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30 Tucson, AZ Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 23
Sapiosexual, Queer
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 1" (1.55m)
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm subtly interesting, and insidiously charming. I prefer to be an observer rather than the main attraction. I'm random and impulsive yet grounded. I'm witty, silly and sarcastic but some days I'm pretty serious.

I believe in commitment, working through conflicts, and putting effort into relationships that are important to you. I'm seeking people who are ready and available for deep relationships. Recently, I've found there's a lot more to that statement than most people understand. If you've done a lot of personal growth work and have learned from your past relationships, you probably know what I mean.

I have some views on relationships that could be described as non traditional. I've really been fantasizing about having a poly tribe. I'd love to feel a community of close friends/lovers living in close proximity that are committed to building a life together. Guys/gals and everyone in between would be welcome. Hearts not parts y'all! We could all date whomever we want and we could let all of the relationships be what they may and change as they will. This might be completely unattainable but a gal can dream right?

As anyone who has been in a long-term relationship knows, they require a lot of work and constant presence. Self-awareness and being willing to "own your shit" is mandatory. Communication is important too, specifically the nonviolent kind. I think that if you're willing to put in the work, intimate relationships are the most direct route to self-discovery.

I think a person's philosophies, sexual orientation and religious views are always changing and evolving. I don't support rigid attachment to identities but rather fluidity and being courageous enough to follow your heart and accept the changes in yourself.

I want to get to know people that work to live a simple and interesting life and who value experiences over things. I'm looking for people with some depth and are always seeking to grow and evolve spiritually, emotionally and intellectually- I want to be challenged. I like people who are passionate and care for others as well as the environment.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Self-actualizing ad nauseam. I'm a mental health counselor by trade, recently started my own private practice and loving being self-employed. Building a community of amazing people to surround myself with. Maintaining healthy relationships as my foundation while I push my limits to become a fully integrated and peaceful person.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Intuiting, reading people and remembering what they say, calming people down and making them feel comfortable.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
How short I am, that I have unique colored eyes, that they suddenly feel like telling me things they've never told anyone else before
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My Netflix queue says "gritty crime thrillers" is my favorite genre. I love psychological thrillers, indie films, foreign, social and cultural documentaries, inspiring stories etc. I like to read nonfiction books especially those about spirituality, metaphysical things and psychology. My favorite authors recently are Pema Chodron, John Welwood, Mark Epstein, Jack Kornfield, bell hooks. I really like to try new restaurants and listen to live music (especially blues, jazz, reggae, bluegrass). There's a lot of places I want to try in Tucson and am always down to meet more people to go with.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Can't think of anything.. I guess that's a good thing?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The state of our world, environment, human rights, what business I could start, remodeling my house, my health, what signs the universe is providing me, if I'm on the right path or not, sex, consensual power exchange, what I would do if I just quit working, building a cabin in the woods
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully doing nothing!! Or drinking a glass of wine, taking a bath and relaxing from a busy week, visiting with a small group of friends, checking out some live music, or packing up the car for a camping trip. If I do go to a bar, you'll probably see me in a corner either making out or getting my mind blown by an amazing conversation.
You should message me if
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You have a complete profile and took the time to tell about who you are. You are curious (or even better experienced with) about polyamory and want to talk more about how it does or doesn't work in practice. If you share my dream of a poly tribe definitely tell me all about it!

I love tolerant, thoughtful, open, patient and happy people who have taken the time to get to know themselves and are genuinely curious to get to know and connect with others in significant way. I also love to learn new things so if you message me if you can teach me something!