30 North Chili, NY
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My self-summary
"The darkness must not be breached. You have come too far. Turn back."
I like spending time with my son and my dog. I like hanging with people, especially those who like to laugh at things but also enjoy deep conversations. All my closest friends are a little socially awkward, and I'm no exception.
I have 6 tattoos, no piercings. I designed all but one of them. They all mean something to me.
Something I should probably mention about myself..I'm kind of different from most people. A lot of people say that, I know. I can't really explain it in text on a dating profile. You'll just have to take my word for it for now. If you want to see what I mean, just send a message. I'm always intrigued by new people's perspectives.

I play electric guitar, draw, play pool, write sometimes, wait patiently in long lines, go to pride festivals (I'm an ally and it's fun meeting new people), concerts, snowboarding, gaming..
I'd really like to learn horseback riding, motorcycle riding, flying, kayaking, and dozens of other things. If you have done these things and are OK with bringing along a newbie, let me know.
What I’m doing with my life
Working, supporting myself and my son.
I’m really good at
I guess I'm a Jack of all trades type. What it comes down to is, I enjoy experiencing new things. I've learned enough to know I'll never know it all, but it won't stop me from trying. The brain is a terrible thing to waste.
The first things people usually notice about me
Just how metal I am.
Haha. I don't know really. Maybe my strange eye color. Maybe my Stoic facial expression. Maybe that I'm seemingly lost in a moment, thinking about 3-5 different things at once..not in an A.D.D. way, more of an observational analysis way... who knows? Also, I have symptoms of this disorder called depersonalization and derealization. . It makes me appear distant. The constant mental wandering is kind of a side affect. Existentialism, nihilism, determinism, and other philosophical isms along with scientific concepts are always on my mind. I tend to question my own identity, and the world around me. I have emotions, I just don't always express them properly. Sometimes I say something mean without realizing. It's made life..interesting.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: the Dexter series, American Gods, To Say Nothing Of The Dog, A Universe From Nothing, The Greatest Show On Earth, etc.

Movies: Fight Club, V for Vendetta, Watchmen (director's cut), The Dark Knight trilogy, Oblivion, Evil Dead 2, The Lost Boys, Stand By Me, and many others.

Shows: Dexter, Spartacus, White Collar, The Walking Dead, Penn & Teller's Bullshit, Impractical Jokers, World's Dumbest, Tosh.0, The Daily Show, Archer, Sliders (bet you don't know what that is), the Adventures of Brisco County Jr., Invasion, Brimstone, Reaper, Kyle XY, and so on.

Music: Heavy Metal, and Rock such as Judas Priest, Black Sabbath, Iron Maiden, Deftones, Opeth, Slipknot. Some others like Johnny Cash, Frank Sinatra, Cake, etc. Music is one of my passions, so there's no way I can explain the diversity of my tastes. Mainly metal.

Food: anything that tastes good. Italian, pizza, whatever.

Video games: Mass Effect, Assassin's Creed, Killzone, and more.
The six things I could never do without
My son, technology, vision, hearing, sources of new information...that's all.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Nature. Science. Astronomy. My place in all of it. Am I really more than just a collection of cells? We're all children of the universe, existing because of stars living and dying.
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending time with my son or my friends, playing video games, going to the movies, looking random things up, or just enjoying a night off and relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I wish I could live for a thousand years and/or die alone on Titan, gazing up at Saturn's beautiful rings in the sky above (assuming the atmosphere is clear enough).
You should message me if
If you want to get to know someone who really is different. If you're honest with yourself and those you talk to. If you're open minded. If you have tattoos and piercings, that's a plus. I'm just looking for a companion. Someone trustworthy to talk to. Someone reliable. Someone who has as many differences from me as they do similarities.. and if you can tell me who you are. You're not your job or how much money you have in the bank. You're not your khakis. So who are you?