Let me be really direct here. I am a single, never married, part Native American male is who as of late becoming more and more serious about wanting to meet and hang out with some of, any of, or perhaps all of the women on this site who claim to be in or interested in "open relationships", "responsible co-parenting", "creating family", etc., or anything along those lines. This is even though I tend towards serial monagamy as for my side of the bargain, am not the cheating type, and actually tend to be very careful about this sort of thing.
I think that I've learned over the years that these types of women are usually the most interesting to be around (even if just socially), and to do things with, regardless of whether or not there is sex involved, maybe because as far as sex goes, I really only need to be "getting it with someone" as opposed to being out there doing it with everyone who just simply "will." But let's face it, shall we - that's the male perspective, sometimes at its very best.
"Responsible co-parenting" enters the picture enters the picture because I realize that I am getting older, and that it is therefore increasingly hard to find a partner who is young enough to have create a "family" with who might be willing to marry, and put in all the number of years that it takes to raise kids and send them to college.
But then again - I am part Native American, even though my clan, as it were is not officially recognized as a tribe, and it may or may not be possible for me to get my CDIB (certificate of degree of Indian blood) - yet we were chartered by Congress back in 1907 as something, whatever that something is, with whatever that really means, at the risk of being misleading - I should be careful with what I say, because we do not directly own or operate any one particular casino, but maybe, just maybe we do. Get a clue - there is only such much I can say here, but rest assured - I am part Native, I have helped start some "family" operated businesses that involve appropriate entertainment ventures, whch will pay for my kids tuition, room and board and any Ivy Leauge or similar school that they can get into. Got it? Maybe we should just hook up and say oh why not, and make a family? I am ready if you are - but where do you want to live?
So hello again ... Single and looking = WYSIWYG - I am aware that my profile needs a complete rewrite. Kind of left things on the back burner because for almost a year I was in an "open-ended" relationship, (as opposed to an "open" one) - where it was understood that we probably wouldn't be getting married, but for the same of safety and sanity, it was nice to have a VERY long term FWB - which I thought had a pretty good chance of turning into a "marriage-like" outcome. I would have probably held up my end of the bargain, until the end of time - but she finally 'dissed me and told me that she was going to move on.
So here I am for real this time, and actually able to perhaps meet up with some of the people that I favorited or just said hi to, or vise versa in the last year. In other words - I am not one to cheat, nor have I ever cheated on a partner, on the one hand - but on the other hand, based on the fact that I have worked in television, and and a club DJ, and studied theater, among other adventures - you should be perpared to deal with a little perhaps "professional" drama - if you know what I mean. So here is another hint: if you have any ex's who you would like remain "friends" with - but for whatever reasons, they are not the "one", maybe we should try each other out. Thus I am the kind of person who would rather keep a promise that I never made, that make a promise I cannot keep. Does that make any sense? Try me.