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45 F Lake Oswego, OR

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:35pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Greetinz, men of OKc. What a fun place, huh? Maybe for the extroverts...

• Wants to be in a relationship, not a friend-w-benefits situation
• Likes hiking, nature, camping, photography, etc -- but not into really long hikes
• Enjoys going out to concerts and dancing (80's video dance attack)
• Does not enjoy bars, rooms full of strangers, or loud environments (see above for exceptions to this rule)
• Always honest
• Fairly sane
• Very frugal
• Loyal

I do web design and graphic design for a living. How things look is important to me. I want everything to be beautiful, in a simple and practical way. Perhaps I'm a little minimalistic. I do like art, especially modern art.

I like to have time for walks in the woods, making my own meals, and plenty of down time. Rushing around is my least favorite thing. I have nothing but high regard for people who can pack a million things into a day, I just can't join 'em :)

• Great sense of humor
• Plenty liberal
• Relates to most of the bulleted list above
• Willing to lead but not a control freak
• Able to communicate about problems
• Doesn't mind hanging out with a weirdo

If you are into primal diet that's a huge plus. That's a big subject area for me, and I'm a little obsessed with optimal nutrition. When it comes to desserts though, I usually say YES :). I'm not someone who's counting calories or afraid to eat fat. In fact, my diet's very high fat. If things were to work out between us you'd have to eventually get on board with low-carbs and pasture-raised meat - so if you are already there that's major bonus points (not that I have a point system :S)
What I’m doing with my life
Staying healthy. Walking every day. Enjoying the summer and looking forward to my trip to Olympic NP in August. Appreciating the little things. Wondering what I want to do next.
I’m really good at
Dancing seductively (wink, wink). No, seriously I like to go dancing.

I've got a new idea for a section: "I'm really NOT good at"
• Time management
• Self promotion
• Tact

Of course I can think of more things I AM good at if you like, but it's really all relative anyway...
• Smart assy comments
• Listening without judgement
• Prioritizing fun
• Procrastinating on unfun things (this isn't really a plus, but I am good at it, so I am mentioning here)
The first things people usually notice about me
Dimples & rockin' body!! Ha. Weirdly, people often tell me I'm very smart. I don't feel like a very smart person, although I do believe I'm always right, which is illogical when you think about it.

*BTW, MY REAL AGE is 48, not 45*. I don't have a problem with my age, but I think a lot of men who might otherwise be interested in me might inadvertently filter me out based on age. So that's why I lowered it in OKC.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Primal Blueprint Diet, but not strict. I would have a hard time being with a vegetarian. Honestly it's a deal killer. How do you have a relationship with someone who has a completely different diet?

My Pandora station is a combo of Phoenix, Daft Punk, and Foster the People.

Favorite movies: Moon; Pride & Prejudice 2008; Life of Brian.

Old TV: Buffy the Vampire Slayer; Battlestar Galactica & House.

New TV: Blacklist, Vikiings

Favorite dead authors: Octavia Butler, Kage Backer, Joanna Russ

Favorite novels: Engine Summer, Dune
The six things I could never do without
[0] Being loved
[1] The internetz
[2] Hot showers
[3] New Seasons
[4] The timer on the stove
[5] trees
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Myself. Next question.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sometimes working. Is that wrong?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Are we really happy
With this lonely game we play?
Looking for the right words to say.
Searching but not finding
Understanding anyway.
We're lost in this masquerade
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 44–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You live nearby and you are looking for a relationship. No drugs, drinking, criminal record, plz.