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kitcoyote

32 / M / Bisexual / Available

Boulder, Colorado

His Details

Last Online
Today – 4:03pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), French (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
"I say let me never be complete, I say may I never be content." - Fight Club (yes it's a bit ridiculous how much people quote Fight Club, but this year, that particular line has mattered).

I'm a bisexual polyamorous switch. Some call me greedy. I call myself enterprising. Other than that, I draw, I write, I attempt to become a better computer geek, and I stay on the internet a bit too much. I am currently dating someone, but as said, poly. If this is a problem, you should probably look elsewhere.

I'm fairly kinky but it's not required for a friendship, sex, or relationship. What is required is wit, a sense of humor, and a bit of tolerance for the strange and geeky.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm embarking on a degree in industrial design. I'm job hunting a lot. I do a bit of freelance work and odd jobs here and there.

Other than that, it's a game of keeping my head together, trying to finish writing projects, drawing, and trying to keep myself away from the computer just a bit more than I do. All difficult things of course.
I’m really good at
Coming up with interesting ideas, drawing, writing (or at least coming up with the ideas for things to write), sex, juggling, fire spinning, flogging, and a few other strange hobbies. I'm apparently not bad with languages but have rarely had the opportunity to really press that. I have a great deal of memory used up with comic book trivia.
The first things people usually notice about me
My face, my glasses, or a certain maniacal laugh. Sometimes explosions. The way I dress tends to stand out, whether it's an outfit with so much leather you'd expect I'd have killed a cow for it, something that looks vaguely hipsterish, or a suit and tie which is just at odds with who I tend to be.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I sort of hate the way we've grown up as a culture to define ourselves through our media intake. That said, here we go I guess;

Primitive versions of Wikipedia: Anything by Clive Barker, Carlton Mellick III, and Neil Gaiman usually make me happy. Barker is my favorite out of that bunch. I have a huge collection of books for roleplaying games. Mostly these consist of World of Darkness both new and old, Dungeons and Dragons, and Palladium. Most of it's research material these days. There's also an art book collection starting. In general I love books.

Cinematics: Tetsuo the Iron Man, Ringu, the Prestige, are all that currently come to mind. I rather like horror films in general however.

Phonomancy: Bad Religion, Matthew Good, Tiger Army, Mogwai, VNV Nation, Assemblage 23, SJ Tucker, The Dresden Dolls, Amanda Palmer as you can see my music taste is somewhat odd.

Fuel: Japanese, Chinese, Indian, but really I love all food. I like to cook but only for other people, it's boring and a little bit of a hassle if I'm doing it just for myself sometimes. Despite this I'm sort of good at it. The way to get me to do anything is offer food. ;)
The six things I could never do without
A sketchpad
A pencil
My friends
A decent book
Wit
The ontological terror of the void
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time thinking about everything. Kink, my place in the universe, the sad state of worker/employer relations, technology, ontology, how to be Invisible, magic, art, Cthulhu, and controlling third world countries. Also, puns. Burning Man, comic books, horror manga, strange words like "unctuous" and "dendrochronologist". I've recently gotten back into Magic the Gathering.
On a typical Friday night I am
Lately? Probably at home with a book honestly. Though I'm slowly coming out of that phase. Anyone want to help with that? I love to dance when a good dj is spinning. I occasionally got to BDSM clubs, I've sat at home and played boardgames before.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I used to prefer boxers, but I look sexier in briefs. It's confusing. I can be sensitive about gender issues at times. I don't like driving and tend to view it as a very strange pastime. I have almost no sense of smell.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 21–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals, casual sex
You should message me if
If you're an esper, an alien, or a time traveler. Kinky? Total bonus.