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24 Charleston, SC Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 30
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and has cats
English, German (Poorly), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Hey there- my name is Steph or Arya (my middle name). You know, I've come to notice that a lot of people put only their strengths here (for me- brave, courageous, loyal, sarcastic, and bluntly honest). But what I don't see often is people putting their weaknesses down. Sometimes they define more of who we are then our strengths. Me for example- I can be a bit brazen sometimes; or take on way more than I can handle (putting the worlds problems on my shoulders); and I even throw up an emotional barrier when I'm hurt instead of productively channeling those emotions.

I was always one of those people who could fit into any crowd and any conversation. I've done and seen more things in this world than most people two or three times my age have. Because of it I've got quite a few interesting stories, and feel very humbled by the people I've met.
What I’m doing with my life
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Currently I'm an event director with AquaSafaris- basically setting up events and charters on boats. But I'm also debating my grad school options- either viticulture/enology (science of wine making) or marine geology/an MRe in bathymetry.

Yes... I realize they are both radically different haha

I'm also studying for my Sommelier exams
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I used to perform theater professionally, and still enjoy performing vocally and on stage. For about 17 years I played soccer, in addition to many other sports: football, snowboarding, scuba diving, fencing/sword fighting, horseback riding, dance, sailing, shooting (guns/rifles)....Overall I'm a total nerd as I grew up playing video games and reading comic books.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes... I have partial/sectoral heterochromia (James McAvoy's Professor X talks about it in the bar scene from Xmen First Class). My eyes are sectioned partially blue, partially green, and gold around the center
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Harry Potter (books and movies), LOTR (books and movies), Star Wars, Startrek, Batman, Iron Man... you know what just in general I like action/adventure/sci-fi/comedy. I'm not a fan of chick flicks.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good food, good wine/beer/cocktails, my guitar, cell phone, my family/friends, happiness...

....... and bacon. You can never have too much bacon.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
work..... a whole lot of work. I've been running our entire business since the owner has been in the hospital since May 2013.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either out on one of our harbor cruises, at home watching a movie, or at a bar to sit and relax
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm straight up terrified of anything related to, similar, or reminiscent of the movie Psycho. No joke.

PS- Please don't message me poking fun at this- it's not a good way to get attention

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