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koldun

36 M Peaks Island, ME

My Details

Last Online
Aug 13
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Russian (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm pretty easy-going, I get excited about stuff, and I'm not afraid of the world. I would probably like you a lot if we met.

So, I'm a mix of things, I suppose like everyone else. I'm really smart about some things (though not arrogant), and somewhat dumb about others. I don't fully belong anywhere - not in the former Soviet republic of Ukraine, where I was born and grew up, not here in the USA (which so kindly took me in and raised me), and not really in Europe (which I constantly long to visit). But I fit in pretty well, in most situations.

I love - sailing and the water, books, computers, ridiculous conversations, road trips, and feeding people (I make killer pasta, steak, pancakes, waffles, etc). I'm learning how to draw, though still kind of bad at it. I don't know a ton about music (so you should introduce me to some!), but I love going to concerts and live shows.

What else. I moved to Portland area several years ago, and still exploring it. (I live on Peaks Island, right off the coast). I have a sailboat which I love, and take weekend-long (and week-long, if I'm lucky) trips during the summer.

I'm married (to thelearnedcat on here), and poly. (Live in a triad, actually, in a big house with a million animals and books and artists).

I want - well, uh, everything. Friends, partners, people to watch movies with and play board games, take road trips to festivals or book conventions, and go on general adventures with.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making software/web apps, sailing, reading and watching and playing, traveling, learning stuff.

Gathering courage, skills and experience to run a startup or two, make some interesting changes to the world.

I'm not an artist myself, in the traditional sense, I tend to hang around a lot of them (hell, married to an amazing one), and help them with their projects tech-wise.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Free association. But also:
Cooking breakfast, understanding, seeing connections, realizing implications, dreaming. (I'm good at making russian blini for example. Which are like crepes, but slightly sweeter.).

I sometimes feel I am an author's or an artist's perfect fan -- I appreciate works deeply, I hoard books, maps, old games, and beautiful things, and feel it is my mission in life to share them with people.

I'm pretty good at programming, too.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My great personal dignity? No, wait, exact opposite.
Probably my animated style of talking (I'm either really quiet, or ranting and talking with my hands, etc). I tend to be really enthusiastic about things.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love this stuff. :)
Favorite Authors: Catherynne M. Valente, Iain M. Banks, Neal Stephenson, Thomas Pynchon, Dan Simmons, Samuel R. Delany, Daniel Quinn, Kim Stanley Robinson, John Crowley, Umberto Eco, William Gibson, Ursula Le Guin, Strugatski Brothers, Neil Gaiman, Jeanette Winterson, Vadim Zeland

Books: Little, Big, Illuminatus! trilogy, Foucault's Pendulum, Hyperion series, Against the Day, Anathem, Breakfast of Champions, The Cyberiad, Diamond Age, Dhalgren, Dry Water, Tonguecat, the Discworld books (esp. the Witches, and Susan arcs), Revelation X, The Prophet, WYRMS, Lord of Light, The Iron Dragon's Daughter, Hogfather, The Hormone Jungle, Ishmael, Landscape Painted with Tea, Lucky Wander Boy, The Mars Trilogy (KSR), Master and Margarita, Mason and Dixon, The Last Legends of Earth, Let The Dog Drive, Neverness, The Orphan's Tales, Palimpsest (and everything by Valente), Pattern Recognition, Possession, The Satanic Verses, Satyrday, Under Milkwood, House of Incest, Vurt

Favorite Poets: Alexander Pushkin, Marina Tsvetayeva, Keats, Anna Ahkmatova, Walt Witman

Comics/Graphic Novels: Transmetropolitan, Planetary, Aquaman (awww yeahhh baby!), El Borbah, Fables, Finder, Pax Romana, Top 10, The Watchmen, Whiteout, Y: The Last Man

Movies: 10th Kingdom, A Lion In Winter, American Beauty, Big Fish, Big Lebowski, Boondock Saints, Cabin in the Woods, Closer, Dark City, Dogma, Existenz, Fargo, Hamlet, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Jennifer's Body, I Heart Huckabees, Kill Bill, Kung Fu Hustle, Labyrinth, Matrix, My Dinner With Andre, Primer, Princess Bride, Rosencrantz & Guildenstern Are Dead, Run Lola Run, Sex and Lucia, Shortbus, Six String Samurai, Strange Days, Tale of Winter, Three Colours Trilogy, Waking Life, The Lost Room

TV Series: Firefly, Farscape, RuPaul's Drag Race, Carnivale, Six Feet Under, Babylon 5, Buffy, Angel, Twin Peaks, Sports Night, Star Trek: TNG, Survivor (shhh, don't judge), House M.D., True Blood, Community, Deadwood, Top Shot

Anime: Princess Mononoke, Spirited Away, Excel Saga, Trigun, Cowboy Bebop, Lain, Haibane Renmei, Martian Successor Nadesico, Planetes, Samurai Champloo, Vision of Escaflowne, Witch Hunter Robin

Music: Gogol Bordello (in a league of its own)
*Angry/passionate girls: Rasputina, Evanescence, Florence and the Machine, t.a.t.u., S.J. Tucker, The Dresden Dolls, Lisa Gerrard/Dead Can Dance, Regina Spektor, Loreena McKennitt, Art In Manila, Medieval Babes, Tori Amos
*Clever boys: Mumford and Sons, The Decemberists, Peter Gabriel, Damien Rice, Sufjan Stevens
* Dubstep and awesome pompous orchestral electronica:
Delirium, Juno Reactor, E.S.Posthumous, Little people/Laurent Clerc
* Nuevo tango: Gotan Project, Tanghetto

Video Games: Borderlands 2, Castle Crashers, Bastion, Nethack, Kingdom of Loathing, Final Fantasy series, Zelda series, Crystalis, Chronotrigger, Diablo II, Civilization IV, Heroes of Might and Magic, Fire Emblem, Secret of Mana, Viva Pinata

Foods: Sushi, Thai/curries, pesto, Russian blini, tiramisu, coffee, good icecream, most seafood, anything at all-night diners (especially the ones that serve breakfast).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The water (sea, ocean or large lake), books, smart and stimulating company, seafood, games, intimacy and physical affection.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Traveling, people and relationships, the Buy Local movement, technology and good design, clever code, good books, feral artificial intelligences. About what I would do if I had to give up writing software for a living (still not sure. medicine? massage therapy? confrontational performance art?), and whether I would make a good rebel cult leader on Mars. Which I would.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Most likely on the road. In the summer, I take sailing and camping trips almost every weekend. I also go to a lot of conventions -- literary, scifi and tech conventions, as well as a lot of out-of-town trips to see friends.

When I'm in town, I'm either hanging out with friends, going out for coffee, or just cuddling at home, watching movies and playing video games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like all 3 of the Matrix Movies (though I should rewatch them again). And Dusk Till Dawn. And Eyes Wide Shut. And Hello Kitty.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–90
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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if the voices in your head compel you! obviously.