i'm so terrible at self promotion...i'm not sure what to say. oh wait, i got it...i'm totally awesome and you should get to know me

so, since the last time i updated this thing i've started seeing 2 girls. one is more of a fuck buddy and we don't go out on dates, the other one goes out on dates with me but we don't have sex. it's actually a lot of fun and i like spending time with both but wish i could combine them into one girl...or find a new one that would perform both functions

still looking for a real girlfriend. i'll just say it, i'm looking for a relationship. that doesn't mean you have to be the love of my life or anything like that, if you like me and i like you, let's be together and have fun and enjoy ourselves for however long it lasts...2 weeks? 6 months? 5 years? get married? who knows? let's not over complicate things or worry about it not working out, and just enjoy ourselves as long as it's fun for both of us. i guess what i'm trying to say is, no pressure.

it may not be fashionable for a dude to say these things, but i really enjoy the smaller things about being in a relationship. kissing, holding hands, snuggling, private jokes and the feeling of being in a bubble, the rest of the world be damned. i enjoy teasing/sarcasm and can play a little rough, but i have a lot of sweetness to give.

i don't know why okc thinks so many of you are more drug friendly than myself, i love drugs and even if i don't do the same drugs as you it doesn't mean i'm unfriendly to them.
and where does okc get off calling me old fashioned!!! i'm very progressive...i'm pro-choice, pro-gay marriage, letting the girl pay. but seriously, even if i am old fashioned, i have an open mind and have a live and let live attitude.
although, they do have it right in that i am purer than most. that's not to say that i'm not jaded or have a jaundiced view of human existence, but i do have a very pure heart and have somehow managed to maintain a certain amount of naivete.

oh, never mind

taking pictures, painting, riding bikes...working

recently joined the staff of a free monthly here in town as a photographer. it doesn't pay, but it is a step in the right direction and hopefully will lead to bigger things.

now i have a restaurant column in the free monthly mentioned above. my friend and i go to a restaurant, record our conversation and that's the column!!! maybe you've read it, probably not. soon i will be adding articles and interviews to my oeuvre.

stuff

my bald head

music - the sour notes, bottle service, coma in algiers, the flesh lights, kingdom of suicide lovers, midwives, one good lung, tyvek, deerhunter, the reatards, the clash, hank williams, johnny cash, the strange boys, sonic chicken 4, sons of hercules, ramones, hank snow, billie holliday, louis jordan, the sword, my bloody valentine, movie star junkies, a faulty chromosome, the zoltars, stereolab, pavement, the vaselines, x, belle and sebastian, galaxie 500, pixies, beat happening, the detroit cobras, the stooges, velvet underground, mc5, les rallizes denudes, gang of 4, wire, wooden shjips, moon duo, sonic youth, mudhoney, the intelligence, portishead, toots and the maytals, grupo fantasma, butthole surfers, pure x, no mas bodas, joe jackson, mono men, man...or astro-man?, ichi ni san shi, neil young, ringo deathstarr, mermaid blonde, lee "scratch" perry, the cramps, warren smith, dead moon, the fastbacks, crystal stilts, the fall, the gun club, the decemberists, the replacements, husker du, prince, the black angels, flat duo jets

movies - mod fuck explosion, audition, wonderland, schizopolis, see the sea, wild strawberries, une femme est une femme, weekend, shoot the piano player, naked, mulholland drive, the pledge, the maltese falcon, apocalypse now, dr. strangelove, the third man, m, brazil, l'avventura, delicatessen, george wahington, blue velvet, videodrome, american graffiti, 8 1/2, abre los ojos, chungking express

books - ulysses, fight club, bastard out of carolina, up in the old house, red harvest, child of god, junky, redemption street, crash, the butcher boy, libra, spider, the cement garden, mother of pearl

food - thai, indian, viet namese, bbq, burgers, seafood, cajun, pizza, vegetarian friendly

in no particular order...music, food, bike, camera, coffee, cigarettes

why can't people just get along??? what are grape nuts??? if we are in this universe, what is the universe in???

i don't have typical friday nights

i have a coke addiction...coca-cola that is

you like things that are sweet and sour
you want to go for a bike ride
you want to play photo shoot
you want to be friends