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50 Tacoma, WA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 2:32pm
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Working on Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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*****Please, do not message me if you live outside of the Puget Sound area of Washington State, USA. I won't respond. In addition, I can smell a scammer a mile away, so if you start a message with an endearment, I'll just delete you...your profile is going to disappear in a few days anyway. :-) Also, I'm getting a lot of messages from men who are completely incompatible with me. Please read my profile. I am a politically liberal non-Christian and an activist for social justice. I'm just trying to save us all some time. :-D *****

I'm paring my profile way down. Any questions, please ask.

I'm a life-long learner. I enjoy being challenged, having my mind blown by new information, philosophies, insights and experiences. I surround myself with people who push boundaries, who are artistic, thoughtful, and peaceful.

I'm very independent. Content being single, don't need a relationship but would like one.

I am a healthy woman. I am quite active. Love to camp, hike, bicycle, watch movies, read. I am quite liberal socially and politically. I am spiritual but not religious. I've been called "granola", hippie, you name it. I'm a quiet Scorpio.
What I’m doing with my life
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Raising my kids who remain at home. I have three sons, one is semi-launched, two teens still at home. I work in healthcare. Will start grad school in September 2014.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
....thinking outside the box and reading between the lines. and being empathetic. I also cook fairly well. ;-) I am pretty good at growing veggies and raising chickens. And staying healthy. I guess I'm weird because I rarely get sick. I'm a good listener and problem-solver. I'm also good at other stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Quiet, reserved, empathetic. And people seem to like my naturally graying hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Any artistic medium with substance. I have my favorites but I'm open to just about anything, yes, including rap. I like to be challenged by art.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids (does that count as three things or just one?). My wonderful family and friends. My car (I drive a lot out of necessity). My house and property (it's peaceful here!). My brain (it works well!). My reading glasses (sigh).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why many American men are intimidated by smart women.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Thankful it's Friday and I'm often looking for a good Merlot at a reasonable price.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a Scorpio, are you kidding? I will admit to nothing unless I know you really well....and then.....we'll see.
You should message me if
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You're different. I like men who are smart, quirky, funny, peaceful, not stamped from the same cookie cutter as most other guys. And who doesn't think good sex means we have to reenact a porn film.