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42 F Sunnyvale, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:28am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Not at all
Other, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English, Spanish

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My self-summary
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I am an active person, usually on the go, looking for someone with whom to do things… anything really. I love to explore new places -- especially abroad. I'm curious about the world and the people in it. I travel without an itinerary. I like to wake up in the middle of life. No resorts for me. I like to keep busy, but I can also really enjoy quiet time.

If you're looking for someone who cares more about her appearance than who she is, I'm probably not the one for you. I like to use my hands and get dirty. I like to spend my time on the things that are important to me rather than getting ready to be seen. I try to be open, honest and sincere. I want to live with integrity. I am fiercely independent (but am learning to ask for help). I have a fun personality and a boisterous and infectious laugh.

I played D1 volleyball in college, and I know quite a bit about sports. That being said, I don't get too fired up about any sports I'm not actually involved in directly. I don't have a TV either, so my exposure to shows and sports is pretty limited.

My ideal guy would share my curiosity about the world, understand (and actually like) my humor, keep pace with me intellectually and also with my energy level, and want to experience everything he can in the short time we're here.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Laughing! Being silly.

Getting to the point.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably my eyes or my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Empire of Illusion: The End of Literacy & the Triumph of Spectacle (Chris Hedges), Collapse (Diamond), Crime and Punishment (Dostoyevsky), Brave New World (Huxley), Wool Omnibus (Howey), Ender series (Card), anything by Carl Hiaasen (hilarious!), Travel Books (means I'm on the go again), non-fiction

Movies: Hitchcock (the director, not the movie), Almadovar, Amores Perros, Princess Bride, Glengary Glen Ross, Raising Arizona, All About Eve, Casablanca, Raging Bull, A Fish Called Wanda.

TV: Arrested Development, Colbert

Music: Zappa, Steely, Stevie, Jamiroquai, Ella, lots of others not quite as much as those I mentioned

Games: Pinball (no video games), Cards (munchkin, hearts, spades, pinochle, euchre), Board (cosmic encounter!, scrabble, boggle, balderdash, more...)

Food: Anything SPICY! Thai, Mexican,Sushi, Italian are my favorites. Lots & lots of summer fruit, but ripe, sweet, juicy nectarines make me swoon.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My daughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Anything that piques my interest.

My next trip.
You should message me if
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You are playful & quick to laugh.