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kiteski

46 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:45am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I have recently become a Noble Man. Not as in actual royalty but rather in knowing much more of my true self, especially in relation to others and the unknowable. A warrior without armor shall we say.

I like animals and kind, generous, open people--and mischievous ones! I am a combination of main stream and eccentric/quirky who occasionally visits socially extreme sub cultures. I have a dry sense of humor, love to laugh and see the absurd in most things. Who I am with is more important than what I am doing. Spoiler: I do a lot of kiteboarding, skiing, traveling and outdoor stuff, but also enjoy deep connections with women who don't.

Some things about me: I can build a house from the ground up, am an athlete, have two graduate degrees, was in the Peace Corps in Africa as a child, am a professional (wear a suit for work) and like to be social. I can be pretty goofy. I love my career but it doesn't rule my life. I have plenty of time to devote to a relationship and fun stuff. I have an 84% rating on rotten tomatoes.
What I’m doing with my life
I am increasing my attention to being in community and becoming in some way more spiritual. I am planning trips, mainly to great beaches for kiteboarding.

For my day job I am a counselor and wealth strategist for very wealthy business owners (and their spouses) who want to contemplate what to do with their business and wealth before and after they die; I help them decide how much, when and how should children inherit. It's not uncommon for me during a conversation to get a client who assumed they wanted to leave everything to family decide instead to leave over $100 million to charity because maybe $20 million for each child is enough. But early financial scars run deep: sometimes I have to assure some filthy rich but fearful soul s/he's not going to end up eating cat food!
I’m really good at
Mischief! Connecting deeply one on one. Being loyal. Pursuing adventure and chasing adrenaline; being social, especially with a partner in crime; being a homebody; keeping things fun; mentoring people; teaching; solving people's problems; skiing and kiteboarding; guessing where someone is from; conversation; my job; being MacGyver.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile. Or that I look like someone famous...I get a few of those.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My tastes are eclectic but fairly mainstream and I love trying new things. Brothers Karamozov, Crime and Punishment, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Atlas Shrugged (but no I'm not a Tea Party member), Lolita, 100 Years of Solitude; Love in the Time of Cholera; American Tabloid, etc., etc. Classic movies, dramas, comedies. Pop and hip hop, blue grass, latin music. But music is like food--I like variety. Food--healthy is good.
The six things I could never do without
Coffee
Love
Sex
dark chocolate
family/friends
Adventure
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Planning the next trip. Current international and economic events. The meaning and purpose of my life and how I can help others. Planning the future. Whether astrology is worth paying attention to or not. (I am beginning to think maybe it is, after my highly educated friend explained that he mapped his whole family tree and tied all the divorces to bad astrology matches and all the happy marriages to good ones.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends or a date, in the mountains or chillin' at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Let's meet first. I'm not a big fan of disclosing private info on public websites. But I will admit that I answered way too many ok cupid questions because I thought they would end. I don't think they ever do.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You are interested in a serious relationship and having kids. Or if not that, then at least some light-hearted fun! You are warm, friendly, social and have a great sense of humor.