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25 M Santa Ana, CA

I’m looking for

  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 23–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:34pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Japanese (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Re-doing this again because I over-think what I write.

My name is Erik, and I'm not entirely sure what I'm looking for. I know I want to share my life with someone eventually, but I'm just not sure when that moment will be. I suppose I'll just have to wait until the right person comes along, or until I bump into them like a fool cause that's usually how I meet anyone in the first place anyway.
I'm definitely not one to be shy at first, maybe nervous, but I'll have no problem asking a ton of questions personal or impersonal (depending how open/comfortable the person is). I like to talk to people, and hear their story :)...I just hope it's not one-sided.
Also.. I can be pretty outspoken, not rude, but I'm definitely a guy who has an opinion ...all within a respectable boundary of course ;).
I'd say I also have a good level of consideration around strangers and more with people who are closest to me... making others feel good makes me feel good.
I could go into more details...but then you'd know my whole life story and you'd get bored and I'd ruin any chance of attracting anyone, so I'll stop here!

I Am The Captain Of My Soul

Out of the night that covers me
black as the pit from pole to pole
I thank whatever gods may be
for my unconquerable soul
In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud
Under the bludgeonings of chance
my head is bloody, but unbowed
Beyond this place of wrath and tears
looms but the horror of the shade
and yet the menace of the years
finds, and shall find me, unafraid
It matters not how strait the gate
how charged with punishments the scroll
I am the master of my fate
I am the captain of my soul
by William Earnest Henley
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a server at Claim Jumper...still fairly new to the food industry and can see there really are layers of hatred in customer service... I don't think serving is the lowest but I think it's just above custodial services. The pay is wonderful so I shouldn't bitch too hard :P.
I'm also attending school. I'm an English major (please do all the eye rolling or long pauses now to save the awkward and also long explanation to defend my interest xD)
"You have one life and you will never be back here again. So you damned well better find something to love and love it with all your heart."- Ray Bradbury
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Daydreaming, and drooling on pillows while napping.


Being perceptive of people and understanding others.

I'm pretty good at playing pool when under the influence of alcohol.

Over-analyzing text messages.

Fighting games/RPGs

Sarcasm/dry humor/vulgar humor/referencing movies and
videogames...and anime..

"I believe that imagination is stronger than knowledge -- myth is more potent than history -- dreams are more powerful than facts -- hope always triumphs over experience -- laughter is the cure for grief -- love is stronger than death." - Robert Fulghum
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I guess that they are confused if I'm asian or white or some weird alien? I am mixed, and it usually comes up a lot in conversations.
" A true friend knows your weaknesses but shows you your strengths; feels your fears but fortifies your faith; sees your anxieties but frees your spirit; recognizes your disabilities but emphasizes your possibilities." - William Arthur Ward
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Fav. Books/Comics/Manga: This list would be infinite if I actually listed everything so I'll just name a few...
Harry Potter (Rowling),
The five people you meet in heaven (Albom),
Impulse (Hopkins),
Fahrenheit 451 (Bradbury),
The Hunger Games (Collins).
The Runaways (Marvel).
Avengers vs. X-men (Marvel).
Game of Thrones Series (George R. R. Martin).
Avengers Arena (Marvel)
The Graveyard Book (Gaiman)
Anansi Boys.
The Flash New 52 (DC)
Lord of the Flies.
Dangerous Women.
And many many more @__@

Fav. Movies:
Spirited Away.
Kill Bill.
Memoirs of a Geisha.
V for Vendetta.
Prayers for Bobby.
Easy A.
Little Miss Sunshine.
Beauty and the Beast.
Breakfast Club.
Scott Pilgrim Vs. The World.
P.S. I Love You.
Girl Interrupted.
Howls Moving Castle.
Princess Mononoke.
Erin Brockovich.
The Miracle Worker.
Marvel's The Avengers.
Mrs. Doubtfire.
The Wizard
Kick Ass 1&2
Death Proof
Terror Planet.
Life Is Beautiful
Uptown Girls.

Fav. Shows:
Avatar: The Last Airbender
Dead Like Me
X-Men Evolution
Family Guy.
I Love Lucy.
American Horror Story.
The Walking Dead
The Legend of Korra
The Unites Sates Of Tara
Dr. Who
Once Upon a Time

Fav. Music:
It 's a wide range, the only music I don't listen to is hick country music, and hardcore rap that makes me feel like the music is going to summon a drive by.

Some examples: The XX, The Naked and Famous, The Killers,
Jessie J, Kelly Clarkson, Paloma Faith, Paramore (1st - 3rd albums), The Hush Sound, Silversun Pickups, AC/DC, Robyn, Avenged Sevenfold, A Fine Frenzy, Fiona Apple, Sara Bareilles, Jimmy Eat World, Shiny Toy Guns, Metric, ....

Fav Food: I love pesto that shit will make me satisfied for days. Also any kind of mexican food that isn't spicy (i know, whats the point?! There is a point and it's the fact I'm a fucking pussy with spices.) Sushi/sashimi for days. And don't mention Panini's around me cause I will immediately go into seizures without one at that very moment.
Can you tell I like food?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
iphone! :D
My technological soul mate.
My friends.
My mood swings.
Yes, I broke the six things rule, you can add rebel to that summary if you'd like.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot thinking about my future and how in the hell I'm going to achieve it with how spastic my mind is along with my imagination. I also spend plenty on how my parents are doing and always say I should call them more when I don't (I know, I'm terrible..but I love them more than anything). I also spend a lot of time thinking if I'll die alone or die alone with a dog I can't decide.

Also...I beg the question as to why people are such assholes to people in customer service...I heavily judge people who can't treat others with respect within the customer service industry. I don't care if it is there job to help you and be courteous, don't be a douche.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out with friends to eat our feels and hang out.
Dancing in front of the mirror >__>
Fan-girling...oh wait, that's everyday...
Getting that money!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I wish I was a waterbender, or at least had invisible woman's powers
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
1. If I haven't scared you off.
2. If you're a nice, talkative, down to earth person :).
3. If you somehow find me appealing.
4. if you weirdly want to know more cause Idk why you would...i wouldnt.
5. Because you want to :P.