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38 London, UK Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
My self-summary
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Happy, grounded and self aware (with inevitable occasional laspes). I like to talk to people who have a different slant on things and am happiest in lively conversation, preferably with equal measures of earnest ranting and laughter. Currently spending a fair bit of time climbing on people (acrobalance), which is a lot of fun and watching or talking about films.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to slow down a bit and enjoy the simple pleasures...
I’m really good at
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Being modest
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes. Or that I look like someone they know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My that's a lot of categories.

I like contemporary fiction and have recently been going through a Murakami stage. My favourite collection of short stories is Nobody Belongs Here More Than You by Miranda July.

I like pretty much all films, apart from bad ones of course ;) Independent, foreign, Hollywood. I prefer going to independent cinemas (Curzon/Renoir/PCC/BFI). Love a good boxset: The West Wing, Studio 60, Boston Legal, The Wire & Tremé. Modern Family.

I also like live music and often tag along to gigs my friends are going to without necessarily having heard the artist/band beforehand. I have not been disappointed so far.

I like to go to things I don't know much about on the spur of the moment and be pleasantly surprised (Guy Bourdin exhibition yesterday - blew my mind).

Ok so what's left? Music and food?

I like them both.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having a few drinks with workmates, catching a film, out for dinner with a friend, relaxing at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You'll have to wait and see won't you...
You should message me if
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You can hold your own and are reasonably grounded and comfortable in your own skin.

I have a weakness for beardiness, nice eyes, kind open faces and a good smile.