Some people describe me as an interesting, random, passionate, and adventurous (not in the extreme adrenaline junkie way) person. I can be witty and sarcastic, I have a good sense of humor but some days I'm pretty serious. I have a variety of interests and I get new ones all the time. I enjoy outdoorsy activities like hiking, camping, and rock climbing (I have all my own gear). Being a lifelong learner is important to me. I'm from the Midwest and I miss it sometimes but there seems to be a lot of Midwesterners out here which is comforting. I love to travel and I've been to quite a few places but there are so many more places I'd like to see.
I have some views on relationships that could be described as non traditional. I'm currently in a beautiful partnership with Soul__Rebel and we are exploring whether our ideals align with the practical aspects of open relationships. I've been in long-term relationships and I know that they are a beautiful thing but require a lot of work and constant presence. To have a good relationship I think communication is mandatory and you have to be on the same page (or at least very tolerant) about the big issues such as politics, religion, sex, money, kids etc. So here is where I'm at with those big issues: I believe in helping the people who need it- I don't believe it's every person for themselves. I don't subscribe to organized religion or other doctrines. I think a person's philosophies, sexual orientation and religious views are always changing and evolving. I don't support rigid attachment to identities. I'm psyched about exploring my sexuality and pushing my limits to see what turns me on and what doesn't (yet). I'm not sure if I want kids of my own or if I want to foster/adopt but I know I love them and want kids in my life someday. I don't value materialistic things like big cookie cutter houses, fancy cars, or bedazzled jeans. I'm very generous so I will not get along with misers.
I want to get to know people that work to live a simple and interesting life and who value experiences over things. I'm looking for people with some depth and are always seeking to grow and evolve spiritually, emotionally and intellectually- I want to be challenged. I like people who are passionate and care for others as well as the environment.