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30 Hawthorne, NJ Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 13
5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body type
Not at all
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If you don't have time to read my whole profile, you don't have time to date me. And don't give me that whole "if I read your profile, we wouldn't have anything to talk about" bullshit. I can talk about ANY of these topics for DAYS on end. I'm almost never on here, but if I get a message I'll check it out.

I'm demisexual. If you don't know what that means, look it up. If you are not comfortable with dating someone who's demi, please don't message me to begin with--unless you want to be just friends. Now that okc has FINALLY included demisexuality as an option, I really don't see any reason for anybody to be surprised or not know going into this.

I'm non-denominational born again Christian, but I don't go to church or do anything religious at all--other than believe in it. I'm currently a crossing guard, but I have my MA in English. I'm an author, waiting to be published, one day. I write science-fiction and fantasy novels and short stories. I role-play, especially VtM. I love Harry Potter, anime, manga, yaoi, slash, fanfiction, tabletop games, board games, card games, and video games. I am a total dork/nerd/geek/otaku/gamer and proud of it. I'm probably more violent and irritable than you are. I'm also probably more religious and into fandom than you are. Also more into constant discussion of topics, both RL and fan-related. If those things work for you, contact me! ^_^*

Also, I've recently gotten into sci-fi/fantasy fandom, and by that I mean specifically television shows. So, now I can safely add a whole BUNCH of interests! YAY! Stargate Atlantis, Supernatural, Star Trek, Due South - for starters. Yes, I DO ship McShep, Wincest, Kirk/Spock, and Fraser/RayK. Thank you, God, for Callum Keith Rennie. Hallelujah and Amen. XDDD

I am literate, opinionated, and verbose.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working on my original novel, as well as my slash fics. *shrugs*
Working on making a video game.
Working on making fanvids.
Working for little money to pay a lot of bills.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
RPG's, especially made by Squaresoft/Square Enix/whatever. Reading, writing, and being loud. Telling people my opinion. Getting out of trouble. Annoying people. Avoiding doing what I should be doing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm usually wearing all black, I have paperclips in my ears (although this usually goes unnoticed), and I'm almost always by my twin sister. We're loud. There's a lot to notice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
- Harry Potter, baby. HPPoA, HPGoF, HPOotP, HPHBP.
- The Golden Compass trilogy by Philip Pullman
- The Samaria series by Sharon Shinn
- Alice in Wonderland by Lewis Carroll
- Good Omens by Neil Gaiman and Terry Pratchett
- Animorphs by K.A. Applegate
- The Hunger Games by Suzanne Collins

- The Dark Knight (and most DC)
- Harry Potter movies: HPPoA, HPGoF
- Underworld series
- Matrix trilogy
- Spirited Away (Howl's Moving Castle, and most Miyazaki movies)
- The Nightmare Before Christmas
- A Muppet's Christmas Carol
- Pacific Rim
- Marvel (Iron Man, Captain America: the Winter Solider, Avengers, Hulk (Norton), Spiderman (most of them), Fantastic Four, X-Men (every single one))
- Edge of Tomorrow

- Battlestar Galactica
- Supernatural
- Star Trek (TOS, TNG, VOY)
- Babylon 5
- Farscape
- Stargate Atlantis
- The 100
- The Flash
- Agent Carter
- House of Cards
- Orange is the New Black
- Orphan Black
- iZombie
- In the Flesh
- The Walking Dead
- Doctor Who
- Hannibal
- Merlin
- Sherlock
Other: Hawaii Five-0, Criminal Minds, Arrow, Once Upon a Time, Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D., The Fosters, Gotham, Teen Wolf

- "The Graveyard Near the House" by The Airborne Toxic Event
- "Bigger Than Love" by My Favorite Highway
- "Call Off Your Ghost" by Dessa
- "Echo" by Jason Walker
- "Falling In" by Lifehouse
- "Hum Hallelujah" by Fall Out Boy
- "Love in the 21st Century" by Neon Trees
- "Love Somebody" by Maroon 5
- "Never Gonna Let You Down" by Colbie Caillat
- "Never Look Away" by Vienna Teng
- "Ordinary Day" by Vanessa Carlton
- "Suds in the Bucket" by Sara Evans
- "Swallowed in the Sea" by Coldplay
- "Tightrope" by Walk the Moon
- "Waiting for Superman" by Daughtry
- "Yellow Flicker Beat" by Lorde
- "24" by Jem
- "Back in Black" by AC/DC
- "Bad Intentions" by Digital Daggers
- "The Best Day" by Taylor Swift
- "Bullets" by Tunng
- "Civilization" by The Andrews Sisters
- "Climbing Up the Walls" by Radiohead
- every song Joker sings to Batman in the Arkham games
... and many, many more.
- Genres: J-Pop, Pop, Punk, Top 40, Goth, Rock, Light Rock, Hard Rock, Metal, Country, Classical, Christian Rock, Techno, House, etc. Not much rap.

- Pretzels
- Mashed potatoes
- Chicken noodle soup
- Chicken sandwiches
- Macaroni and cheese
- Pierogies
- Cream of chicken soup

Video Games:
- Chrono Trigger
- Final Fantasy 6, 7
- Secret of Mana
- Secret of Evermore
- Earthbound
- Mass Effect
- Dragon Age
- Fallout 3
- Batman Arkham Asylum, City, Origins
- Borderlands 2
- inFamous
- Mobile Games: World of Goo, Monsters Ate My Birthday Cake

- Naruto
- Fullmetal Alchemist
- Fruits Basket
- Digimon
- Hunter x Hunter
- Sailor Moon
- too many shounen-ai/yaoi to list here

- Avengers
- Runaways
- Young Avengers
- X-Men
- Generation X
- New Mutants
- Batman (Joker, Arkham Asylum: A Serious House on Serious Earth, The Dark Knight Returns, The Long Halloween)
- Young Justice
- Detective Comics
- Y: the Last Man
- Sandman
- Preacher
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Fandom
- Deep, intellectual conversation
- Engrossing fiction
- Gaming
- My twin sister <3333333
- Chicken Pot Pie
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Harry/Draco, Sasunaru, Wincest, Roy/Ed, Taito, Riku/Sora, Batman/Joker, Kirk/Spock, Superhusbands, fandom, my stories, anime, video games, religion, God, supernatural stuff, yaoi, my angst.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Catching up on TV shows I've missed during the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've got OCD, which isn't really private. It's not bad- just the usual thing. Touching, counting, running back to my door and touching it a few times then running back to meet up with my friends again, that sort of thing.

I'm demisexual. I know it's on the details section under sexual orientation, but people still seem to miss it. That, or not know what it means and then expect things I'm not doing.
You should message me if
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*shrugs* You're bored, or want to talk about anime, or something. I guess. I don't know... SHOULD you message me? *gives a critical eye*

And BTW, I'm not going to assume you messaging me means that you want to go out or meet up or whatever. I'm going to assume that you just want to talk and get to know me before you make any kinds of assumptions about me. Maybe that's true, maybe it isn't--but you should know that's what I'm thinking when you message me. And please, don't woo if your status is anything other than "single." I'm not interested in "activity partners." Friends are great, and online friends rock, but casual sex is so the opposite of what I'm all about.