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kjamesb

47 M Mission Viejo, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 38–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:34pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Semi-retired, the only thing missing from my life is YOU. I’m financially stable (stable moderate income and my house is paid for!) but far from rich (gold diggers move on!). Recently blinded (well almost, not TOTALLY blind ~ whatever) I'm rediscovering the world anew. It's interesting, frustrating, etc...everything you would expect. I still play guitar and am working on a two piece project with a friend from Braille Institute (yeah, he's visually impaired too) after playing for years in several local bands.

My heart and life are available to the right woman. I’m really not looking to date...at least not the way that I understand dating. I'm looking for a stable relationship...a significant bother -grin-. Obviously that doesn't happen over night but let's allow it to happen without forcing it OR putting the brakes on for some arbitrary reason. Remember how easy it was when we were younger? Let's let it be that easy again.

RE: Kids. My 23 year old son lives with and takes care of his grandfather and my 22 year old daughter is in the USAF, stationed in Florida. The nest is empty.

My first show after loosing my vision late in 2010:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fRFaZz10CTM&list=UUb51HNFijuXFOcwJO2zguKA

Other recent shows...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ksq8dIq_g7U&list=UUb51HNFijuXFOcwJO2zguKA&index=1
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QlSnAVcXlm0&index=2&list=UUb51HNFijuXFOcwJO2zguKA
What I’m doing with my life
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Recently disabled, I find that while I can give up on the idea of getting rich, I am comfortable with my own home and life. My income is modest but so are my expenses with a house that's paid for and no debt (I made some good choices a couple of years ago). I put time in a Braille Institute in Anaheim (and am trying to get some activity projects started there). I run a fairly large singles group as a hobby (ask about that if it interests you) and am an Amateur (technically professional in that I HAVE been paid although never even tried to support myself with it) musician.
I’m really good at
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...bringing people together.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My deep (and sometimes loud) voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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LOVE The Daily Show with Jon Stewart on Comedy Central but I choose not to even own a TV any more. Anything I NEED to see I can catch on line. Besides, since my vision issues TV just isn't that important any more. I do love a good SciFi but hate bad ones. Music...Love just about anything but Western (which is different from Country) and Rap (which while a good case can be made that it's poetry, I do not consider music).
You should message me if
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...you want to. Love to hear from you. An Email is far from intrusive so let's have a conversation.