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40 F Melrose, MA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 19
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a widowed mom of twins who is looking for someone new in my life. The kids always come first with me and you need to be okay with that and that I have them.

I like to have fun. I like to sing a lot.. I'm goofy in my own special way. I like sports but don't play any (Go Sox)..I like to go running (when I can).. I am a former teacher (Elem and Toddler/Infant) but am using my Admin skills currently.

I love to knit, take pictures, scrapbook, bake and decorate cakes.

I also love to read and am always trying to carve out time for myself (tough with the kids around). I'm very friendly too.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working mostly and trying to survive.
Just moved back to my hometown after being away for 14 years.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
taking care of my kids
taking pictures
being creative with cakes
The first things people usually notice about me
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My ability to smile and be strong
That I am picky about food...
My sense of humor...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love to read and my shelves show it...mostly romantic chic lit stuff.
I love romantic comedies and even dramas.
I'm totally into music but it has to have real lyrics.. no Bieber Fever here but Michael Buble makes me very happy.
Pizza and most Italian foods are up my alley. Since I have kids, I eat lots of kid food too..
I'm totally into Downton Abbey as of late.
I love the show Once Upon a Time and my kids think that I look like Belle and Mr Gold/Rumple is pretty hot.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my kids
my knitting
my camera
a good book
Time for myself to recharge and relax
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my kids...
life in general
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home with my kids.. hanging out and connecting with them after a long week at my job
I also have a standing Friday night phone date with my best friend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sorry you need to know me really well before I admit anything really private.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 32–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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you want to meet up for coffee and possibly go on a date and are older than 32. I'm serious on the age thing since I did the age difference thing and I'm not looking to do it again.

Please don't message me if you are under 30. I'm too old for you now that I am 40 and if you do, I will turn you down or not answer.
Also don't message me if you aren't okay with kids being in my life. I am the only parent they have now and it isn't fair to any of us if you want involvement with only me.
Sorry to be harsh but I have found that the guys here don't always listen or read what is written plainly.