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53 M Reno, NV

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  • Ages 25–49
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Native American, White
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), LISP (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Just moved to Reno from the San Francisco Bay area, within the last year or so ...

Let me be really direct here. I am a single, never married, part Native American male is who as of late becoming more and more serious about wanting to meet and hang out with some of, any of, or perhaps all of the women on this site who claim to be in or interested in "open relationships", "responsible co-parenting", "creating family", etc., or anything along those lines. This is even though I tend towards serial monagamy as for my side of the bargain, am not the cheating type, and actually tend to be very careful about this sort of thing.

I think that I've learned over the years that these types of women are usually the most interesting to be around (even if just socially), and to do things with, regardless of whether or not there is sex involved, maybe because as far as sex goes, I really only need to be "getting it with someone" as opposed to being out there doing it with everyone who just simply "will." But let's face it, shall we - that's the male perspective, sometimes at its very best.

"Responsible co-parenting" enters the picture enters the picture because I realize that I am getting older, and that it is therefore increasingly hard to find a partner who is young enough to have create a "family" with who might be willing to marry, and put in all the number of years that it takes to raise kids and send them to college.

But then again - I am part Native American, even though my clan, as it were is not officially recognized as a tribe, and it may or may not be possible for me to get my CDIB (certificate of degree of Indian blood) - yet we were chartered by Congress back in 1907 as something, whatever that something is, with whatever that really means, at the risk of being misleading - I should be careful with what I say, because we do not directly own or operate any one particular casino, but maybe, just maybe we do. Get a clue - there is only such much I can say here, but rest assured - I am part Native, I have helped start some "family" operated businesses that involve appropriate entertainment ventures, whch will pay for my kids tuition, room and board and any Ivy Leauge or similar school that they can get into. Got it? Maybe we should just hook up and say oh why not, and make a family? I am ready if you are - but where do you want to live?

So hello again ... Single and looking = WYSIWYG - I am aware that my profile needs a complete rewrite. Kind of left things on the back burner because for almost a year I was in an "open-ended" relationship, (as opposed to an "open" one) - where it was understood that we probably wouldn't be getting married, but for the same of safety and sanity, it was nice to have a VERY long term FWB - which I thought had a pretty good chance of turning into a "marriage-like" outcome. I would have probably held up my end of the bargain, until the end of time - but she finally 'dissed me and told me that she was going to move on.

So here I am for real this time, and actually able to perhaps meet up with some of the people that I favorited or just said hi to, or vise versa in the last year. In other words - I am not one to cheat, nor have I ever cheated on a partner, on the one hand - but on the other hand, based on the fact that I have worked in television, and and a club DJ, and studied theater, among other adventures - you should be perpared to deal with a little perhaps "professional" drama - if you know what I mean. So here is another hint: if you have any ex's who you would like remain "friends" with - but for whatever reasons, they are not the "one", maybe we should try each other out. Thus I am the kind of person who would rather keep a promise that I never made, that make a promise I cannot keep. Does that make any sense? Try me.
What I’m doing with my life
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I recently moved to Reno, NV, from the San Francisco Bay area. Like I said. Other than that? Thinking about getting back into any one of a number of old business opportunities, or else actually doing whatever I need to do to finish a Masters Degree, or something along those lines.
I’m really good at
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I Like to play piano ... and board games like chess and Monopoly.

I have an engineering degree from U.C. Berkeley - Engineering Physics, which I thought was a really cool major becauase I got to take a full year of upper division quantum mechanics, which is of course a subject that a lot of people like to try to make into a religion becauase it has a kind of esoteric "what is reality, really?" aspect to it - sort of like Zen or Taoism, but it is so much more meaningful if you can actually do the math.

