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kivamoed

45 Lake Oswego, OR Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 44–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:56am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Greetinz, men of OKc. What a fun place, huh? Maybe for the extroverts...

Me:
• Wants to be in a relationship, not a friend-w-benefits situation
• Likes hiking, nature, camping, photography, etc -- but not into really long hikes
• Enjoys going out to concerts and dancing (80's video dance attack)
• Does not enjoy bars, rooms full of strangers, or loud environments (see above for exceptions to this rule)
• Always honest
• Fairly sane
• Very frugal
• Loyal

I do web design and graphic design for a living. How things look is important to me. I want everything to be beautiful, in a simple and practical way. Perhaps I'm a little minimalistic. I do like art, especially modern art.

I like to have time for walks in the woods, making my own meals, and plenty of down time. Rushing around is my least favorite thing. I have nothing but high regard for people who can pack a million things into a day, I just can't join 'em :)

You:
• Great sense of humor
• Plenty liberal
• Relates to most of the bulleted list above
• Willing to lead but not a control freak
• Able to communicate about problems
• Doesn't mind hanging out with a weirdo

If you are into primal diet that's a huge plus. That's a big subject area for me, and I'm a little obsessed with optimal nutrition. When it comes to desserts though, I usually say YES :). I'm not someone who's counting calories or afraid to eat fat. In fact, my diet's very high fat. If things were to work out between us you'd have to eventually get on board with low-carbs and pasture-raised meat - so if you are already there that's major bonus points (not that I have a point system :S)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Coloring. Learning web development.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dancing seductively (wink, wink). No, seriously I like to go dancing.

I've got a new idea for a section: "I'm really NOT good at"
• Time management
• Self promotion
• Tact

Of course I can think of more things I AM good at if you like, but it's really all relative anyway...
• Smart assy comments
• Listening without judgement
• Prioritizing fun
• Procrastinating on unfun things (this isn't really a plus, but I am good at it, so I am mentioning here)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Dimples & rockin' body!! Ha. Weirdly, people often tell me I'm very smart. I don't feel like a very smart person, although I do believe I'm always right, which is illogical when you think about it.

*BTW, MY REAL AGE is 48, not 45*. I don't have a problem with my age, but I think a lot of men who might otherwise be interested in me might inadvertently filter me out based on age. So that's why I lowered it in OKC.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Primal Blueprint Diet, but not strict. I would have a hard time being with a vegetarian. Honestly it's a deal killer. How do you have a relationship with someone who has a completely different diet?

My favorite Pandora stations are Phoenix/Foster the People and Nick Drake.

Favorite movies: Moon; Pride & Prejudice 2008; Life of Brian.

Old TV: Buffy the Vampire Slayer; Battlestar Galactica & House.

Favorite dead authors: Octavia Butler, Kage Backer, Joanna Russ

Favorite novels: Engine Summer, Dune
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
[0] Being loved
[1] The internetz
[2] Hot showers
[3] New Seasons
[4] The timer on the stove
[5] trees
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Myself. Next question.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes working. Is that wrong?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Are we really happy
With this lonely game we play?
Looking for the right words to say.
Searching but not finding
Understanding anyway.
We're lost in this masquerade
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You live nearby and you are looking for a relationship. No drugs or drinking, plz. And you are amenable to meeting quickly, rather than having an email correspondence.