Ok, well the essentials first I guess. I stumbled onto OKCupid via a quiz posted on livejournal.com. Took a few more, registered, and here I am.

I am married and we have a live-in girlfriend so I have all the relationships I can handle however I am always open for good conversation and making new friends.

I am a minister to the neo-pagan community and run a small multitraditional temple here locally. I have been on the pagan path for some ohh... 16 years now and have spent the last 5 years under the study of druidism and left the grove a Druid priest. Look, my view toward religion is pretty simple. Everyone is trying to figure out how to find the answers to the big questions in life and a relationship with a divine 'something' helps. What you choose to help answer those questions makes you an interesting person regardless of the religious title. I just like to compare notes with others.

I like hanging out at coffee joints and having long chats with friends. Love talking about relationships, religion, politics (ehh, a little). I dont get offended and I like chatting with spiritted people who know how to control their sensitivity (basically, not get offended as well). I can be PC, but I would rather just be open, free flowing and honest.

Im the mythical guy not looking to screw everything that walks; the guy that gives you honest advice even if it hurts; the guy that wants his friends to succeed and make the most out of life.

I am the guy seeking simple bliss in this short little life and I love bringing people along for the ride.

Wow!!! Tough question. I am a website programmer, so I have my 9-5.... actually I can work my hours whenever I want and ether at my office or home. Just gotta get the hours in. I have my temple, my family, looking to start a adult toy party business (kinda like tupporware parties only with adult toys!). I have a few other projects in the works but thats going to take time.

Great at programming websites. I am good at listening and telling people what I am hearing. I am good with my hands, or atleast thats what I have been told.

My eyes. Green, grey, light blue.. hard to say, but I have been told that my eyes stand out.

movies : Pi, Practical Magick, Big Fish, Moulon Rouge, all of the Indiana Jones movies, Dawn of the Dead (recent version).

Music : B.T., blue man group, Dave Matthews... I am pretty picky actually.

Books : Enders Game

I could "do without" alot, however, life would realy be sucking if I didnt have :

- My hands

- My music

- My loves

- My Computer

- My Daughter

- My passion

In the past 12 years I have shed tears fewer times than I have fingers.

I am the Cheshire cat. Smiling because I am the one sitting in the tree, knowing full well this is a mad mad world... all the while knowing that Im just as mad. :) ...you want an interesting chat, like to ask curious questions and dont mind having a few questions asked back? Are looking for someone who is more interested in who you are then whats under your cloaths... Want a guy to talk to who truly isnt interested in any sexual relationship (hard to find these days, truly a comodity)