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25 • Santa Ana, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 23–30
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends
- Last online
- Apr 23
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Agnosticism, and laughing about it
- Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
- Working on university
- Rather not say
- Likes dogs
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Japanese (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly)
My name is Erik, and I'm not entirely sure what I'm looking for. I know I want to share my life with someone eventually, but I'm just not sure when that moment will be. I suppose I'll just have to wait until the right person comes along, or until I bump into them.
I'm definitely not one to be shy at first, maybe nervous, but I'll have no problem asking a ton of questions personal or impersonal (depending how open/comfortable the person is). I like to talk to people, and hear their story :)...I just hope it's not one-sided.
Also.. I can be pretty outspoken, not rude, but I'm definitely a guy who has an opinion ...all within a respectable boundary of course .
I'd say I also have a good level of consideration around strangers and more with people who are closest to me... making others feel good makes me feel good.
I could go into more details...but then you'd know my whole life story and you'd get bored and I'd ruin any chance of attracting anyone, so I'll stop here!
I Am The Captain Of My Soul
Out of the night that covers me
black as the pit from pole to pole
I thank whatever gods may be
for my unconquerable soul
In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud
Under the bludgeonings of chance
my head is bloody, but unbowed
Beyond this place of wrath and tears
looms but the horror of the shade
and yet the menace of the years
finds, and shall find me, unafraid
It matters not how strait the gate
how charged with punishments the scroll
I am the master of my fate
I am the captain of my soul
by William Earnest Henley
I plan on re-attending school. I'm an English major (please do all the eye rolling or long pauses now to save the awkward and also long explanation to defend my interest xD)
Being perceptive of people and understanding others.
I'm pretty good at playing pool when under the influence of alcohol.
Over-analyzing text messages.
Sarcasm/dry humor/vulgar humor/referencing movies and
"I believe that imagination is stronger than knowledge -- myth is more potent than history -- dreams are more powerful than facts -- hope always triumphs over experience -- laughter is the cure for grief -- love is stronger than death." - Robert Fulghum
I guess my top (right now) are:
The Magicians Series
and The Interestings
I'm always looking for new fiction/manga/comics to read, so suggestions are open.
Memoirs of a Geisha.
V for Vendetta.
Prayers for Bobby.
Little Miss Sunshine.
Beauty and the Beast.
Scott Pilgrim Vs. The World.
P.S. I Love You.
Howls Moving Castle.
The Miracle Worker.
Marvel's The Avengers.
Kick Ass 1&2
Life Is Beautiful
The Skeleton Twins
Avatar: The Last Airbender
Avatar: The Legend of Korra
Dead Like Me
I Love Lucy.
American Horror Story.
The Walking Dead
The Unites Sates Of Tara
Once Upon a Time
It 's a wide range, the only music I don't listen to is hick country music, and hardcore rap that makes me feel like the music is going to summon a drive by.
Some examples: The XX, The Naked and Famous, The Killers,
Jessie J, Kelly Clarkson, Paloma Faith, Paramore (1st - 3rd albums), The Hush Sound, Silversun Pickups, AC/DC, Robyn, Avenged Sevenfold, A Fine Frenzy, Fiona Apple, Sara Bareilles, Jimmy Eat World, Shiny Toy Guns, Metric, ....
Fav Food: I love pesto Pasta...like that shit will make me satisfied for days. Also any kind of mexican food that isn't spicy (i know, whats the point? There is a point and it's the fact I'm a fucking pussy with spices.) Sushi/sashimi for days. And don't mention Panini's around me cause I will immediately go into convulsions without one at that very moment.
Maybe that was a bit excessive..
My technological soul mate.
My mood swings.
Yes, I broke the six things rule, you can add rebel to that summary if you'd like.
Going out with friends.
Dancing in front of the mirror b/c I usually can't in public while sober.
Fan-girling over nerdy things.
2. If you're a nice, talkative, down to earth person :).
3. If you somehow find me appealing.
4. if you weirdly want to know more cause Idk why you would...i wouldnt.
5. Of If you have a good affiation with superheroes/videogames/or books
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