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  • Ages 34-46
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Last online
Today – 5:09am
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 7" (1.71m)
Body Type
A little extra
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), French (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am a "neo-geek": a nerd who loves art, be it popular or more high brow. Always trying to help people, and giving advice and bad at accepting it. I'm quite a cynical person, but in general I'm positive about life, you only live once (I guess), so why not make it something we all can enjoy and foremost: live in dignity an well-being.
As for politics: I'm a left-wing liberal

Ah: and I one of those few men, who actually likes shopping (for clothes and shoes) with and for women.
What I’m doing with my life
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Writing and computer stuff: PC's, servers, networks, Windows, Linux and Mac and Volunteering (again: ICT-related: making websites and helping out with PC probs for charities).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
caring for people, all things geeky and technical, writing reviews of all things cultural, writing bloody awful poetry , solving ICT problems
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
physically: my deep brown eyes
and when people talk to me that I'm:
- Enthousiastic
- Emphatic
- Friendly
and that I've got a good sense of humour (a bit cynical though)

and on a good day I'm quite witty, which happens every blue monday
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors: Murakami, L.F. Céline, Kafka, W.F. Hermans, Jean Cocteau, Anna Enquist, Ian McEwan, Shakespeare, the poems of Hugo Claus, Baudelaire, Verlaine, Llorca and Ramsey Nasr

Music: in short: anything good: (you can skip this!)
in detail: some favs (in no particular order, as you will notice)
Bach, Ryan Adams, Prokofiev, Shostakovich, Mahler, Cash, Rachmaninov, Brahms, Herbie Hancock, Miles Davis, Ahmad Jamal, The Smiths, Joy Division, Placebo, David Bowie!!!!!, John Cale, The Velver Underground, The Beatles, Rolling Stones, Kraftwerk, Carl Craig, Kevin Saunderson, Agoria, Arthur Russell, Public Enemy, dEUS, T.C. Matic, Burial, Prince (I saw his to date latest concert in Belgium and it was fabulous!), the early R.E.M, Radiohead, Murcof, The Beatles, Talking Heads, The Dead Kennedys, (the early) Nick Cave, John Digweed, Sven Väth, Massive Attack, The xx, Neil Young, The Triffids, New Order, The Sisters of Mercy, Mozart, Paolo Conte, Daft Punk, Stravinsky, Wagner, Front 242, Bonnie Prince Billy, Jacques Brel, Jef Neve, Lou Reed, Henrik Schwarz, John Talabot, Sigur Ros, Satie; some compilations like DJ Kicks, Late Night Tales, Back To Mine... and this list goes on and on and on
and somehow I forgot: Bob Dylan, sorry Bob and latest "discoveries": Lhasa (de Sela) and Ólafur Arnalds

Movies: Almodovar, Kubrick, Herzog, Tarantino, David Lynch, Wong Kar Wai, Ozon, Tarkovski, Kieslowski
Requiem For A Dream, Pi, Exotica, Apocalypse Now, American Beauty, Blow Up, Frida, Being John Malkovich, Festen, Jagten, Naked, ...

Series: Lost, Black Books, Blackadder, Monty Python, anything by Louis Theroux, In de Gloria, Heimat (if you could call it a serie, it's just wonderful tv/cinema)

Artists: Mondriaan, Malevich, Tuymans, Borremans, Gideon Kiefer, Rothko, Vermeer, Constant, Berlinde De Bruyckere, Rembrandt, Robert De Vriendt, Charles Burns, Sol LeWitt, Ingres, ...

I love theatre and modern dance performances.
(Rosas, Vandekeybus, Sidi Larbi)

I like going to musea and exhibitions, it gives me a buzz and sometimes even inspiration for poems.

Food: Italian (pasta), French cuisine and Asian cuisine
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good Friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- thinking about how to make this world a better place and other useless things
- Ethical Questions
- Politics
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
having a drink with friends, or sometimes working and sometimes 'doing things' on the Internet (sometimes work related, sometimes not-work related) or at the theatre or cinema
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My first vinyl was the first The Village People-LP. But please: don't hold that against me, and yes: I'm straight
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