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44 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 22
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I like animals and kind, generous, open people--and mischievous ones! I have a dry sense of humor, love to laugh and see the absurd in most things. Who I am with is more important than what I am doing. Spoiler: I do a lot of kiteboarding, skiing, traveling and outdoor stuff; it would be great if you would like to do any of those things together but certainly not a must.

Some things about me: I can build a house from the ground up, am an avid kitesurfer and skier, am a reformed attorney, was in the Peace Corps in Africa as a child and like to be social. I can be pretty goofy. I love my career but it doesn't rule my life. I have plenty of time to devote to a relationship and fun stuff. I have an 89% rating on rotten tomatoes!
What I’m doing with my life
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I am increasing my attention to being in community and becoming in some way more spiritual. I am planning trips, mainly to great beaches for kiteboarding.

For my day job I am a wealth strategist for very wealthy business owners (and their spouses) who want to contemplate what to do with their business and wealth before and after they die; I help them decide how, when and what children will inherit. It's not uncommon for me during a conversation to get a client who assumed they wanted to leave everything to family decide instead to leave $10's of millions to charity because maybe $20 million for each child is enough.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Mischief! Connecting deeply one on one. Laughing a lot. Being loyal. Pursuing adventure and chasing adrenaline; being social, especially with a partner in crime; being a homebody; keeping things fun; mentoring people; teaching; solving people's problems; skiing and kiteboarding; guessing where someone is from; conversation; my job; being MacGyver.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile. Or that I look like someone famous...I get a few of those.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My tastes are eclectic but fairly mainstream and I love trying new things. Brothers Karamozov, Crime and Punishment, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Atlas Shrugged (but no I'm not a Tea Party member), Lolita, 100 Years of Solitude; Love in the Time of Cholera; American Tabloid, etc., etc. Classic movies, dramas, comedies. Pop and hip hop, blue grass, latin music. But music is like food--I like variety. Food--healthy is good.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
dark chocolate
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Planning the next trip. Current international and economic events. The meaning and purpose of my life and how I can help others. Planning the future. Whether astrology is worth paying attention to or not. (I am beginning to think maybe it is, after my highly educated friend explained that he mapped his whole family tree and tied all the divorces to bad astrology matches and all the happy marriages to good ones.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends or a date, in the mountains or chillin' at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Let's meet first. I'm not a big fan of disclosing private info on public websites. But I will admit that I answered way too many ok cupid questions because I thought they would end. I don't think they ever do.
You should message me if
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You are interested in a serious relationship and having kids. Or if not that, then at least some light-hearted fun! You are warm, friendly, social and have a great sense of humor.