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29 F Tucson, AZ

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 25–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:32pm
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
**Disclaimer: I'm currently in a nonmonogamous relationship!***

Some people describe me as an interesting, random, passionate, and adventurous (not in the extreme adrenaline junkie way) person. I can be witty and sarcastic, I have a good sense of humor but some days I'm pretty serious. I have a variety of interests and I get new ones all the time. I enjoy outdoorsy activities like hiking, camping, and rock climbing (I have all my own gear). Being a lifelong learner is important to me. I'm from the Midwest and I miss it sometimes but there seems to be a lot of Midwesterners out here which is comforting. I love to travel and I've been to quite a few places but there are so many more places I'd like to see.

I have some views on relationships that could be described as non traditional. I'm currently in a beautiful partnership with Soul__Rebel and we are exploring whether our ideals align with the practical aspects of open relationships. I've been in long-term relationships and I know that they are a beautiful thing but require a lot of work and constant presence. To have a good relationship I think communication is mandatory and you have to be on the same page (or at least very tolerant) about the big issues such as politics, religion, sex, money, kids etc. So here is where I'm at with those big issues: I believe in helping the people who need it- I don't believe it's every person for themselves. I don't subscribe to organized religion or other doctrines. I think a person's philosophies, sexual orientation and religious views are always changing and evolving. I don't support rigid attachment to identities. I'm psyched about exploring my sexuality and pushing my limits to see what turns me on and what doesn't (yet). I'm not sure if I want kids of my own or if I want to foster/adopt but I know I love them and want kids in my life someday. I don't value materialistic things like big cookie cutter houses, fancy cars, or bedazzled jeans. I'm very generous so I will not get along with misers.

I want to get to know people that work to live a simple and interesting life and who value experiences over things. I'm looking for people with some depth and are always seeking to grow and evolve spiritually, emotionally and intellectually- I want to be challenged. I like people who are passionate and care for others as well as the environment.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a mental health counselor by trade, trying to figure out how to live without slaving away at a job, trying to build a community of amazing people to surround myself with, maintaining healthy relationships as my foundation while I push my limits to become a fully integrated and peaceful person.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading people and remembering what they say, calming people down and making them feel comfortable
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
How short I am, that I have unique colored eyes, that I'm shy and prefer to observe rather than be the life of the party.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My Netflix queue says "gritty crime thrillers" is my favorite genre. I love psychological thrillers, indie films, foreign, social and cultural documentaries, inspiring stories etc. I like to read nonfiction books especially those about spirituality, metaphysical things and psychology. I really like to try new restaurants and listen to live music (especially blues, jazz, and reggae). Not that this really matters but here is a random mix of some artists I like: Bob, Robert Johnson, John Lee Hooker, Jurassic 5, People under the stairs, Mishka, Manu Chao, Erykah Badu, Citizen Cope, Mumford and Sons, Old Crow Medicine Show, Three Tall Pines, Ali Farka Toure, My Morning Jacket, Bon Iver, Miles Davis, Billy Holliday, Xavier Rudd, Sublime, Dry river yacht club etc.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual health, quality relationships, plus the elements that support life. A lot of other things would be hard to lose but I know I would be okay.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The state of our world, environment, human rights, what business I could start, my health, what signs the universe is providing me, if I'm on the right path or not, sex, what I would do if I just quit my job, building a cabin in the woods
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully doing nothing!! Or drinking a glass of wine, taking a bath and relaxing from a busy week, visiting with a small group of friends, checking out some live music, or packing up the car for a camping trip.
You should message me if
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~you have a complete profile and took the time to tell about who you are.
~You're cool with me being in an open relationship with a great guy
~You are curious about polyamory and want to talk more about it
~You are in a healthy and open relationship and want another person or couple to get to know
~You're a tolerant, thoughtful, open, patient and happy person
~You have taken the time to get to know yourself, know what you want, and support yourself
~You can teach me something
~you're cute and petite
~you sport a sexy stubble beard- just kidding... kinda...