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30 Montreal, Quebec, CA Man


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  • Ages 20–38
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last Online
Yesterday – 9:38am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), German (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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*I'm queer. You don't have to be too, but it's definitely a bonus.*

I sometimes have long conversations with homeless people.
I am Blunt. I think this is a good thing.
Sometimes I foot my put in my mouth. Hehehehehe, that wasn't even on purpose!
I have a ridiculously loud laugh. I am proud of this fact.
I cut my own hair.
I am extremely driven career-wise but I still like to live a fairly spontaneous lifestyle.
I live for crazy adventures that sound completely unbelievable, for example I once swam with a Bull Shark by accident (these are the most aggressive type of shark in the world, although thankfully this one was really friendly). *yes I have a picture*
I got a degree in something I don't really use but I'm still glad I did it.
I'm currently in the process of training to be a ninja and an astronaut. I believe that in the coming climate and economic change the world will soon have a high demand for ninja astronauts.
Also I'm a dinosaur. My favorite color is crimson. My favorite tree is Birch. And my favorite Fruit is the raspberry.
I'm crazy about my Mom.

I'm currently in a long-term, committed, POLY relationship with UmaWren. So we can totally meet up, but you need to be ok with the whole poly thing.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I mostly write and make music. I sing in a professional chamber choir, play in a band ( ), and I teach. I travel a lot. Sometimes I make films. I Love people. I Smile as much as I can.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Music. Laughing. Eating. Talking. Getting really excited about random things that seem unimportant to most people. Noticing little details like new clothes or haircuts and complimenting them sincerely. Making out. Monopoly. Nerdy stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The fact that I am human; people don't think of it consciously, but I think we all tend to notice that right away, or maybe we would notice the opposite. Also my bear hat. And then my striking resemblance to James Madison.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Anything by Ursula K LeGuinn or Octavia Butler , The Ethical Slut , Cash by Johnny Cash, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, anything Max Brooks, Isaac Asimov, Phillip K. Dick, Shakespeare, Dante, Virgil, Aristophanes, Beckett. Probably a bunch of other shit I'm forgetting. Rubyfruit Jungle . Lots more really, I read a lot. David Sedaris, MARGARET ATWOOD (currently working on an album based on "The Handmaid's Tale"), F. Scott Fitzgerald, Hemingway ("Write drunk. Edit sober.") Chuck Palahniuk, Don Delillo, Kurt Vonnegut, Hunter S. Thompson, Bukowski, Moliere, Ghoete. I'm definitely forgetting a ton.

Movies: Inception, Casablanca, The Godfather, Memento, A Clockwork Orange, Pulp Fiction, Get Him to the Greek (actually way better than I thought it would be), Mel Brooks, Kubrick, Scorsese, Monty Python, Brick, Once upon a time in the west, Hang em High, Shawn of the Dead, Team America, Pitch Perfect, Run Lola Run, Amelie, Beasts of the Southern Wild, anything with Kevin Spacey or Daniel Day Lewis in it, The Chronicles of Riddick (hahaha, yeah I know), Cabin in the Woods.

TV: Battlestar Galactica, Star Trek, Buffy, Firefly, GAME OF THRONES , Portlandia, Orange is the new Black, The Wire, Community, Parks & Recreation, House of Cards.

Music: This one is tough, I could go on forever, but I'll try to keep it short. Fleet Foxes, Sufjan Stevens, Simon & Garfunkel, Queen , The Beach Boys, The Beatles, Patrick Watson, The Unsettlers, Beirut, Ingrid Michaelson, Johnny Cash, Jon-Rae and the River, The Lake of Stew, Tune Yards, Other Lives, Royal Canoe , Folly & The Hunter, Local Natives, Warpaint, NEIL FUCKIN YOUNG, Elvis, Crosby, Stills, Nash, and Young, Prince, Paul Simon, The Police, Early Genesis, Arcade Fire, Mumford and Sons, Bon Iver, Gillian Welch, Stevie Wonder, Beethoven, Bach, Chopin, Wagner, Frank Zappa, Joni Mitchell, William Shatner (surprisingly good), The Aquabats, Make Your Exit, Michael Jackson, Yeasayer, HonHeeHonHee, Of Montreal, The Beta Band, Led Zeppelin, The Dragons, The Killing Joke, Fiona Apple, Lou Reed, Bobby Mcfarrin, The Shins, Howlin' Wolf , Muddy Waters, Duke Ellington, Miles Davis, Frank Sinatra, Chet Baker, Brad Mehldau, Cadence Weapon, Sigor Ros, Tom Waits, Radiohead, Rush, They Might Be Giants, Macklemore, Lucius, C2C , Hey! Ocean, Jay-Z, Blacktreet, Justin Timberlake, Dr. Dre, MGMT, MSTRKFT, Azelia Banks, Dry The River , Hot Chip, Knife, Deerhoof, Danger Mouse, The Baar Brothers, Grandmaster Flash , Michael Jackson, Dirty Projectors, The Beta Band. Ok I'm going to stop now. I really like music is the point. Any and all kinds.

Food: Sushi, Raspberries, Indian, Poutine, Quail's eggs with Chevre and Sri Racha on top (sooooo good), Anything homemade from scratch, Bacon, Squid (don't worry, I love meat but I don't hate vegans), Family meals.

Webcomics: SMBC, Penny Arcade, Cyanide & Happiness, XKCD, Hark a Vagrant, A Softer World. And I spend more time on imgur than I'd care to admit.

LOTS more where all this came from. (especially in the music category but really all around)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
in no particular order
Mom, Guitar, Singing, Laughter, Sunlight, Affection
The wonder that is New people and places.

I know that's 7. Deal with it. Notice math is not on the list.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music, Family, Friends, the unabashed beauty of everyday life.

Lately I've been thinking a lot about Quantum Physics and Chaos theory. I'm becoming more and more convinced that dreaming is just traveling temporarily to other realities. Although I've been told that my dreams are far more vivid and detailed than most people's.

I also think about new technology a lot and how most of it seems to come straight from Star Trek, which is bitchin'. I had an astronomy professor who gave lectures on how different Star Trek technologies could actually work. He wore thick glasses, a pocket protector, and listened to SLAYER. I love that man.

I also spend way too much time thinking about what I would do in a post-apocalyptic scenario, but on the plus side I know a bit about field medicine and basic engineering and agriculture. So it ain't all bad. Woah! spellcheck didn't flag the word ain't! But it flagged the word woah! AND SPELLCHECK!!! Twilight zone.....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either home or at a friend's relaxing and playing music or playing a show. Or out and about. Maybe karaoke. Maybe dancing my face off. who knows?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Between the ages of 3 and 5 I decided I wanted to be a girl and made everyone call me Heather. I wore dresses and berets. I corrected people's pronoun usage.
You should message me if
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You are as amazed by the wisdom of 11 year olds as I am.

You strike up conversations with strangers on public transit.

You love your Mom.

You love animals and the outdoors.

You don't take yourself too seriously.

You are driven.

*Being into some musical instrument is a plus but not a requirement, other bonuses include: Being into nerdy things, being a Habs fan, being a petite brunette with fair eyes.

Keep in mind, nothing on this list is a requirement, Some of my best relationships have been with people I never would have expected.

*And again*
I'm currently in a long-term, committed, POLY relationship with a lovely young woman. So we can totally meet up, but you need to be ok with the whole poly thing.

Also, if you'd like to meet up with both of us, that could be cool too!

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