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kphilo

23 / M / straight / Single

Moorestown, New Jersey

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am calm, determined, and open.

My Self-Summary

My name is Keith and I recently moved to the Philadelphia area after living in Minnesota all my life. I'm glad to be here, though, and I'm looking for friends and love interests alike. I'm fairly tall and pretty lanky, and have a very easy-going and relaxed way of going about my life.

I listen to music or watch television while I do other things quite frequently. I'm an internet junkie and can often be found at work reading news or Wikipedia about interesting topics - I really love to learn. I also really enjoy being around people in small groups or one on one, though parties and dances haven't really ever been my scene. I love talking one on one, too, and learning about people who I'm close to or want to be close to.

What I’m doing with my life

I work as a test engineer for Lockheed Martin in Moorestown, NJ. I graduated from the University of Minnesota in May 2008 with a bachelor's degree in Computer Engineering.

In a more general sense, I'm currently on autopilot while I figure myself out a little better. I want to return to graduate school and learn more, but it's ridiculously difficult to motivate me at times. Spontaneity proves to be one of the most important concepts in my life, as it's brought me most of what I have today. If I don't do things on a whim, sometimes, I don't do them at all.

I’m really good at

I'm really good at solving problems and helping other people through theirs. I'm always glad to give as much of my time as necessary to my friends and family when they need my help.

The first things people usually notice about me

It's hard to say, really. I'm only moderately tall, only a little shy upon first meeting someone, and am fairly typical. I'd hope people would notice that I'm an open person and you can basically ask me anything.

I have a pretty introspective way about me, I have to say. I like reflecting on my self, reflecting on and reconciling the differences between my feelings and my thoughts.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Slaughterhouse-Five by Vonnegut has been my favorite book since high school. I like the classics but have found that recently I tend not to stray much from nonfiction. Recently I read Freakonomics and King Leopold's Ghost, a book about the Congo Free State atrocities.

My movie tastes change drastically with my mood; I like anything from turn-your-brain-off action to sappy love stories depending on a multitude of internal factors. Coen Brothers movies are wonderful, especially No Country for Old Men. I'm not a snob when it comes to movies and don't consider myself "above" a whole lot.

I listen to a lot of varied music punk/ska to harder rock to indie/college rock. Lyrics are a big part of why I love music; the poetry that goes along with the music. Just as examples of my tastes, here's the obligatory list of bands I love: of Montreal, Bad Religion, Neko Case (saw her in concert recently!), Tally Hall, Tegan and Sara, Cake, Tool, Radiohead, the Beatles, David Bowie, Lou Reed... etc!

I've never been picky when it comes to food. Comfort food is great, so is trying anything and everything new to me!

As far as television goes I'm a fan of lots of different shows, many of them sadly defunct. For a short list: Futurama, Mr. Show, Clone High, Burn Notice, Countdown, Arrested Development, Home Movies, Law and Order.

The six things I could never do without

Time to relax and put my feet up; the internet and the connections it provides to my friends back home; my cell phone and its ability to connect me with a friendly voice when I need it; my financial security; my freedom to schedule visits home every once in awhile to see the people I love; love itself.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My future, and the people who may or (sadly) may not be available to be included in it. Lately I've been thinking about building up a new circle of friends and maybe even somebody a little closer than that if I can manage it. I think about tomorrow a lot; what I'll be doing, how I do it. I suppose I'm a mixture of bursts of spontaneity and planning in that respect.

As aforementioned, I spend a lot of time in my own head, thinking about myself, other people, and the world around me. I read pretty consistently about politics, and am fascinated by topics of gender studies, philosophy, and psychology. I think a lot about what it means to be a good male feminist. I think a lot about the dynamics of being your stereotypical "nice guy" and the pros and cons of it, though I'm not changing that fact any time soon.

On a typical Friday night I am

Ready to relax for a bit before heading out and seeing a movie or taking a walk. Nights on the town and nights spent inside watching moves or listening to music are much enjoyed if spent in good company.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'll admit whatever, just ask. I'm an open person.

Oh, here's something: I have a blog that I post on regularly. It's here: http://keithinjersey.blogspot.com Don't expect much, though, I suppose!

You should message me if

You're curious or if I seem interesting to you. I'm really looking for someone who finds me interesting and who I can find interesting; I love debate and just sharing my beliefs, hopes, dreams, and aspirations with someone else.