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kitamaree

37 / F / straight / Single

Milwaukee, Wisconsin

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 2" (1.57m).
Body Type
—
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My Self-Summary

I am a genuinely kind person. I enjoy my work, love a good book, care about what happens in the world, and see the best in people. Also, I hate trying to summarize who I am. Summing myself up is worse than going to the dentist (and those that know me know that going to the dentist is one of the worst things I have to do). I have spent a lot of time in that ivory education tower and earned my degrees in English, though I am more proud of my MFA in Creative Writing. I am a little dorky, romantic, dreamy, whimsical, but always hopeful. That always makes anything else work out.

What I’m doing with my life

I am a high school teacher who loves her job, but also a writer and creative thinker. I am part of a poetry writing group. My friends are also really important to me. We have fun eating out, listening to local music, going to the many summer festivals, or just having fun talking. My main goal is to be happy and make the world a better place by treating people with an open mind and heart. That almost sounds like a Miss America pageant answer. Sadly, it is true though-- the being happy part, not the beauty queen part.

I’m really good at

making horrible jokes, dancing to the beat of my own drummer, baking bread, using big words, and being generally sarcastic. Why must I write about myself this way?

The first things people usually notice about me

would be my blue eyes and quirky disposition. I tend to be shy at first, but then talk forever once I know someone.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Too many to mention-- Nancy Silverton's Bread book, Salinger's Franny and Zooey, William Stafford's poems, and cozy mysteries, plus a million and seven others. I am sort of book fiend.

Movies: Harold and Maude, Amelie, anything from Pedro Almodovar, Breakfast at Tiffany's-- a weird mix, I know. Stir in a little Breakfast Club, a few episodes of Dexter, and the entire Law and Order franchise.

Music: a large spectrum-- from Indigo Girls to REM to Bob Marley to Lily Allen to The Cure to Classical to The Beatles-- my itunes looks like a schizophrenic meltdown.

Food: I may be a vegetarian, but love any kind of good food. Thai, Mexican, Veggie Sushi, chocolate, italian, yum yum yum

The six things I could never do without

hope, good books, friends and family, ice cold water, poetry, music

I spend a lot of time thinking about

how to make things better, how to forgive, how to instill confidence and self belief in my students, how beautiful the sunrise is, how words can be magic

On a typical Friday night I am

either with friends for dinner and live music or at home, with a glass of wine, good book, and chocolate

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am tired of looking for the right guy. Really, I have had the worse luck or maybe made bad choices. In all honesty, I believe he's out there and if I find him here, awesome. If I meet a good friend, just as good.

You should message me if

you want to meet a girl who is smart, genuinely kind, and who has a big heart. Maybe take a chance and meet someone new. Maybe check out the art museum or have a drink at Alterra. Maybe just because you want to be dazzled by my wit and charm and have a lot of fun.

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