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39 Wichita, KS Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 21-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 7, 2013
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Average build
Has kid(s)
My self-summary
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I'm a tomboy who can hold her own. I like camping, fishing "yes i bait my own hook", dancing, sports, movies, music, playing pool, cards, bbq'ing and hanging out. I do drink but only when I go out. I don't need to get drunk to have fun. I do have children that I raise alone but NO I do not need or want an instant dad for them. I have everything in my life the way I want it. I am interested in finding friends go hang out with, go to a movie, get something to eat, etc... I am not interested in hooking up... I just want to meet people. I am not a shy person by any means. I am blunt and completely honest. I do not like lying... It is important that if you say you are going to do something, please do it. I have no problem talking about and/or answering questions about sex, and yes I do think about sex alot!!! Im single. But that does not mean I am interested in jumping into bed with anyone or everyone. I have had fwb situations before, not sure I am looking for that now but if it happens okay but I am not searching for it. I am still a female, I enjoy having fun, but I do want respect as well....! I am nothing special but I am a sweet person who goes all out for the people I love in my life. My kids are important and they do come first. I just want to have fun outside of the home with adults. Adult conversation!! I work for a moving company in the summer time, packing and loading. In the winter I work with and volunteer for the elderly and disabled kids. I just got out of a relationship so I am not looking to jump right back into one. If it happens than okay it happens. I do however believe in relationships which means, no I do not cheat nor will I help anyone else cheat!!!! I believe waiting on my guy hand and foot in a relationship... running bath water, laying out clothes, cooking, cleaning, back rubs, etc. I hate drama, I have enough of my own and I do keep it to myself not sharing it so please do the same with yours. I do not have a problem chatting offline but I do not give out my number, so if you want to chat, I do have a kik account. My screen name is ksdet76l, its an L lower case after the 6. I do not have a problem chatting there. Guys... I will NOT jump into bed with random guys, I dont want to f**k you or suck your d**ks so you can stop asking and sending emails thinking I am going to see u and rip my clothes off for you, not going to happen... move on!!!!! PS... I am not going to be attracted to every single guy that emails me, just like every guy I email is not going to be into me... so, if your poor, sensitive ego is going to have a temper tantrum every time you are rejected and your going to explode and insult me just to make yourself feel more like a man because nothing else in your life does, then dont bother sending me an email. I am sick of all the guys who call me fat, ugly, a slut, a bit**, etc..... because they are told not interested... here is some advice, I DONT CARE WHAT YOU THINK OF ME!!! I am happy with every pound I have, I am not conceded at all, I know I am not all that, I never said I was, and YES I AM A BITCH WHEN AND IF I HAVE TO BE, so you calling me one is a badge of honor, a slut I am not, thats why I didnt jump on your D**K and thats why your mad, so deal with it and move on....!
What I’m doing with my life
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In the summer i work for a moving company. During the winter i volunteer for the elderly and disabled children. I raise my children to be caring and helping people.
I’m really good at
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Being spontanious, fun, adventerous... I like dancing, writing poems and drawing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am patient, compassionate, a great friend and partner. I am very family oriented, and respectful.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I enjoy romance novel, "yes i know" I like horror, comedy, and drama movies. I listen to all types of music.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends, activities, music, movies, sex... "sorry had to put it"
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where i want my life to head and the people i want to enjoy it with.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home with my kids, cuddling on the couch watching movies. Every other friday, i enjoy having adult time, out dancing, playing pool, going to dinner.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am a tomboy but still a woman. I am a hopeless romantic and secretly dream of marriage. But i do not rush into things trying to force something that isnt meant to be.
You should message me if
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You would like to try and connect, become friends and see where it takes us.