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37 Brooklyn, NY Woman


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  • Ages 30-42
  • Near me
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Last online
Today – 9:15am
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Judaism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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More feminine than girly. More curious than cool (as in cooled to life).

Full-bodied personality.

One of my favorite compliments was when a friend told me I was like a character out of a Fellini.
What I’m doing with my life
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Writing (nonfiction -- about the arts, the city, sports, & most things in-between).

Lawyering (Amazingly, I have found a decent law job with civilized hours, very rare).
The first things people usually notice about me
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Tall & Skinny. A new friend remarked that she was so pleased to realize that I was not stuck up b/c, she said, "You are all up."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A recent trip to Montreal got me rereading some Canadian classics by Mordecai Richler and Hugh MacLennan. I'd forgotten how amazing these guys are. Why isn't Richler more popular here, I never understood that.

I have a knack for arriving in town a day after one of my favorite musicians/bands have just played it (or having to leave a day before). Last year it was Nick Cave in St. Petersburg, L. Cohen in Berlin and a few weeks ago I went up to Montreal just after Arcade Fire played and of course while I was up there they played down here. I really need to figure this out.

Loooved Sopranos, Rome, Battlestar Galactica, Mad Men, Dexter, Breaking Bad, Friday Night Lights...was ridiculously addicted to The Shield.

I'm pretty convinced the Neko Case channel on Pandora is the best (my best) -- even Patsy Cline makes an appearance, forgot how much I'd missed her.

(Some more lists, people like lists. Some favorite movies: Red, The Godfather I&II, The Crying Game, Running On Empty, The Piano, The Lives of Others, The 40 Year Old Virgin, Waltz With Bashir, Silence of the Lambs, Annie Hall, Manhattan, Crimes & Misdemenors, etc. ; Books: almost all Graham Greene, Joan Didion, Willa Cather, Geoff Dyer, Larry McMurtry, Julian Barnes, Wolf Hall, Gilead, Caro's LBJ Books, etc.). ; )

Total coffee addict. How to write about the importance of good food without understating it (or being totally hyperbolic)...

Relatively recent convert to yoga and running. Not quite sure how I did life without them.

Also a not so closeted, but maybe somewhat camouflaged, jock -- love my sports (to watch and to play).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Coffee & Earl Grey
2. New York Times Crossword
3. Rangers Hockey/Mets Baseball
4. Too many forms of culture and ways to take them in -- overwhelm me, please! I can rise to the challenge.
5. BAM & Berlyn
6. My sports superstitions -- they work! (Might mean I can never go to another Rangers game, they've only lost every time I've gone this season, terrible)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Way too many things, it's pretty busy in there!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If it's baseball season, very possibly watching a game. It's a nice way to do Friday, and it ends early, so there is always time for more Friday after.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a Mets fan. It's still hard to admit even though THEY ARE GOING TO THE PLAYOFFS. (First time in nine years if you don't follow, nine very long and often embarrassing, shameful, years).
You should message me if
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If you are a smart boy but don't take yourself too seriously.

(No curmudgeons please! I tend to gravitate towards folks -- friends and more than friends -- who are, on balance, more excited about life than annoyed with it).

Also, pretty close to my family, and almost always get along best with those who are similarly close to theirs. It's not a rule or requirement, but just seems to work out that way -- the warmth and comfort, and the desire to always be around that maybe.