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kinsexy

39 / M / Gay / Single

Durham, North Carolina

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of masters program
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English, French (Poorly)

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I am introspective, diligent, and supportive.

My Self-Summary

I have a great life. I love being challenged and having my preconceived notions cracked open, opening my eyes to totally new possibilities. I have three housemates who keep things really interesting, usually for the better!

What I’m doing with my life

I just opened my own business, and it rocks. Plus, I'm working on a book, and I think it's pretty decent.

I’m really good at

Writing bad poetry, giving massages, listening, figuring things out, reading challenging stuff, people-watching, introspecting.

The first things people usually notice about me

My friend Alicia says I have beautiful eyes and a great smile, and I have a great sense of people, very perceptive.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

(A)Books: The Eden Project; Why We Do What We Do; Getting the Love You Want; The Body and Its Dangers; Nights at the Circus; Tales of the City; Get Fuzzy; Life Is Hell

(B)Movies: Beauty and the Beast; Sixth Sense; Fight Club; Mememento; Urbania; Finding North; Head On; Harold and Maude

(C)Music: Sondheim/Into the Woods; Madonna/Erotica; Sugarcubes/Life's Too Good; Prince/Around the World in a Day; Fela Kuti/Underground System; Brady Earnhart/After You; Doug Stevens/From Christopher to Castro; Garth Brooks/The Chase; Beck/Midnight Vultures; G.Love and Special Sauce/self-titled; Bach/St. Matthew's Passion; Rutter/Requiem; Djivan Gasparyan/I Will Not Be Sad in This World

(D)Foods: Indian; Mediterranean; Ethiopian; Mexican; Elmo's

The six things I could never do without

Veggie burgers; a dictionary; massage; junk stores; sleeping in; soulful cities.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Human nature.

On a typical Friday night I am

Winding down, reflecting, and trying to get things done before Saturday.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I feel like my life is overflowing, and I'm not sure I'm ready to let anyone else in.

You should message me if

I hope you'll message me if you think we would challenge each other supportively.