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38 San Francisco, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 36–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:42am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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I'm an East Coaster and a girl from the South. So I love ambition as well as chivalry in all it's forms.

I tend to be a little shy in one-on-one situations, but for those people who take the time to get to know me, I open up really quickly.

I'm a mix of kind of old-fashioned and thoroughly modern. Hopefully, you'll appreciate that I'm the kind of girl who listens to geeky history and tech podcasts when she's in the shower and likes Nina Simone and Ella Fitzgerald when she's not. I tend to be funny, slightly shy - and simultaneously complex and simple.

I really, really, really hate to be bored. I love hitting museums, art galleries, wine bars, new restaurants. I'm mostly an urban explorer and I'm not super-outdoorsy, but I do like the occasional camping trip. I'm usually a high heels and dresses kind of girl, but I grew up hunting and fishing, so I like an occasional dose of the outdoors. I do firmly believe that running should be reserved for when someone is chasing you. :)
What I’m doing with my life
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Tech/startup stuff. Exploring the intersection of technology product and technology policy. Running an organization for startup entrepreneurs.

Building stuff.

Laughing with friends. Drinking on a work night.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh.
Entertaining myself - I'm an only child.
Keeping promises.
Being a good friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Major smile wattage. Curves. That I actually dress like I give a damn.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Hard Thing About Hard Things, Kindred, The Color Purple, The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao, Tales of the City, Season of the Witch (San Francisco's crazy, intriguing, fucked up history)

Podcasts: Stuff You Missed in History Class, This American Life, Fresh Air, Stuff You Should Know, The Read

Movies: Tons of documentaries lately. Other favorites: Oceans 11, Election, Marnie, Rear Window, The Princess Bride, The September Issue, Grey Gardens, Paris is Burning. Anything campy and fabulous.

TV Shows: The League, Walking Dead (zombie apocalypse!!), Criminal Minds, Archer, Louie


Lots of Shirley Bassey, Eartha Kitt, and Peggy Lee lately. I love a good torch song.

I'm pretty genre agnostic, so I could be listening to pop, hip-hop, country.

Some stuff I'm listening to right now: Nicki Minaj, Jay-Z, Nas, Dinah Washington, 90's dancehall, 60's blues and R&B, 90's hip hop, old school country (Waylon Jennings, Patsy Cline, Dolly Parton), new country (Miranda Lambert, Luke Bryan, Pistol Annies), Nina Simone, Ella Fitzgerald, Frank Sinatra.

I'm also not too good to listen to Migos and Bobby Shmurda.


I try to eat mostly healthy, but I absolutely love food and couldn't imagine depriving myself for the sake of anything so mundane as a 'diet'.

Faves: French, Thai, Vietnamese, sushi, ramen, mac & cheese, oysters, seafood, pho, chicken & waffles...I love it all. I judge restaurants by the quality of their beef tartare. I'm obsessed.

I'm also not very into sweets, so I usually pass on dessert. I know, it's weird.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. The Lifetime Channel
2. all of my cats
3. black tar heroin
4. my collection of Modern Bride magazines
5. Jack Daniels
6. Michael Bolton
7. a calculator

Also, a heavy dose of sarcasm-laden humor. If you can't take a joke, then we're not going to be a good match. I try not to take myself to seriously and you shouldn't either.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to escape the impending zombie apocalypse. Tech. The internets. Startups. Business. My future.

I'm just the right amount of geeky.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sitting on my couch wondering who watched all those Beyonce videos in my YouTube history.

Happy hour with friends and then in for the night. Maybe a movie before I crash? I'm just as likely to go out on a work night as I am a weekend night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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There's a photo of me in my high school yearbook reading Ayn Rand. *cringe*
You should message me if
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You're not bi-biased...or bi-titillated
You like brunch, champagne, and sarcasm
You have a sense of humour and it's slightly twisted
You have a perfect combination of swagger + humility
You are not on some bullshit
You rather enjoy super-feminine girly types who wear high heels and makeup
You're not looking for casual sex
You're friendly and not a complete d-bag
You're not part of a couple. Good luck, but I'm not your unicorn.