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kk00319

30 Tucson, AZ Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 30
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine
Income
Status
Single
Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm subtly interesting, and insidiously charming. People have told me that something I said is still gnawing at them years later. I prefer to be an observer rather than the main attraction. I'm random and impulsive yet grounded. I'm witty and have a sarcastic sense of humor but some days I'm pretty serious. I'm from the Midwest and I miss it sometimes but there seems to be a lot of Midwesterners out here which is comforting. Like most people, I have a variety of interests and I get new ones all the time. Most recently, I've taken an interest to learning more knots and playing with power dynamics.

I have some views on relationships that could be described as non traditional. I'm currently exploring whether my ideals align with the practical aspects of open relationships. I believe how I structure my relationships is a conscious choice and I've just accepted that it's fluid, sliding along the spectrum of monogamy and non-monogamy depending on a number of factors. Right now, I'm choosing to focus on non-monogamy because it meets my needs in this moment and is helping me explore many previously undiscovered parts of myself.

I do appreciate the newer, less negative connotation of the term "bi-sexual" being attracted to "more than one sex". I try not to get too bogged down by terminology or labels but who I am attracted to is also very fluid. Honestly, I wouldn't be surprised by any of my attractions anymore. Hearts not parts, yo!

As anyone who has been in a long-term relationship knows, they require a lot of work and constant presence. Self-awareness and being willing to "own your shit" is mandatory. Communication is important too, specifically the nonviolent kind. I think that if you're willing to put in the work, intimate relationships are the most direct route to self-discovery.

Hmm what else? I believe in helping the people who need it- I don't believe it's every person for themselves. I don't subscribe to organized religion or other doctrines. I think a person's philosophies, sexual orientation and religious views are always changing and evolving. I don't support rigid attachment to identities. I'm psyched about exploring my sexuality and pushing my limits to see what turns me on and what doesn't (yet). I'm not sure if I want kids of my own or if I want to foster/adopt but I know I love them and want kids in my life someday. I don't value materialistic things like big cookie cutter houses, fancy cars, or bedazzled jeans. I'm very generous so I will not get along with misers.

I think the people in our lives are a reflection of what we are and I am surrounded by many incredible people whom I admire but I'm always open to meeting more. I want to get to know people that work to live a simple and interesting life and who value experiences over things. I'm looking for people with some depth and are always seeking to grow and evolve spiritually, emotionally and intellectually- I want to be challenged. I like people who are passionate and care for others as well as the environment.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Self-actualizing ad nauseam. I'm a mental health counselor by trade, recently started my own private practice and loving being self-employed. Building a community of amazing people to surround myself with. Maintaining healthy relationships as my foundation while I push my limits to become a fully integrated and peaceful person.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Intuiting, reading people and remembering what they say, calming people down and making them feel comfortable.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
How short I am, that I have unique colored eyes, that they suddenly feel like telling me things they've never told anyone else before
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My Netflix queue says "gritty crime thrillers" is my favorite genre. I love psychological thrillers, indie films, foreign, social and cultural documentaries, inspiring stories etc. I like to read nonfiction books especially those about spirituality, metaphysical things and psychology. I really like to try new restaurants and listen to live music (especially blues, jazz, reggae, bluegrass). There's a lot of places I want to try in Tucson and am always down to meet more people to go with.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Silly question but I'll play: my mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual health, quality relationships. A lot of other things would be hard to lose but I know I would be okay.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The state of our world, environment, human rights, what business I could start, remodeling my house, my health, what signs the universe is providing me, if I'm on the right path or not, sex, what I would do if I just quit working, building a cabin in the woods
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully doing nothing!! Or drinking a glass of wine, taking a bath and relaxing from a busy week, visiting with a small group of friends, checking out some live music, or packing up the car for a camping trip. If I do go to a bar, you'll probably see me in a corner either making out or getting my mind blown by an amazing conversation.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
~you have a complete profile and took the time to tell about who you are.
~You're cool with my poly inclinations
~You are curious about polyamory and want to talk more about it
~You are in a healthy and open relationship and want another person or couple to get to know
~You're a tolerant, thoughtful, open, patient and happy person
~You have taken the time to get to know yourself, know what you want, and support yourself
~You can teach me something
~you're cute and petite
~you sport a sexy stubble beard- just kidding... kinda...