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31 Elkridge, MD Man


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  • Ages 24–33
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My details

Last online
Oct 1
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Post grad
Might want kids
My self-summary
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So for once I'm going to write what I think you should know instead of only mentioning my best qualities. There is no point in getting you to dinner if you will reject me shortly after that. Normally I am a very modest person but since this is a dating profile I might come across as arrogant or self centered for a moment, please don't misinterpret that. I consider myself intelligent, ambitious, humble, logical, responsible, and virtuos. I can joke around and have a sense of humor too (but it never works in writing).

I absolutely love the outdoors. I enjoy hiking, biking, and snowboarding the most, but I usually enjoy all outdoor activities. I am not a huge nightlife fan. I do enjoy bars if you don't have to scream into your friends' ears the whole night. I'm usually not a fan of dance clubs, I only go when my friends ask me to. One very odd thing about me is that I'm not a huge sports fan, I know I'm in the minority here. I like to watch the olympics and the superbowl, but I probably won't pay to see a game, and I would rather go snowboarding than watch a football game on TV.

I try to get out of my house often and I keep finding new fun things to do. I definitely enjoy traveling and exploring, but I have unfortunately not done a ton of that yet, I am trying to travel more. So far I have been to Aruba, Kauai, St. Thomas, the Dominican Republic, Ottawa, Montreal, Boston, New Orleans, Orlando, Breckenridge, and most cities within four hours drive. I just started a new job with five weeks of vacation per year, so that should help me a lot.

I exercise routinely and try to eat healthy. I make exceptions when I am out socializing with friends. I have discovered that keeping my weight down is very easy, but growing muscles is tough.

I tend to be more responsible and ambitious than most people. For example, in college I studied a lot and rarely partied (mechanical engineering was a tough major). If you think that was a bad decision on my part then we will probably not make a good couple. Some people think I worry too much, I just think I'm being more responsible and cautious. Don't interpret this as saying that I never take risks, I actually take plenty of risks (my life savings is in the stock market), but they are always calculated risks. In fact I can sometimes be quite rebellious.

I usually have higher morals than my peers, a lot of people can't understand this. I absolutely hate having a guilty conscience. For example, I once thought my work had over-paid me, I actually went and told them about it, but it turned out that it was no error. If I was given too much change by a cashier, I would probably return the excess change. I try not to be too greedy, I'm doing very well as I am, so I don't see the point in jeopardizing my reputation, and hurting people who don't deserve that, when I don't need to.

I am naturally introverted but I think I fool most people when I try to be extroverted. I am humble, considerate, open minded, and reserved, and I like people who are the same in that way. I tend to dislike people who are self absorbed, constantly seeking attention, or who constantly hijack conversations.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a cloud developer, I program distributed applications in java and scala. It's a great job, with a flexible schedule, excellent benefits, and a lot of potential for advancement.

Outside of work I am just trying to enjoy my life and get out frequently.
I’m really good at
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Snow-boarding, staying active, cuddling, home improvement, and programming.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I think maybe it's that I'm quiet and reserved until I get to know you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: Sometimes I read software books to advance my career. Sometimes I listen to audio books. I think it's admirable to know more about the world, which is why I prefer non-fiction literature.

movies: The Next Three Days, It's a Beautiful Life, Fight Club, American Gangster, The Departed, Idiocracy, We're the Millers, and many more.

TV Shows: Dexter, Netflix's DareDevil, Breaking Bad, 24, X Files. I like some sci fi shows too like Battlestar Galactica.

Music: classic rock.

Food: I pretty much like all restaurant types, but I try to eat healthy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the great outdoors!, internet/computers, family/friends, Droid phone, car, a great mattress (good sleep makes a huge difference).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
When and where I can do something fun outdoors.
How/where I can find a new trail, or something new and fun to do.
how to advance my career
What to do with my spare time in the current week.
errands I need to do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Exercising, doing errands, traveling, spending time with friends, or relaxing at home. Also recently I have been going to a board game meetup on Friday nights.
You should message me if
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You think we match, or if I messaged you.