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34 Tuscaloosa, AL Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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5′ 6″ (1.68m)
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Working on Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them

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My self-summary
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Hello! I'm an engineer and working on finishing up my Ph.D. I'd like to meet people who are way open-minded, like to eat a lot, and don't care much for Things (very quantitative, right)?

Drop me a line if you would like to chat!
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a working biomedical engineer, also working on completing my PhD.
I’m really good at
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things I don't suck at
The first things people usually notice about me
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My good nature
My smile
Strong mind
I'm bratty
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Namesake, The Sound and the Fury, The Stranger, Narcissus and Goldmund

Movies: Psycho (the original), The Texas Chainsaw Massacre (the original), The Lion King, House of Sand and Fog

TV: Family Guy, The Simpsons, shows on ID

Music: I appreciate good music, regardless of genre

Food: Indian, Thai, Mexican, Italian
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what the heck is wrong with my generation...they want to get to the top without working hard...laziness, I believe, is genetic...passed down from Ma and Pa...why do you think so many Western cultures have such high divorce rates? Natural selection favors laziness...that way, humans continue to produce lazy offspring...the world's resources exponentially deplete, humans die off and the dinosaurs return and make movies about how stupid humans were

Update: TED talks, really? So because these guys talk with their hands and walk around and EM PHA SIZE certain words, they're meaningful and inspiring? Just because a song has some good beats doesn't mean it deserves a Grammy; listen to the lyrics..."because I'm happy..."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
spending time with friends or staying in and making food.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I poo...if you're a dude who believes it is 'not ladylike' for a female to burp or tell dirty jokes, I'll be happy to buy you a first-class ticket to of effed up priorities
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