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35 M Philadelphia, PA

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Last Online
Today – 3:53pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
When drinking
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
tl;dr Smart, funny (funnier than you'd think if you read my OK Cupid profile), spiritual, sometimes scatalogical. Very human. Louis CK is my spirit animal. Keith Richards and James Jamerson are my musical spirit animals.

Interested in a meaningful relationship, but not going to force it.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a software developer by trade.

I put a lot of attention into developing mindfulness and willingness: meditation, listening to dhamma talks, and just everyday reflection.

I play bass and guitar. I joined a band and we just recorded our first album. (We're still working on finishing it up.) I play at jam sessions sometimes as well.

I cook all the time, took cooking classes, love cooking for other people.

I'm putting some effort into hitting the gym (with mixed results) and eating less (with pretty good results).
I’m really good at
Coming to my senses. Cooking. Making software. Hanging out. Appreciating graffiti and street art.
The first things people usually notice about me
Big lips, honesty, silliness, love for the arts.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I just bought a bunch of coffee table books on art. I take my cues for fiction from Oprah's book club. Seriously. (Freedom by Jonathan Franzen, White Oleander, and The Kite Runner were all winners for me.) Books on Buddhist practice.

Movies about people. I like indie-ish flicks, classics of any era, love Judd Apatow, really like documentaries. I listen to too many bands to list, but..

Velvet Underground, Chance the Rapper, Tame Impala, Kanye West, Motorhead, Supergrass, XTC, Ghostface Killa, Nick Drake, Danny Brown, Chance the Rapper, The Stones, Sly and The Family Stone, Wilco, Loose Fur, Grimace Federation, Tune-Yards, Loretta Lynn, Joe Jackson, People Under the Stairs, Beatles, Radiohead, Jamiroquai, Stevie Wonder, Wilco, The Dismemberment Plan, Steely Dan, Frank Zappa, The Beatles, The Roots, Queens of the Stone Age, Zero 7, Beck, Cake, Pink Floyd, Herbie Hancock, The Police golden age hip-hop, deep house.

I generally dig ethnic food done well. Some of my favorite eats:
Han Dynasty
Tasty Place and Dim Sum Garden in Chinatown
Kim's Korean BBQ in Olney
Dahlak or Abyssinia for Ethiopian
Orewa Deli in Suburban Station for breakfast burritos (although judging by the last one I had there, they're slippin')
International Smokeless BBQ for the hot and sour soup
The giant pretzel and cheese sauce from Frankford Hall
The six things I could never do without
1. Buddhism
2. good friends
3. making things
4. playing and listening to music
5. well-stocked kitchen
6. kindness
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You've think we might be a good match and you ask good questions.