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31 Grovetown, GA Woman


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  • Ages 20–48
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My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:46pm
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Dropped out of University
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Sign Language (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Me, in a nut shell:

This is the story of a girl,
Who cried a river and drowned the whole world
And while she looked so sad in photographs,
I absolutely love her,
When she smiles...

How many days in a year?
She woke up with hope but she only found tears.
And I can be so insincere,
Making her promises never for real
As long as she stands there waiting,
Wearing the holes in the soles of her shoes
How many days disappear?
When you look in the mirror so how do you choose?
Your clothes never wear as well the next day,
And your hair never falls in quite the same way-
But you never seem to run out of things to say...

I am genuine, playful, and intelligent

I have been told i give great hugs-i think it's an energy thing. I am big into energy, and i am learning more about it and how to control and project it on a daily basis-it's all about the connection for me, most of the time. Im a huge hedonist when the situation warrants, and get pleasure from giving pleasure.

I dont give my cell # out to people I dont know well, and I'm not glued to OKC. My KIK name is the same as here if you'd really like to keep in contact with me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Looking for work after moving back to the CSRA, hanging out with my framily after my extended absense, and getting ready for major house renovations/projects after the big move.

I've been researching homesteading some-nothing major, but I've been learning to can, and dehydrate, and have plans for a garden, plus tentative plans for chickens and indoor and outdoor hydroponics setups.

I'm taking interest classes, and seeking culture where I can find it and attending various local festivals.

I've recently been poking around trying to find local activities and groups that interest me. I'm formulating a plan and rearranging my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
If I told you.... *grins*
I am a great listener. I am empathic and empathetic. I am great with children, old folks, and pets, and parents usually love me. I find it easy to relate to people. Im also a naturally talented (though clinically untaught) maseusse and good in the kitchen. I've become awesome at both adapting recipes for differing dietary needs and using whatever I happen to find randomly in the fridge/pantry to make some awesome on-the-fly recipe. Im a gifted writer, as well. I love to bootblack, and I am still a total novice with lots to learn but I've been given a lot of compliments...Plus some other things I just wont mention here. *winks*
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Yes, I know my username 'is spelled wrong-" except it's not. It's a play on a tattoo I have "Ancora imparo' and the word incorrigible. Both suit me well.

My smile, or lack thereof. I have a resting bitch face, and when that's not in use, I wear my heart on my sleeve unintentionally and it tends to draw people in either way. I have also been told I have a very musical laugh and a pleasant, sexy voice.

My sense of humor. I am usually looking for the funny side in everything-life isnt easy and stress is everywhere. Humor is a great diffuser. I have a wicked, caustic sense of humor and tend to push the envelop sometimes...If Im around the right company, I will say things that probably shouldnt be said but are true and damned hilarious just the same. If it didnt come out of my mouth, you can bet Im still thinking it.

My tattoos. (Just the two...)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Jane Eyre
A Prayer for Owen Meany
The Awakening
the Anita Blake novels
Harry Potter series

Wayne's World
At First Sight
The Hangover
Something's Gotta Give
Good Will Hunting
Meet Joe Black

Music (I once lost my Ipod at work and they couldnt tell whose it via the music choices. "There was Disney, there was Pink Floyd, there was John Mayer, there was Ozzie Osbourne, there was Rodgers and Hammerstein. After awhile I just gave up!")

Goo Goo Dolls
Evans Blue
Death Cab for Cutie
John Mayer
Pink Floyd
Nine Inch Nails
Rob Zombie
Rise against
Against Me
Barenaked Ladies
Blues Traveler
Chris Isaak
John Mellencamp
Phil Collins
Hootie and the Blowfish
Lady Antebellum
Alice Cooper
Cheap Trick
Dave Matthews Band
We could be here all day....



I also follow a gluten free, casein free diet-I am not delusional enough to think I will lose weight on it, but do find it helps me in other ways. Celiac disease does run in my family but have not been tested (no insurance)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
cuddling, chocolate, coffee, music, my friends, bdsm
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Right now, finding balance in my life, striving to be a better person. Wondering, a lot-where am I going, what am I supposed to be doing.

How to word my profile so that single guys just trying to get into my pants don't bother to message me and beg for sex, or try to convince me to beg for sex....

I also think that some of the categories that OkCupid makes us put ourselves in are inaccurate and restrictive-particularly 'bisexual' on my profile. Everyone and their brother has been asking so i'll clarify. I technically identify as heteroflexible and demisexual

I just read someone's profile-it made me laugh, he sounded like a pretty cool guy-and OKC wanted me to know that if this guy seemed cool, but I wasnt sure about his hygiene, that they could recommend someone "cleaner." I just...I dont know, man....Sure, its good to know, but how clean are we talking? Was guy A Pigpen from Peanuts? Was guy B Mr. Udall from As Good as it Gets? I now have the creeps...

I don't want to be with someone who thinks they have the answers. I want to be with someone who is wise enough and brave enough to ask the questions.

I dont want to be with someone who accepts me for what I am-I want to be with someone who accepts me for where I am and sees what I can become.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lately, curled up with the pup at home....occassionally thrift store scouring with friends, cooking a family-style meal, or snuggled around a bonfire.

I'm always lookng for something to do, some new activity to try, or to meet new people to hang out with, Fridays or not. If this sounds appealing to you, drop me a line, please.

We also have 'gun cleaning Fridays' so there is that...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am a pretty open book, generally. I talk about nearly everything, and if you ever have a question please feel free to ask regardless.

I have an elipses addiction.

The most *taboo* thing I'll mention here is that I am into BDSM as a lifestyle choice (not just a bedroom thing) and I consider myself poly friendly.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You find me interesting, you'd like to hang out, you're looking for friends or activity partners in the CSRA area.

You should NOT message me if me being vision impaired (nondriver) bothers you, if you're not family oriented, if chicks with tattoos bother you, or if you're in another country and want a long distance relationship. It's not going to happen. Do not message me if you want NSA sex.