school, and still do.

Volunteer work for LA Computer Society.... a mecca of useful information throughout the years in my ongoing computer education.

Acknowledge we are in the midst of a nasty economy, many are out of work or working at jobs they dislike, struggling to make ends meet. Yet I’m surprised how few ads on this site admit this fact, and seem numb to the present state of the economy.
I’m really good at
Situps... well, true, but not what many expect to read. A typical week, about 3- 5k of various ab exercises. Body not too flexible (contorsion-wise), tho good at Power Yoga. Knowledgeable about different stock market / investment strategies. Cars, computers. Working on a new website about fitness craze of early 1980's, which I was fully involved in at the time,
The first things people usually notice about me
my smile. I'm a quiet guy, easily noticed I think. Aware. Slender. Friendly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: "The Con Game and Yellow Kid Weil" (great book on unchanging human nature), "Your Money & Your Brain," "What Are the Odds?," "Hanna Somatics."

Movies: I like films that focus on triumph over adversity or that warms my soul. Suspense movies that are not too difficult to follow, with unexpected turns, such as "Premonition," "Next," "Training Day," "Matchstick Men." I liked "Fast & Furious 6" while constantly reminding myself I'm watching a fairy tale. Sentimental movies such as "Ghost," "King Kong," "The Man from Elysian Fields" (Mick Jagger great acting). Life's comedies that don't go overboard, such as "Youth in Revolt," "The Man who Loved Women" (original French version). Following are movies that many liked and I did not care for: "Titanic," "Little Miss Sunshine."

TV: Tonight Show+ Jimmy Kimmel opening monologue, News, SNL, Twilight Zone reruns, True Blood & History Channel (when I can get them), CNN Crossfire.

Food: Thai, Seafood, Italian, Mexican (more atmosphere than food). Sushi - ugh! Sweets like cookies - my weakness.

Music: Beatles, Rolling Stones, Beach Boys, Doors, 70's & 80's music. Ella Fitzgerald Jazz.
The six things I could never do without
My health / fitness, Google, Chocolate, smartphone, talk radio, and a mid-day siesta.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Staying healthy. Work. stock market.
On a typical Friday night I am
Glad to get through another work week. Hopefully heading to my neighborhood pub for TGIF.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've typed on a Dvorak keyboard for 25 years.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 49–63
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Well…. if you're interested in my profile and like my photos would be a great start. And my answers to OKC's questions appeal to you.

And please let's not waste each others' time if you are:

a smoker or alcoholic
a couch potato
hate dogs or kids
a different age than listed on your profile
Like / own black cars
Up to your ears in debt from poor money management.

Now, would be good if you are better than me at bringing up / talking about feelings between us. Otherwise, normal, reasonably balanced life, no major weirdness, relatively happy, clear thinking...I am all of that and more.

interested?... send a message..