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51 Chicago, IL Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38–58
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:21pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Full figured
Christianity, and very serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

I've been having a hard time finding a man who wants to do some old-fashioned dating. You know, dinner and a movie. A show? A walk through the art museum? Romantic candlelit dinner? Bowling? Heck, even a night of pizza, beer and watching Pawn Stars at my apartment would be cool.

I would love to fall in love, but it's important to get to know each other first through DATING!

Any traditional men out there? Where are you?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a marketing communications writer and have been doing that for almost 20 years. Yeah, I've written a lot of junk mail over the years, but it's a living! But I recently got a gig writing for a non-profit that helps people with a terrible illness, so I feel much more fulfilled.

Spare time is spent getting out to live music and other fun things around the City, reading, watching Netflix, playing flute/piano/guitar (also just started studying music theory again after a 20-yr hiatus), hanging out with my son and seeing my grown daughters (who have left the nest) when I can.

So okay, I like to keep busy. But I also LOVE an afternoon nap snuggled under a nice warm blanket. Mmmmm, mmmm, good.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking bullshit, lol. Try me.
Kicking ass and taking names.
Being a mom.
Being goofy.
Writing very long text messages, very fast.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not sure, but I sure do smile a lot, so maybe that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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MUSIC: I'm one of the people who HAS to have music playing all day. Thankfully, I have the kind of job that allows me to do this! I listen to a wide variety -- Mozart, Joe Bonamassa, The Pixies, The Waterboys, Billy Joel (early stuff), Bach Flute Sonatas, Les Claypool and Primus, French jazz, Joni Mitchell, Harry Connick, Jr., Cake, Hermans Hermits, Buddy Guy, The Black Crowes, Altan, Screaming Trees, Bob Marley, Polish Alternative, needtobreathe, Henhouse Prowlers, Mazzy Star, The Black Keys, Seasick Steve and really, a gazillion more I can't think of right now.

MOVIES/TV: My all-time favorite movie is Amadeus. British detective and comedy shows, French films, Netflix movies and tv series (old and new) --- ad nauseam. Lol.

BOOKS: Anything by Michael Connelly, detective and legal fiction.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids
My iPhone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Hundreds of things. :-)) I'm a woman. We do that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out and about enjoying the city, or with my 13yo son if I have him that night. Or, maybe just crashed on the couch drinking a glass of wine and watching Netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That I'm not willing to disclose my most private thing on the Internet?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you want a woman who is known by her friends as confident, loving, fun, silly, blunt, smart, creative and easy to talk to. If you enjoy sarcastic conversation as much as a serious discussion on where we've both been and what we want out of our lives going forward. If you are affectionate and open to going beyond just dating if the chemistry is there. If you like to go out and DO things and not just sit on the couch and watch TV!