Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
-Midwest guy who’s lived in Cambridge for 10+ years, came here for
school and stayed once I established a career. I’d like to end up
in Chicago at some point in the future but I’m not in any rush and
may make a few stops prior to that.
-I went to school for music, I play electric bass, guitar, a bit of
keyboards and currently am taking voice lessons. My degree says I
am a “Professional Musician” so I decided against profiting from
the vast money tree that is being a musician and formed a career in
-I work out 6 days a week, and eat a very strict training
-I played hockey for 10 years of my life and it’s the only sport I
still watch or care about. I am a Chicago Blackhawks fan, sorry Bs
What I’m doing with my life
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I have a career in internet security, I spend my work days
mitigating attacks against websites you may or may not use
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I enjoy playing guitar/music, lately I’ve been trying to write more
music. I think it’s safe to say I have an aptitude for computing as
I have no formal education/training and keep getting more and more
technical jobs. I enjoy the command line and writing AppleScript
applications. I recently got into speed running retro games,
probably something I shouldn't admit when trying to attract a lady…
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books- a mix of autobiographies, technology books, random
collections of short stories.
Movies- American Psycho (not the book, too many details),
Zombieland, Donnie Darko, War Games, Slapshot, Silent Movie, Dumb
and Dumber, Caddyshack, Bill Murray, Chevy Chase, Old School,
Zoolander, Control. I like comedies, docudramas, sometimes horror
movies (not torture porn crap) and documentaries.
TV- American Dad, South Park, Freaks and Geeks, Malcolm in the
Middle, Tosh.0, Finding Bigfoot, Monsterquest. I kind of like
cryptozoology like a lot. We got game center this year for NHL so I
can finally watch all of my Blackhawks games that is awesome.
Food- "clean". I have one cheat meal a week so help me cheat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
guitar, a computer, my iPhone- after that I am good.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How much better my life would be if I just embraced the inner Roger
(the alien from American Dad!) and just went with it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Generally resting to train the next day but I’d like to be a bit
more exciting so help me get out of the house!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am have a few OCD rituals but nothing overly apparent, just more
You should message me if
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A few things to know about me:
-My recent pics are self taken, not self absorbed I just don't look
like I used to and I'd rather not start something on a false
pretense. When you're in a gigging band your picture is taken all
of the time. When you work on the internet well, you're on Reddit a
-I prefer for things to evolve naturally, so we date casually and
then it forms into something awesome! I once got together with a
few folks to play music and one of them wanted to know after the
first time playing together if we could call it a band…
-Sometimes I suck at getting back to folks on here, nothing
personal I just have been really overwhelmed as of late, career
moves and personal life stuff. Somehow when the dust settled I was
the most stable one of my friends, totally odd.
Still here? Cool:
-I am attracted to people and not attributes, so if you have a
sense of humor and are comfortable with yourself let’s talk.
-I am not opposed to casual dating or monogamous relationships, but
I don’t have any interest in poly folks. Not my scene, not judging
just not my thing.
-I am getting less patient with the long building messaging on
here- I’d rather just grab a drink one night and see if there are
-I don’t play games and am straightforward, it would be awesome if
you were as well!
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