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30 Hawthorne, NJ Woman


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Mar 31, 2014
5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body Type
Not at all
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t want kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Japanese (Okay)

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My self-summary
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OkCupid is STUPID if you're bi. Seriously. *headdesk*

NOTE: I'm almost never on here, but if I get an e-mail from OkCupid I'll check it out. I get an e-mail whenever someone messages me, woos me, chooses me in quickmatch, etc. So it's more likely you'll catch me from messaging me than from waiting to see if I log in and trying to IM me. It's easier to contact me through e-mail, which I'll respond to fairly quickly. Also, LJ of course, which is made of win. ^_^*

I'm non-denominational born again Christian. I'm an author. I write science-fiction and fantasy novels and short stories. I role-play, especially VTM. I love Harry Potter, anime, manga, yaoi, slash, fanfiction, and video games. I am a total dork/nerd/geek/otaku and proud of it. I'm probably more violent and irritable than you are. I'm also probably more religious and into fandom than you are. Abusive childhoods are ultimate love. If those things work for you, contact me! ^_^*

Also, I've currently got green hair. These things happen sometimes. [UPDATE! My hair is now brown and shorter. Again. These things happen.]

Also, I've recently gotten into sci-fi/fantasy fandom, and byt that I mean specifically television shows. So, now I can safely add a whole BUNCH of interests! YAY! [Stargate Atlantis], [Supernatural], [Star Trek], [Due South] - for starters. Yes, I DO ship [McShep], [Wincest], [Kirk/Spock], and [Fraser/RayK]. Thank you, God, for Callum Keith Rennie. Hallelujah and Amen. XDDD

I am literate, opinionated, and nonsensical.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working on my original novel, as well as my slash fics. *shrugs* Also, college.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
RPG's, especially made by Squaresoft/Square Enix/whatever. Reading, writing, and being loud. Telling people my opinion. Getting out of trouble. Annoying people. Avoiding doing what I should be doing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'd say my clothing. I wear all black, normally with some chains hanging. Bondage pants are love, but it's hard to find them in my size since I'm fat and short. Such is life.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A: Oh God. Here we go. Harry Potter, baby. HPPoA, HPGoF, HPOotP, HPHBP, The Golden Compass trilogy by Philip Pullman, The Samaria series by Sharon Shinn, Obsidian Butterfly by Luarell K. Hamilton, Alice in Wonderland by Lewis Carroll, Good Omens by Neil Gaiman and Terry Pratchett, Animorphs by K.A. Applegate, anything by Neil Gaiman

B: The Dark Knight, HPPoA, HPGoF, Underworld series, Matrix trilogy, LotR trilogy, Spirited Away, The Nightmare Before Christmas

As for television, I love so many shows it's terrifying. All the obvious fandom ones, Star Trek, Xena, Stargate, etc. Maybe I'll list them later. Meh.

C: Anything except rap- including J-Pop, Pop, Punk, Goth, Rock, Light Rock, Hard Rock, Metal, Country, Classical, Christian Rock, etc. ^_^* No, seriously. I mean it.

D: Pretzels! Also, mashed potatoes, chicken noodle soup, chicken sandwiches, macaroni and cheese, and pierogies.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Fandom. It's only on thing, but encompasses so much, doesn't it? Maybe it's a sort-of cheat answer, but I don't care. :P
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Harry/Draco, sasunaru, wincest, Roy/Ed, Taito, Riku/Sora, Batman/Joker, my stories, anime, video games, religion, God, supernatural stuff, yaoi, my angst. ^_^*

ALSO! Now I've been introduced to Merlin, and heck yes, Arthur/Merlin really is rather hot, isn't it?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching Battlestar Galactica. Um, hello? Have you SEEN Apollo? *licks him* And Starbuck. She is smokin' fine. Also Six. That cylon is sex on legs for serious.

Bah, they changed the day it's shown. I guess now I'm usually on my computer watching anime, AMVs, or writing something.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Well, okay. I've got OCD, which isn't really private. It's not bad- just the usual thing. Touching, counting, running back to my door and touching it a few times then running back to meet up with my friends again, that sort of thing. ^_^*

Also, I'm not fond of the sexual preference system they've got here. I'm keeping it as straight for now, just because I tend to like more guys than girls. Still... I'm private-list-sexual. It means I'm attracted to who I'm attracted to, and I stole the term from a H/D fanfic. W00T!! ^_^*

EDIT: Changed the sexual preference to bi. The system still sucks, though. Bah. And I don't like having to define myself that way. UBER BAH.
You should message me if
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*shrugs* You're bored, or want to talk about anime, or something. I guess. I don't know... SHOULD you message me? *gives a critical eye*

And BTW, I'm not going to assume you messaging me means that you want to go out or meet up or whatever. I'm going to assume that you just want to talk and get to know me before you make any kinds of assumptions about me. Maybe that's true, maybe it isn't--but you should know that's what I'm thinking when you message me. And please, don't woo if your status is anything other than "single." I'm not interested in "activity partners." Friends are great, and online friends rock, but casual sex is so the opposite of what I'm all about.