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41 Chicago, IL Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 2" (1.57m)
Body Type
Other but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
What am I looking for? Well..Mr. Right of course. Someone who's not perfect...but perfect for me. Just like the other ladies online, I'm wired to treasure the, friends, music, and laughter. Below you'll find a better indicator of whether or not we're compatible.

Sundresses, independent films, fast bike rides along the lake, brunch, medical reality shows, athletic men, a cup of coffee al fresco (with my dog), humility, naps, reciting movie lines, international travel, documentaries, a good book, a 5:00 shadow/scruff, a hard workout and of course.... honesty, affection, kindness, and dependability. Emotionally stable company is a bonus too!

Car horns, Indian food, red light cameras, didactic communication ("know-it-alls" are irritating as hell), hair spray, man jewely (rings/chains), and self-promotion. Needless to say...smoking, and inconsiderate behavior are buggers too.

More about me:
I'm looking for a single, professional, emotionally available, relationship minded man, who lives and communicates like an adult. I prefer he be geographically desirable, namely residing in Chicago or it's neighboring urban-like suburbs... (A 30 mile distance when playing the "get to know you" game is just too hard). Although I am not 25 anymore, I work hard to stay fit. I appreciate this same quality in a partner.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Really enjoying it. I adore my condo and neighborhood. I have great friends who kill me with laughter, great parents and a rewarding job. Although social and outspoken, I am rather introverted at times and enjoy my quiet time reading or taking a nap with reruns of Law and Order: SVU in the background. I enjoy moving through weekends slowly with an afternoon nap and a trip to a new restaurant. I subscribe to the "work hard, relax hard" motto.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Saving money
Laughing hysterically
Trying to help others
Fostering dogs
Gift giving
Always staying faithful to boyfriends- never cheated- never will!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My short stature? Not sure.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
TV?... Love Big Bang Theory, Law and Order, SVU and Louie (Louie CK)
Books? ...Love memoirs and best; Kite Runner, Running with Scissors, Dry, The Fourth Hand (Never finished "50 Shades of Grey"--complete crapola).
Food? Prefer to keep it healthy- When I splurge I love chocolate, pizza and steak.
Movies: Blow, Amadeus, 500 Days of Summer, Argo, Like Father, Like Son, Nebraska
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides the obvious (health, job, mom, dad, besties)...
Lip balm
News radio
Fun co-workers
My dog, Lowla
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Since when did commitment and relationships become so unsexy?
Really? It seems like relationships are dead. It's all about "keeping our options open". Sad really. Hopefully the pendulum will swing back. In the meantime, guys, if you just want to hook up...try Tinder;) Why waste the "girl next door's" time?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Can be anything from "couching it" to dinner and Second City. Depends on the season and the mood.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
1. I have a great date the whole "get a drink" nonsense. You've gotta message me to find out :)

2. I really hate online dating. I'm hoping to meet you at a wine tasting or through friends! :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.

You're fully clothed in all of your profile pics.

You're looking for someone who loves the city.

You're not alcohol dependent,

You're not mending a broken heart or legally unavailable (AKA separated)

You're looking for a dog person

You find yourself attracted to petite girls who love to laugh and have fun.