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51 Chicago, IL Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 38–58
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:20pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Full figured
Christianity, and very serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I just want to be swept off my feet by the man of my dreams, is that so wrong? ;-)

If you're witty and have a cute smile, you can take cuts in line. If your eyes are green, blue or hazel, you can move to the front. :-) If you have dimples, well ... hmmmm.

I'm very playful and smile a lot -- so you can't be a David Downer. I laugh every day, even when things suck. I want a man that can do that, too.

Also, I'm quite a smart ass, so be ready to spar. If you can't handle sarcasm, you probably won't click with me.

I'm an independent woman, but I let a man be a man. I love being in a relationship and I'm not afraid to let the man take the lead. Your chivalry is welcome here!
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a marketing communications writer and have been doing that for almost 20 years. Yeah, I've written a lot of junk mail over the years, but it's a living! But I recently got a gig writing for a non-profit that helps people with a terrible illness, so I feel much more fulfilled.

Spare time is spent getting out to live music and other fun things around the City, reading, watching Netflix, playing flute/piano/guitar (also just started studying music theory again after a 20-yr hiatus), hanging out with my son and seeing my grown daughters (who have left the nest) when I can.

So okay, I like to keep busy. But I also LOVE an afternoon nap snuggled under a nice warm blanket. Mmmmm, mmmm, good.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking bullshit, lol. Try me.
Kicking ass and taking names.
Being a mom.
Being goofy.
Writing very long text messages, very fast.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Not sure, but I sure do smile a lot, so maybe that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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MUSIC: I'm one of the people who HAS to have music playing all day. Thankfully, I have the kind of job that allows me to do this! I listen to a wide variety -- Mozart, Joe Bonamassa, The Pixies, The Waterboys, Billy Joel (early stuff), Bach Flute Sonatas, Les Claypool and Primus, French jazz, Joni Mitchell, Harry Connick, Jr., Cake, Hermans Hermits, Buddy Guy, The Black Crowes, Altan, Screaming Trees, Bob Marley, Polish Alternative, needtobreathe, Henhouse Prowlers, Mazzy Star, The Black Keys, Seasick Steve and really, a gazillion more I can't think of right now.

MOVIES/TV: My all-time favorite movie is Amadeus. British detective and comedy shows, French films, Netflix movies and tv series --- ad nauseam. Lol.

BOOKS: Anything by Michael Connelly, detective and legal fiction.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids
My iPhone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Hundreds of things. :-)) I'm a woman. We do that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out and about enjoying the city, or with my 13yo son if I have him that night. Or, maybe just crashed on the couch drinking a glass of wine and watching Netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That I'm not willing to disclose my most private thing on the Internet?
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