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38 Seattle, WA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 6:46am
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Japanese (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I'm an outdoors enthusiast with a heavy emphasis on hiking, swimming, snowboarding, and kayaking. I tend towards the geekier / nerdier side of things such as board game nights with friends, video games, and sci-fi books / cinema, yet I've never been to a Comic-con or similar event.

I'm also an animal lover. I've owned cats in the past, but currently have none. I have a fond place in my heart for dogs, but never owned one. I'm currently considering inviting a labradoodle (golden or chocolate) into my life.

I love to cook! Who doesn't enjoy a good meal?! Beef bourguignon and mashed roasted garlic cauliflower anyone? Give me a recipe I'll enjoy perfecting it!

I like to travel and want to do much more of it, but preferably with a partner. Shared memories are the best in my opinion.

I'm a successful real estate professional by trade, but I hate sales! Currently considering a switch to property management and / or investment. However, my work doesn't define me.

Edit, 22 March 2015: After long deliberation and financial pre-planning after pivotal life events, I'm currently taking 2015 off to rediscover myself and my future. I'm reconnecting with friends, family, and hopefully making new ones. I've begun training for long distance hikes and potentially thru-hiking PCT.
What I’m doing with my life
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Living it, loving it, and nourishing it!
I’m really good at
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Giving massages. I've had many compliments wondering why I didn't do it for a living I was so good.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably my shaved head or my height. I'm 6'3" tall.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Currently working my way through A Song of Fire and Ice series with Divergence, The Wheat Belly, and a dozen others in queue. Mostly into Sci-fi / Fantasy, Health, with the occasional pop culture hits.
Movies: The Princess Bride, The Notebook, LOTR Trilogy. Anything really as long as its a great story or will make me laugh. As well I'm a big Sci-Fi / Fantasy fan.
Television: Game of Thrones, Dexter, Daily Show, Colbert Report, CSI, NCIS, Criminal Minds just about any kind of murder mystery and tons of other HBO, Showtime series.
Music: Muse, Jason Mraz, The Script, the list goes on and on. As cliché as it sounds I have an eclectic taste in music from Black Flag to Adele. As long as it's good I'll probably listen to it. Even country in small doses.
Food: I tend to favor vegetarian, but have no problems having a steak. I do, however avoid dairy. Italian, Indian, and Thai cuisines are a few of my favorites.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good friends, flavorful food, a cuddle buddy, a fine wine, kinky sex (I'm a sex / body positive, Fetlife supporter), and good conversation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where my next big adventure will take me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lately I've been trying to let my adventurous spirit free to explore everything the world has to offer. This can include, but isn't limited to trying out new restaurants, activities, bars or if I'm feeling the need to be at home, I'm binging Netflix. What's your current addiction?
You should message me if
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Disclaimer: I'm currently in an odd stage in my life (see self summary edit.) One which I do not think is conducive to a healthy long term relationship. This doesn't mean I'm opposed to such a thing if it naturally progresses, but from one human being to another I feel it'd be unkind for me to actively seek one and present myself in that way as I will be doing a lot of travelling and hiking. I'd hate to make a newly found romance a trail widow for lack of a better word.

I intend to travel a lot this year. If you see me viewing your profile from my distant location I'm most likely attempting to find similar souls in the area I wish to travel. Care to show me around, recommend sights to see, or hikes to go on in your area?

If you're looking for "casual sex" I prefer to actually know someone, but without the strings attached. I'm not particularly into anonymous hookups. If that's your thing please move on. The best way I could describe what I'm looking for in those regards would be a best friend with benefits. Something intimate and genuine, but without the need for long term commitment.

On that note, to my potential poly friends. I respect the lifestyle you live and to some extent I'm very open to it. That said I don't actively look for it. I don't want to be your primary and share you with the world. However, if you're looking for a substantial friend and part time lover outside of your primary I could be open to that.