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28 New Orleans, LA Woman


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  • Ages 20-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:36am
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 2" (1.57m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism but it’s not important
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
My self-summary
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"The same wonderful hurricane as when you were five" - my aunt Cynthia.

I recently moved to New Orleans to go to graduate school in writing (which means I write a lot). I nanny to pay the bills, and start (and finish?) handfuls of other projects. Most recently, I'm working out plans to build a mini-yurt. I like to sew and bake bread and smash the patriarchy. I'm in a rad nonmono relationship with my partner (who also likes to smash patriarchy), camgnostic. We're kinda perverts. I like that about us.
What I’m doing with my life
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Critiquing unpublished short fiction and smoking too much. Also, hanging out with a pretty rad twenty-month old. Also, taking the dog for walks/runs. Her name is Deviline. She was a sled dog. Now she is my sled dog.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
writing, sewing (clothes, quilts, costumes), making 'zines (yeah it's real hipster - I think the stories are worth it), empathizing, late nights, multitasking, having feelings, baking bread, singing. Get me on the right day, man, and I can really fucking sing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Tattoos, maybe? I get "you look like that actress [Helena Bonam-Carter]" a lot, too. I'm also short.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books (these are a few; there are lots): Welcome to the Monkey House, The Handmaid's Tale, Ethical Slut, The New Bottoming/Topping Book, House of Leaves, A Supposedly Fun Thing I'll Never Do Again, Slouching Towards Bethlehem, 10th of December.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order: books, bacon, writing, my community, coffee, musicals.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
gender politics, feminism, narrative structure, word choice, empathy, inspired debate, the future, my future.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
sipping bourbon on the porch and working on a story.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I do not always like my job. Sometimes, kids (even the great kid I happen to work for), are fucking assholes, and sometimes, when I know she can't hear me, I tell her so.

Recently, I've been struggling with generally liking life, and, if you wanna call it this, the big ol' depression deal. So, that's kind of a big bump.
You should message me if
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You're interested! Right now, I'm not looking for romantic endeavors, but new friends and/or flirty adventure buddies are rad.

Some things to know: I'm a cis lady (mostly? Fuck, I don't know), but present as pretty queer sometimes, and maybe identify that way. I'm also interested in folks all across the gender spectrum. And I'm in a non-monogamous relationship with my dude, who I live with.

If it starts with "I'm sorry to be forward/creepy/weird, but," then I probably won't like it (or you). Same goes for "hey beautiful" or the like, as well as copy-pasted form messages. Don't just say "hi." Don't be, ya know, an asshole. I'm not particularly interested in casual sex (I like to know people before I fuck them), and just because I'm a pervert doesn't mean I'm not also a human. Be warned: I tend to answer the dickbag messages first thing in the morning, before I've had any coffee at all.