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kosh_al

39 / M / straight / Single

Huntsville, Alabama

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 1" (1.85m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am honest, affectionate, and faithful.

My Self-Summary

I am tired of liars and cheaters. I want someone who can communicate their feelings and work things out together before going somewhere else for attention or more. I want someone who I can trust with my heart. I prefer someone at least a few years younger than me, slim, and open to starting a family or adding to yours. I love to get attention and I will give in return. I am a generous lover and I love to please. I am touchy feely and not afraid of pda. I am mostly a home body but I do get out from time to time if I have someone to get out with. I love to eat out but it does get old doing it all the time. I like to cook and eat at home when there is someone to share it with. I like to be cooked for as well! I like to snuggle. I am not afraid to show I love someone. I am an emotional guy and can be very tender hearted.

I like to think I am a simple guy and I would like to find a simple woman. I want someone who can be just as comfortable in some jeans or sweats as she is dressed up to go to dinner somewhere nice. I am laid back and she should be as well. I am independent and own my own home. I am not afraid of women with children if they aren't afraid of the possibility having another one someday!!

I hope to hear from someone who thinks we might have something in common. I am not here for just one thing even though I love that thing and I try to be good at it ;-) I want friendship, chemistry, attraction, that "spark" when we touch, desire, passion, honesty, trust, communication, commonality, monogamy, affection, and lots of attention!!!

I must warn you that I can be a bunny rabbit but I love to please and hopefully it would be mutual.

I know what I like and what attracts me. That doesn't mean I am superficial, that means I am honest. That doesn't mean I will only accept an exact fit but, pretty close would be great!! Don't be a hater if you don't fit that description, it's not my fault. Also, don't rule me out if I am barely out of your age requirements. You could be passing up on your dream guy!!

What I’m doing with my life

I work full time and have a house and a car and I am trying to pay down some bills and save some money....with the way the economy is nowadays I hope to have some kind of a cushion in case things get bad...

The first things people usually notice about me

I look much younger than I really am.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I like all kinds of food, especially Mexican. I like all kinds of music except rap and R&B but I can listen to a little bit of it. I have been listening to a lot of country lately, it isn't so angry like the heavy metal stuff and I have heard all the classic rock songs SO many times I could almost go nuts. Country is about real life and is down to Earth and is easier to sing along with when I am alone in the car ;-) (Did I just say that out loud?)

The six things I could never do without

Love
Music
Money
Companionship
My BlackBerry
Sex

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Where I am going in life and if I will ever meet that special someone who completes me and loves me with all her heart and I can spend the rest of my life with and have a family with.

On a typical Friday night I am

Going to dinner and a few drinks with that someone or snuggled on the couch with her watching a movie or playing Wii. Prefer to spend time with someone on the weekends especially so Friday nights are negotiable. Lately, since becoming single again, I can be found home alone on a Friday night.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I do not want to be alone.

You should message me if

You are honest, faithful, and through playing games and want to possibly have a relationship with someone who is very caring and loving and wants to find someone special to spend lots of time with in hopes that it may lead to something serious down the road...