I love learning what makes people tick.
Listening actively and hearing what lies beneath the words.
I like conversation to make a difference, rather than just be chats.
I am a bit fed up of all the crap that goes with the internet, so speaking directly cuts through the bs. :)
hope you'd like to find out what I am
R :)

I love to experiment with relationships,
(not the same as f***ing with your head),
I enjoy role-play as a method of relaxing and expressing freely who you are.

Being in control of the situation,
leading you through the fears,
taking you to the point where your heart can't beat any faster,
then have you release it all and hold you,
fulfilled :)
I have sensible limits and will test yours' whilst respecting them.
I will take you gently through pain, into passion and love.
I do not delight in pain, I will thrill you with the possibility of coming through it.
I can humiliate, create a tension which when released will engulf you in extacy.

My smile, wit and my love of people.

The Magus - John Fowles
Steel Magnolias
Little Feat, Jackson Browne
Entrecote, Sushi, Mint Ice-cream

My son,
music,
loving sex (that's why I'm here)
kinky sex (that's what makes it so much fun)
close conversation
people to love.

sex,
what makes people happy

chatting and drinking with friends

I am married, and yes I said I am available.
Now I have been invited to expand my profile to a thousand words!
Cor Blimey.....
Anyway I guess that gives me the opportunity to explain what I mean by married and available.
One way to put it is that I want to have my cake and eat it.
Don't we all?
:)
More pertinently perhaps; I would say that one relationship doesn't support every facet of my life.
I love my wife, and she me. We have a home together, we know each other well. We know what we agree on and what we disagree on. We know what each other likes to eat and what each other likes to listen to music-wise, and watch, movie-wise.

We both also know that we like new things:
New films,
Parties with new friends,
New foods or new restaurants with favourite foods.
New people and new experiences.
We both also know that we like to have some privacy from each other.
Most of all we respect and love each other and would not do anything to deliberately hurt each other.

Sexually, we enjoy each other and yet both of us are aware that we sometimes want more and respect that that is ok.

Emotionally too, we sometimes need other people. That doesn't mean that she or I have no place, just that we might prefer to share some facets with a close friend. Perhaps a close friend that we also enjoy sexual contact with.

By the way......
why is it ok to eat food cooked by someone other than a spouse and not have sex with someone other than a spouse?

Or perhaps to put it more kindly:
why is it ok to talk for hours with a close 'monogamous' friend 'platonically'? and not ok to have a night of torrid sex with them?

Where is love based? in the head or in bed?
I love people for who they are, not for how great they are sexually.
I have sex with women who I enjoy having sex with, whom I have a friendship and love that brings me close enough to want that with them.

I hope all of this is clear to you.. .
I would love to discuss it too.
so do please just......

You are interested in me as a person and;
would like to openly experiment with role-play/ control/ spanking/ humiliation-love/ forced exhibitionism/ water sports.
Or would just like a close relationship with someone who understands about the above :)