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61 Santa Rosa, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45–63
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:52am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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So hard to encapsulate your life in a short essay. Information required by recent interviewers: I have primarily been a professional performer most of my life - an actor, musician, writer, producer, etc. I've also worn many other career hats along the way. I am now retired (I don't have to work but I still do occasionally). My friends say that I am funny, witty, deeply connected and introspective, warm, liberal, intelligent, spontaneous, and a kind human being. My humor can be somewhat sarcastic at times, but I am harmless and try to find the humor or pathos in all situations. I consider myself an old-soul. I believe in the rule of Karma and am very conscious of my actions and how they may affect others.
What I’m doing with my life: I recently relocated to Santa Rosa in 2013 to be closer to family and friends. I had lived in Southern California all my life and I felt it was time for a positive change. I have been coming to the Bay Area and Sonoma County for decades and have always enjoyed the time spent in this area. That being said, I am in the process of divesting myself of material possessions and a lifetime of collections. In my free time, I work out at the gym, swim, hike in the local parks and visit with family and friends. I love to shoot pool and I'm getting back into playing golf since I live right next to a golf course. I'm looking to make new friends in the area and would like to meet women who can appreciate a man with a great sense of humor who has lived a very interesting life. It would be an added bonus to meet someone to explore a long term relationship with. I am very independent and don't need a woman to feel whole. I know who I am and don't want you to change me as I would not like to change you. I'm happy being single but might be even happier when in a healthy relationship with you. I act and look younger than my actual age, I would ideally like to meet a woman who is youthful in mind, body and spirit who has some free time to explore this world with me. It would also be a bonus to meet a woman who likes to travel and has some time to get away and play. I enjoy going to the theater, concerts and clubs for music, art and film events, local events, exploring the area, finding hot springs, vacationing in warm tropical locales, being anywhere near the beach and the redwoods. I really enjoy road trips and train travel. I've camped out quite a bit but now enjoy the comfort of a rented bed in motels and hotels instead of hauling a car load of camping equipment around (which I have and still do). Although, if you like to camp, I can compromise and do it with your help! So that's it for now. Just know that I am perfectly myself as I would want you to be. I sincerely hope our paths cross...
What I’m doing with my life
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see above
I’m really good at
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lots of things - reading people, music, acting, vast array of knowledge about art, music, history - fixing things, restoring things, painting things, making adults laugh, making children laugh, plot analysis, showing compassion and kindness to others, helping the world become a better place for all of us.
The first things people usually notice about me
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are my hands, my eyes, and my sense of style and humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - I've read a variety of subjects over the years - mostly non-fiction, biographies, metaphysical topics, historical novels, etc. Right now I have little time for reading but always keep a book in progress.
Movies - I spent the last 25 years watching movies for a living. I have a wide range of favorites and netflix keeps me busy with the best documentaries, foreign films, main stream, and indie films.
Shows - I really don't have many I watch on a regular basis except Antiques Roadshow, Downtown Abbey, Jon Stewart.
Music - I really like an eclectic mix of musical styles. I'm more attracted to Main stream Rock and Roll, Classic R&R, Soul, Motown, R&B, classical music and alternative music. Anything good is what I like.
Food - Enjoy most cuisines from all over the world.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friendship and love
humor and tears
oceans and mountains
music and poetry
the sun and the moon and the stars
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
important and trivial things
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am looking for friendship and/or intimacy. You don't have to be perfect. I'm not. If you have an itch, I will scratch it. Fare rates. Mileage negotiable.
You should message me if
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you are curious about me and you want to get to know a fellow traveler. Please don't be shy.