Adventurers Wanted. Still want to go and have adventures, but my dance card is basically full these days.
Still very up for new friends (& have met quite a few through OKC, but I have 3 very lovely women in my life & not actively looking for any more).
I'm poly, and have been since I was in my teens. I'm in long-term open poly relationships (especially myzlilith, to whom I just got married). If that doesn't freak you out, and you just want friends, then let's go....
Do you like pubs with some character, theatres, galleries, museums, coffee shops, long walks in parks (or the real countryside)? Mountains, lakes, rivers, cities, urban decay, wilderness? Some or all of the above? Then we're very likely to get on.
It Seemed Like A Good Idea At The Time. Someday they're going to put that on my headstone. I've been there and done that. Quite a lot of it more than once.
These days, I'm a random blond thing that lives in London (although I travel a huge amount) and does "strange things with computers" during office hours.
I like hearing from people - and especially like recommendations for new books or films or other things I might like from people with a high Match or Friend percentage. "Hi, I browsed your profile and we have a good Match percentage and I can recommend you this thing ..." is a perfectly acceptable icebreaker to me - so come and talk to me if you feel like it.
I write - books, papers, articles, blog posts, you name it. Mostly it's about tech & my field, but that does seem to be changing recently.
Outside of work, I can be found in techno, SM/fetish, goth and industrial clubs or in fine restaurants or pubs (with proper beer) or hacking on Open Source code. I like gaming (board/card games, not video games so much) but very rarely have the chance to play - my schedule tends to be very full.
If I'm away from London, I'll be in the mountains walking and snowboarding, or by the sea surfing or just off wandering the world somewhere. I've been to lots of different places and though I love London the best (with SF, NY, Bangkok and Switzerland as fairly distant seconds), I'm always up for some more exploring. I've seen a pretty wide range of massively awesome things, but there is always more to do.
Before I discovered that I liked industry far, far better than I liked academia, I was once a fairly decent mathematician and physicist. I never quite made it to finishing my PhD, and now I doubt I'll ever go back, given that things seem to suit me better the way they are now.
(For the technically-minded, I can rant cheerfully about an entire range of subjects given half a chance, and reserve my greatest vitriol for String Theory et al).
Movies: Withnail and I, Lola Rennt, The Big Chill, American Beauty, Throne of Blood, Return Of The Living Dead, Love and Other Catastrophes, Metropolis, Life Of Brian, Princess Bride, Twelve Monkeys, Big Lebowski, But I'm A Cheerleader, Aria, Casablanca, Requiem For A Dream, Star Wars, The Dark Knight
Music: Rammstein, Wolfsheim, New Order, Pixies, Apoptygma Bezerk, Joy Division, Underworld, Orbital, VNV Nation, Carter USM, Ayria, PWEI, Nine Inch Nails, Neuroticfish, Depeche Mode, New Model Army, Birthday Massacre
Food+Drink: Steak, Italian, Thai, Chinese, Sushi, Indian, Red wine, White wine, Real Ale, Single Malt