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44 Kingwood, TX Man


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  • Ages 29–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:25am
6′ 0″ (1.82m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Working on Ph.D program
Has kids
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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Kingwoodguy is looking for a someone to giggle with, a permanent dance partner. I seek a pleasant master of ease and sincerity, adroitness and flexibility, someone liberal and open-minded. Someone who smiles more than she frowns and laughs because she GETS IT! I find intelligence incredibly attractive. I'm looking for that sexy, smart type who's not stuck on herself. I'd like to meet someone genuine about her search: past the rebound, ready to share, realistic and sincere.

I know what I like, I know what I'm looking for, and I did the research to learn how this site works. OKC offers tools that no other (pay site, even) can even approach. Unfortunately, users often unknowingly skew their own scores or search results. If both parties only answer a reasonable amount of relevant questions and you still have less than 50% of common answers, you aren't getting an accurate picture. This is especially true if they added comments you can't see in the questions you skipped! You know you can go back and delete in 24 hours, right?

It's a lot like life. If someone is unaware of just a certain amount details about something, doors seem to lock them out of opportunities, wisdom, or of a perspective, which could change their entire life's path!

My profile is unique. It is also an investment. If this is too much for you, we aren't gonna work! You WILL know a LOT about me... (through comments I add). IF you unlock the QUESTIONS. People can only see what they are willing to reveal themselves! Show me yours and I'll gladly show ya mine (blush/dimple). I've been told that my profile is entertaining. Laugh with me, laugh at me, shake off the shock of profound revelations and be entertained- at the least?
What I’m doing with my life
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I kinda lost a complete year back in 2008, dealing with a surprise divorce after 14 loyal years. I do have primary custody and I view fatherhood as my FIRST full-time vocation. My kids are each approaching their birthdays this winter. My oldest son will be 21 and is a Senior, Pre-med, at Texas State. My middle son will turn 16, and my baby-girl will be 15.

I've also owned an insurance business since 1994. There are not many business opportunities that offer such a persistent passive income, so it has been nice to have! My residual commissions have allowed me to invest a chunk of my hours writing papers as a full- time college, then graduate/post- graduate student and a TA/lecturer/adjunct professor over the past few years. Doing this was central to my healing process.

All at the same time, I had THREE staple ingredients of my life fall between my fingers (my marriage, a major blow to my business, and serious questions about my religious perspective.) These also triggered a major shaking up of my entire social network, just as I needed it most! School was where I found refuge. As my kids have gotten older, things are seeming easier and easier. I may have figured a few things out after all?

My thesis research has split evenly between sales-and-marketing applications and analysis of Social Science Statistics. My dissertation theme, focuses on how our beliefs, ideas, thought processes and cultural identities, have evolved and how these compare to the historiography that's built into our spatial-temporal reasoning... I know, right?!!

Recently, I have reassessed my goals in education. The path to tenured professor doesn't seem to be the most efficient investment of my talent, but I will always be writing. I do have published works and have been working on a six- book series, which (due to its design) cannot be released until all are finished. Its pretty humorous stuff, though (I'm told; publisher said my writing style is as good as David Sedaris? So, where is that $6m per book advance??). Meanwhile, I have a few other things I want to accomplish, I have bills to pay, a house to maintain, kids to raise and have a life that needs to be lived. I had been "hiding" for too long! With that said, I recently completed an LSAT prep course (for Law School) and have taken the PLSAT and feel encouraged by consistent perfect scores to go ahead and switch gears (but I'm riding the clutch). What can I say? I've done every degree- level in pairs, so why not a second Doctorate? We'll see.
I gotta keep moving!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'd say writing, my saxophone, dancing, giving massages, makin' dimples, listening and yes- I am good at gabbing, too! I think my kids would tell ya I'm good at being a dad, also! I may not be able to do the things a mom can, but being stable and dependable is what they need. By being "tuned in to their frequency" and knowing what they think is fun or cool, or at least trying to, goes a long way in their eyes and in their hearts.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I guess you'll have to meet me to verify this, but people say my dimples are my most notable feature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Quote which describes me:
"The best author will be the one who is ashamed to become a writer" -Friedrich Nietzsche
"They are hesitant to publish their inner thoughts, for fear of labeling, but do so dutifully." If someone is offended by something I write, they are exactly the person who needed to read it!

Books: Tough to say. I absorb well over a dozen books a month (Via audio books)!

Movies/TV: Patrick Swayze was the man! I was often told how much I resembled him in his- and my "heydays" in the early 90's (I lost the mullet). "The Time of My Life," was an excellent book and I believe we share a lot of views (listen to the audio- he reads it). Man, he could dance!

In many ways I relate to the character "Brian", the cool talking dog on Family Guy (that's also my name). Like any pupper, we like to have fun! We also yearn for someone we can share intelligent conversation with, but somehow don't fit in with the "geeks/nerds/dorks" (there is a funny test on OKC which deciphers this). Sometimes I feel like Walter White (Heisenberg, even) from Breaking Bad (best show, ever!), in certain ways. I'd like to be more like "The dude", from the Big Lewbowski, though.

Music: Whatever, I like a lot of stuff, but since I'm not in High School I don't think this really defines me. I will mention that the range goes from Jazz to RAP, Rock to Country.

Dance: My favorite dancin' music would be Lynyrd Skynyrd's Sweet Home Alabama, with a live band! I also like salsa, cumbia, and bachata. Other than Tejano and line dances, I'll dance to anything. Save a slow dance to a Marvin Gaye song for me?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) love
2) joy
3) hope
4) reason
5) balance
6) intelligence
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I know this sounds corny, but whenever I see old couples together who hold hands and embrace and are genuinely happy to be with each other, I cannot stop thinking of them- even days later! I also love to see older couples out for a night of dancing or on a date somewhere.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm open book.
You should message me if
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Your curiosity is piqued AND peaked!
Message once you've read the questions section, my added comments, and the tests. If you can jive with my perspective and you appreciate my sincerity, then that's more than half the distance to my heart!

I am not yet where I am going, but have experienced a LOT and I enjoy each day while I am getting there! It really doesn't matter to me what you do or where you are going. Its the attitude that many things are interesting and fun, along with the maturity and awareness of the fact that TIME IS LIMITED. We have to constantly remind ourselves that pleasure is important and we have to manage our lives to find the quality and mix that fits our own need for satisfaction. Life is wonderful; we don't know what lies around the next corner, but we should realize that time is always ticking, ticking, ticking. My motto is: after responsibility, comes appreciation, then exhilaration!