Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm subtly interesting, and insidiously charming. I prefer to be an
observer rather than the main attraction. I'm random and impulsive
yet grounded. I'm witty, silly and sarcastic but some days I'm
I believe in commitment, working through conflicts, and putting
effort into relationships that are important to you. I'm seeking
people who are ready and available for deep relationships.
Recently, I've found there's a lot more to that statement than most
people understand. If you've done a lot of personal growth work and
have learned from your past relationships, you probably know what I
I have some views on relationships that could be described as non
traditional. I've really been fantasizing about having a poly
tribe. I'd love to feel a community of close friends/lovers living
in close proximity that are committed to building a life together.
Guys/gals and everyone in between would be welcome. Hearts not
parts y'all! We could all date whomever we want and we could let
all of the relationships be what they may and change as they will.
This might be completely unattainable but a gal can dream
As anyone who has been in a long-term relationship knows, they
require a lot of work and constant presence. Self-awareness and
being willing to "own your shit" is mandatory. Communication is
important too, specifically the nonviolent kind. I think that if
you're willing to put in the work, intimate relationships are the
most direct route to self-discovery.
I think a person's philosophies, sexual orientation and religious
views are always changing and evolving. I don't support rigid
attachment to identities but rather fluidity and being courageous
enough to follow your heart and accept the changes in
I want to get to know people that work to live a simple and
interesting life and who value experiences over things. I'm looking
for people with some depth and are always seeking to grow and
evolve spiritually, emotionally and intellectually- I want to be
challenged. I like people who are passionate and care for others as
well as the environment.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Self-actualizing ad nauseam. I'm a mental health counselor by
trade, recently started my own private practice and loving being
self-employed. Building a community of amazing people to surround
myself with. Maintaining healthy relationships as my foundation
while I push my limits to become a fully integrated and peaceful
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Intuiting, reading people and remembering what they say, calming
people down and making them feel comfortable.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
How short I am, that I have unique colored eyes, that they suddenly
feel like telling me things they've never told anyone else before
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My Netflix queue says "gritty crime thrillers" is my favorite
genre. I love psychological thrillers, indie films, foreign, social
and cultural documentaries, inspiring stories etc. I like to read
nonfiction books especially those about spirituality, metaphysical
things and psychology. My favorite authors recently are Pema
Chodron, John Welwood, Mark Epstein, Jack Kornfield, bell hooks. I
really like to try new restaurants and listen to live music
(especially blues, jazz, reggae, bluegrass). There's a lot of
places I want to try in Tucson and am always down to meet more
people to go with.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Can't think of anything.. I guess that's a good thing?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The state of our world, environment, human rights, what business I
could start, remodeling my house, my health, what signs the
universe is providing me, if I'm on the right path or not, sex,
consensual power exchange, what I would do if I just quit working,
building a cabin in the woods
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully doing nothing!! Or drinking a glass of wine, taking a
bath and relaxing from a busy week, visiting with a small group of
friends, checking out some live music, or packing up the car for a
camping trip. If I do go to a bar, you'll probably see me in a
corner either making out or getting my mind blown by an amazing
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have a complete profile and took the time to tell about who you
are. You are curious (or even better experienced with) about
want to talk more about how it does or doesn't work in practice. If
you share my dream of a poly tribe definitely tell me all about
I love tolerant, thoughtful, open, patient and happy people who
have taken the time to get to know themselves and are genuinely
curious to get to know and connect with others in significant way.
I also love to learn new things so if you message me if you can
teach me something!
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