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60 M Zaanstad, Netherlands

My Details

Last Online
Jul 21
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay), French (Poorly), Dutch (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Non-conformist trapped in suburbia.
Key words: friendly, sincere, a little shy, modest, creative, intelligent, faithful and very much an individualist ('sparrows fly in flocks, eagles fly alone' kind of thing:-).
Reaching out here in search of those rare opportunities to encounter with interesting other beings and travel a while together in the journey of life; break down walls, establish friendships to share thoughts, feelings, believes and passions and learn new things
What I’m doing with my life
Bringing in 5 days a week money to raise kids, pay mortgage, groceries and silently dreaming about a freer life which is better aligned with my deep desires than my current one.
Feeling lonely; experiencing a void in my heart and able to find that open minded woman which is able to look through conventions and wants to engage to become a friend and if there is a click also a lover.
With my age that feels as your life slipping between your fingers as sand dust and that is depressing.
Thank god there is music, good books, interesting projects, a great dog and a great partner to compensate.
And contrary to common believe my partner knows and understands, although she is not able to be my lover anymore we are mates and that will stay that way and she doesn't consider me to be a cheater at all.
I’m really good at
Making my life more difficult than necessary :-)
The first things people usually notice about me
I am quite happy to leave first impressions to those who experience them
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Fantastic literature and SF. The obvious Tolkien (although I read most of his books when I was 12), Jack Vance, Ballard, Lafferty and numerous others (lost count of the number of books and authors and need to move to a house with a bigger library)
Great music is of any period of time and my interest spans from Stabat Mater to contemporary music and in every genre in between. Nowadays we live in a great age and I am currently particularly fond of progressive rock. Some names of an ever changing list : Steve Wilson, Porcupine Tree, Anathema, Blackfield, Dandy Warhols, Blaudzun and many more
The six things I could never do without
Air, water, food, friendship, love, music, intimacy, motorbike rides far away from dutch traffic regulations and speed cameras, dreaming about freedom and last but not least: my big hairy dogfriend.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Future - actually not very satisfied with my current life and thinking about possibilities to extend my horizon.
Design and engineering - a passion I am carrying with me throughout my entire life and which results in an vast number of ridiculous projects that vary from visual art through motorcycle restoration to boat building and many other areas in between. Another reason for moving to a place with more space.
On a typical Friday night I am
Leaving another week of work behind me - probably listening to music and wandering the world wide web talking with friends, looking for opportunities and making plans.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'd rather share my private things with individuals chosen by myself than in public.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You want to know more or just want to connect.