At the peak of the I wrote code for a major ISP.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I look very young. People lately seem to guess that I am around 35 or so. People say that I have nice thick hair, which probably has something to do with the Native American in me. Update: wrote this in 2010. Not sure how old they say that I am now, here with it being the near the middle of 2014 - and my hair is much, much longer now - so I finally deleted all of my old photos and uploaded just this one fresh one.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Pizza, shrimp, those spicy gourmet potato chips.

I was also a club DJ, "back in the day", and had my own business, which is something that I have been looking at getting back into, but more on the music production side this time. In any case, I have a huge collection of 80's dance music on vinyl. The Beatles are also a cool favorite that I am well familiar with.

I do like to see good "action" type movies in the theater, and have been taking in some live performances of plays like "Othello", "Cabaret", "Comedy of Errors", etc.

Since I am expected to name some TV shows, here are a few: Lost, 24, American Idol. Not much into TV anymore - even though another job I had for many years involved working for a TV station. Note: if you shout at the TV - we ARE NOT a match, no matter what the percentages say - otherwise I can be a very open minded and easy to get along with person.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Piano, Dancing, Skating, Rock Climbing, etc, etc (you know what etc, etc means don't you?). None of which I was able to do when I wrote this in early 2011 because I was recovering from a broken wrist. Now in 2013, Skating and Rock Climbing are on the list of things that I dearly miss doing, but I am most certainly able to get out and live my life, to some extent.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Some favorite quotations:

"In so far as the propositions of mathematics apply to reality they are not certain, and in so far as they are certain they do not apply to reality." Albert Einstein

"Anything not forbidden is mandatory" - Richard Feynman

“I, the Lord, am the maker of all things, stretching out the heavens by Myself” Is 44:24

" ... and hangeth the earth upon nothing" Job 26:7
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Bored. Maybe I should go out more.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You've got to be kidding, right? Ask me! I've got a lot of
interesting stories to tell. Where I was and what happened on
September 11th (whew - glad that's out of the way!) Short version: I served my country, but its complicated by the fact that not everyone who serves or serves wears a "uniform". Ask me about this when we get to know each other.

Right now I am still putting my life back together after having it "put on hold" because of circumstances beyond everyones control, and now - well, who knows, maybe its time to take a road trip, camp out in the mountains, have some old fashioned normal fun and live the kind of life that most people take for granted. Are we having fun yet? I dont have to work right now, if I dont "want to", but I eventually intend to do something, like become a building contractor or fully licensed architect - otherwise I will go back into the DJ business and start my own record label.

O.K., this is the really complicated and private part - deep in my profile and in the questioniares I admit that I might be interested in an "open relationship", and I am fine with that, even if I tend toward long term serial monogamy on my side of the coin. On the other hand, having had my life "put on hold" for a very long time - I am also VERY interested in talking to ANY and all women who want to get married and have children, whether or not now, or say a year or two from now. I am getting older and would like to do this, eventually, if possible, with someone - maybe you? Supporting a family wont be a problem on "my part", but thats all I really should say, if you know what I mean.

So that's what I'm talking about when I mention the idea of an "open ended relationship". Something that is more than an NSA, or an FWB, but where there might be an understanding that it is perfectly fair for two people to try to meet each others needs, so to speak "right now", on the one hand - but also be able to know that our real future might be with others. Try me - I might just be ready, willing and yours, now and forever, or else a very long term very good friend that you will want to hold onto, long after we BOTH agree that the grass just might be greener somewhere else.
You should message me if
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You're serious about this. If you would like to travel somewhere, sometime soon .... If you are in an open relationship and just want to meet or maybe do more than meet, no stress either way since new friends are always nice, or if would be interested in and open ended one relationship, or you are hot and ready to contribute to over population and want to be swept off your feet and you sincerely beleive that everything I say is so completely wrong that you want to re-Christianize me, on the one hand, but you are willing to accept me the way that I am, on the other hand.

Bonus points if you like karaoke, and are really hard core about it, and your dream is to be on American Idol or X-Factor. I do know some more things about that business than I have fully hinted at.